12/2/2007 10:53:34 AM |
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etincelle
Montreal, QC
age: 42
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As a single parent ,lets say that i have raised my son alone for a while now, he is 18,and still in school but does have his own life going on,now i find myself in the stage of asking myself OK Now what? dating was hard while i raised him,did not want just anyone ,i wanted a partner that would accept and love my son,but no luck there then,so anyone else in this group have been where i am now???comments,suggestions....
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12/2/2007 11:19:34 AM |
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bornnaked
Charlotte, NC
age: 50
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Still there,I am fifty and have a six year old daughter so that turns some women away,I guess they figure that they have raised enough kids by now,most of the women I have dated have been in their late thirties and have kids her age so that helps.
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12/2/2007 2:39:10 PM |
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jan113
Downingtown, PA
age: 50
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My last is now in her first year of college and I am still trying to figure out what to do with my time. I use to work two jobs and go to school, I don't want to throw myself into being totally busy with anything, and I am nervous about committing to anything. So, I am right there still figuring it out. 
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12/2/2007 4:36:16 PM |
anyone's been in the now what stage?? |
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etincelle
Montreal, QC
age: 42
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it is as if we have wrapped our wholeself into the kids and to then come to point of finding yourself again,no? I am not saying that was the best way though of doing but this is my story.
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12/2/2007 5:57:39 PM |
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anglou73
Chardon, OH
age: 34
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I have been a single Mom now for 8 years. My children are now 15,11,and 9. Their father is never around to help with anything. Its been 2 years since he has seen or called them. So I have been on my own. I have tried dating but only found men that see my kids as a burden and something that just gets in their way. So for years I have put dating on the back burner. My kids are part of my life and any man I meet needs to accept that first.Now that my kids are older I want to try again. so here I am.
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12/3/2007 3:17:19 PM |
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etincelle
Montreal, QC
age: 42
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Anglou, i really hope you get your heart's desire, choose good you are worth it and your kids also.
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12/3/2007 5:56:20 PM |
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nekoshinda
Albuquerque, NM
age: 45
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I'm there now. My son is almost 16 and dating. He worries about me, and who I might date, just like I worry about him. He has a nice girlfriend right now. But that leaves me home alone a few nights a week. Yes. now what?
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