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justbeingmyself
Stockton, CA
age: 27
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Ok, here's something everyone should have an opinion on. Is it possible to find LOVE, if so
how? And, if you thought you found love would you (a. keep your options open, or (b. focus all your attention on that person?
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| 12/3/2007 6:49:37 AM |
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lfy
Aurora, CO
age: 18
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I believe love is something that lasts and something special to hold unto, when one finds it, getting rid of it shouldn't even be an option. I personally don't believe many find love and that's what makes it so special and hard to find.. I doubt many even find a fraction of it, with the way the world is today. . But once found, it will not be lost.. I still have yet to find it but it's still good to try!!
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| 12/3/2007 1:15:25 PM |
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chinatown_girl
Oyster Bay, NY
age: 19
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if i found love that would mean i found the person who would be my husband and life partner, the future father of my kids. if a relationship reaches that level i don't think either of us would still be looking for anyone else. if he felt he wanted to continue looking, then i would wish him well and send him on his way.
if it was a crush or someone i liked a lot, without the love and commitment, then i could understand the options staying open.
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| 12/3/2007 1:52:01 PM |
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danteodio_msn
Tempe, AZ
age: 20
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i believe in love, i believe love is the feeling that two people share and are willing to do ANYThing for one a nother. love requires total support and is VERY hard to maintain. but the pay offs are worth it. i was in love and engaged. but she decided to cheat on me while i was in iraq and i forgave her and always would of but she said she couldnt forgive herself or what she did to me and then left. thats why i'm here looking for friends, special friends, maybe even a life partner. you DONT find love it finds you, meaning it will happen when you least except it. you cant make it happen but if the time, place, and person are right it WILL happen.
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| 12/3/2007 2:42:07 PM |
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mugan
Gresham, OR
age: 25
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I'm having a hard time with the Love thing. 3 times I thought I had it and all 3 ended badly. Yet if you do find Love go all in, focus on that one. You dont want regrets, look back on life and say "I'd still be with her if only I had done this different or not done that".
I myself want so badly to believe in Love yet I cant help but think that its a myth. A myth made up to enspire hope, to keep us looking and to push forward in life for that off chance that we might find it. 
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| 12/4/2007 2:05:24 PM |
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justbeingmyself
Stockton, CA
age: 27
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It sounds like all of you believe in love , but what do you do when the person you love is gone? How do you keep trying when it hurts to do so?
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| 12/4/2007 2:11:20 PM |
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mugan
Gresham, OR
age: 25
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Remember the goodstuff, the things that make you smile. And learn from the hurt. If you keep your head down you might not see the one that will make you happy.
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| 12/5/2007 7:38:35 PM |
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sweetcheeks85
Centreville, VA
age: 22
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Love is something that comes along when you least expect it. If you're out searching for it, it will neva come to you. Plus you're probably looking in all the wrong places.
Love is when you both can trust each other, be there for each other through thick and thin, be willing to compromise, and respect each other's space all at the same time.
I have yet to find it, but it's both the men and myself that are at fault...
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| 12/6/2007 7:12:07 AM |
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johnny122379
Dallas, TX
age: 27
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The girl above me is correct.... I had it once and lost it...it takes a while to get over, but in the end you'll see it wasn't meant to be and something better will come.
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| 12/6/2007 9:22:39 AM |
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justbeingmyself
Stockton, CA
age: 27
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Now that's funny. But, my friend here is right, you do have to put some work
into finding love, because if you wait to for love to come to you, it may never come. Now
let's say, you've found the woman/man of your dreams, but they let you know that their not
going to have SEX before they get married. Do you, (a. respect their wishes, and just wait, or (b. find someone that will, and leave the other one behind?
[Edited 12/6/2007 12:00:28 PM]
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| 12/6/2007 1:53:56 PM |
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sweetcheeks85
Centreville, VA
age: 22
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It totally depends if you really love the person who is so called waiting for marriage, sex is great don't get me wrong, but if the person you love wants to wait, you have to decide what's more important. If you can't wait and go and have sex w/ someone else just to get your jollies off, then she finds out and you loose the trust if not the relationship. If you wait, then you loose out then and there, but the real test will be if it was worth the wait. That is something only you can answa.
I neva had to deal w/ that issue, but then again I don't even know if I could...
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| 12/6/2007 2:11:38 PM |
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mugan
Gresham, OR
age: 25
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I waited for my high school sweet heart. When we did have sex, she then wanted to know what other men feel like. So she cheated.
I say get the sex out of the way, so you can get to the other things that matter more.
I wont push for sex yet if it happens thats ok too.
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