| 12/3/2007 3:57:27 PM |
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hott2trott
Aurora, CO
age: 25
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is it odd or offputting that im 24 and a mother of 2 and im divorced? it hasnt been that long but im finding that guys run the opposite direction and i dont get it!!! 
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| 12/3/2007 4:08:05 PM |
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mugan
Gresham, OR
age: 27
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Your Hot! 
Thing is guys dont like drama, the childrens dad will forever be a part of your life. There are guys out there that dont mind dealing with that stuff, its going to be hard to find a guy like that, due to all the player. 
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| 12/4/2007 1:36:01 AM |
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justbeingmyself
Stockton, CA
age: 28
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My friend is right. There's a lot of players, and a lot of guys that aren't players
don't know how to deal with the drama. But you'll find someone, just keep your eyes open.
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| 12/4/2007 2:30:42 AM |
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twinox
Nucla, CO
age: 24
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yeah what he said  nah youll find the right one just dont give up im not giving up and ive been trying to find the right girl my whole life and im 22 but it has to be love   
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| 12/4/2007 4:14:39 AM |
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thegreek00
Westport, MA
age: 21
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i wouldn't run the other way hott2trott i guess the men you go out with are cowards
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| 12/4/2007 4:34:22 AM |
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thegreek00
Westport, MA
age: 21
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ah thats bullshit kid, you are 19, its easy to sit there and fantasize about it, but trrust me, there is far more to dating a WOMAN WITH KIDS THAN buying them icecream and taking them tot he park once a week.
as i said before, some men will act like they are better for not caring about a woman having kids.
ur probably right but i mean i do think alot of guys are just cowards but i guess we all can be at times.
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| 12/4/2007 5:31:56 AM |
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waterdog27
Charlotte, NC
age: 29
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i think when you find a guy mature enough to handle the kids or ready to act as a father... it will be the right guy until then... players and pussies are the only guys that you will come across
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| 12/4/2007 12:24:45 PM |
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das12345
Decatur, IL
age: 20
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well at 24 most guys are just outta collge and dont have money tospend on kids ><
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| 12/4/2007 12:42:01 PM |
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danteodio_msn
Tempe, AZ
age: 22
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i wouldnt run. i know what it' like to have kids and be divorced it blows to go through it alone
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| 12/4/2007 1:10:53 PM |
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mugan
Gresham, OR
age: 27
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The other thing both guys and gals look at.... Is who and what made the relationship end. Having children is a big thing and to end a relationship w/ kids, someone had to mess up big time.
Point being they dont want that to happen to them. So they stay away from those that have ended a relationship w/ kids in tow.
I once dated a girl w/ kids, I wont do it again. The children were great. The mom was a slutty head case. 
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| 12/4/2007 1:14:47 PM |
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theewhisper
Appleton, WI
age: 30
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28 and a virgin am I the only one ? tell me.......
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| 12/4/2007 2:40:49 PM |
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justbeingmyself
Stockton, CA
age: 28
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Ok??? WOW, I bet you didn't see all this when you posted this. But here's the thing, almost every guy you meet is going to be like one of these guys. So I hope your ready, because before you find the best(and there were some good ones here), you'll meet the worst. If you ever need advise you know where to find me.
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| 12/4/2007 3:10:55 PM |
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hott2trott
Aurora, CO
age: 25
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thats sweet. and my kids dont need a father and thats not what im looking for.Truth be told, i am the one that ended it because i wouldnt and will not stand for abusiveness.Period. And as far as im concerned if you turn and run, it shows just how boyish you really are and i dont want a boy. I want a man.
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| 12/4/2007 4:39:28 PM |
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justbeingmyself
Stockton, CA
age: 28
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Well ROCK ON rockstar!!!
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| 12/4/2007 8:36:04 PM |
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lizerdking
Waveland, IN
age: 27
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I will take on what ever anyone puts my way it is apart of life so people need to grow up and learn o take life to the fullest kids are wonderfull ifyou cant ge along with the kids what makes you think you are going to get along with the mouther
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