12/4/2007 11:11:37 AM |
should sex be in the same catagory as love |
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shadowking
Galena, IL
age: 39
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considering the lust and temptation and desire for sex that the human body has been cursed to indure for the greater part of life ( at least 3/4 ).alongside the " pain & agony " of turning down that sure thing. to the "suffering & stress" o9f being questioned and accused....abused! and for what?all because you wanted to get a little somethin' different.it doesn't mean you love your mate anyless. hell...my favorite cake in the world is " pineapple-upsidedown cake" I can eat it everyday. but sometimes you just get that hunger for PIE. and really, whats wrong with having a slice, it's not going to take away your love for that cake...but..I believe it will bring back the intensity and flavor which you may have forgottin'
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12/4/2007 1:11:46 PM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 36 online now!
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hmm...what a creative way of putting it.not only is it ok to cheat,but it enhances your relationship? 
soo...does your other hand get jealous
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12/4/2007 3:33:50 PM |
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oldcarman
Mount Airy, NC
age: 40
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Oh yea when my wife was cheating on me it made our relationship a lot better. Blah. If you want something different stay single.
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12/4/2007 5:09:58 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46 online now!
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Agree with oldcarman ... stay single 
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12/4/2007 5:14:32 PM |
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superscreename
Suffolk, VA
age: 30
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One is an emotion sometimes associated with the physical action, and the other is a physical action sometimes associated with the emotion. What category are we talking about, actions or emotions? It seems as though you are trying to justify cheating on your mate. If this is the case, then you don't even know what love is.
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12/4/2007 5:16:45 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46 online now!
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Awesome words superscreename 
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12/4/2007 5:22:38 PM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 47
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Want variety???? Stay single...do not marry, do not get involved in a relationship. The terms you want are no strings attached, fxxk buddy, just for fun, hooker etc etc. Need I say more? Food is one thing, individuals have emotions/feelings... and they are not to be toyed with. Was married to a guy that thought like you...could ya guess? Now he is free to have anyone he wants and guess who he wants the most? not happenin. I don't want something everyone else has had. You might say too many cooks in the kitchen spoiled the marriage.
signed...
free at last
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12/4/2007 5:29:38 PM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49 online now!
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I really wonder about this...
Is it just a difference in the sexes? Or just me that I can't wrap my mind around having a f*** buddy?
Long ago ! I had one night stands that I remember fondly.
Now? I know what I want....
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12/4/2007 5:35:32 PM |
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superscreename
Suffolk, VA
age: 30
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Thanks Chopper
ANd Stella, no it isn't just a difference in the sexes. Some humans are just more callous than others. They have been desensetized or have done it to themselves, but both sexes can go both ways.
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12/4/2007 5:36:22 PM |
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italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53
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i don't get it. If you "love " somebody, why would you even think about getting a little noicky (sp?) on the side? There must be something really missing in the "love " you share with that person! Doesn't sound like love to me. Sounds like feeding your ego and CHEATING!!
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12/4/2007 5:54:48 PM |
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tx_blu_eyz67
San Antonio, TX
age: 40
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if u want different then stay single.cheating is not a means of love.and i dont see how it can spice things up in a reltionship.get for real.
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