12/6/2007 3:55:28 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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Most people.. after that first meeting.. will often give clear signals as to if they would like a second meeting.. but sometimes, they are very unclear.
I invited a guy from here to come to my hometown and spend some time ( he stayed in a hotel) He was a total whiner lol
When he told me that he would have to go home a day early ( problems with kids) I'm sure he saw the relief on my face. I quickly helped him to pack.. practically pushed him to his car and shoved his ass in lol. He sorta picked up on this and asked me if I really wanted to see him again I explained I had a nice time but felt we were not compatable.
What signs do you look for to know if the other person is not interested in a second meeting?
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12/6/2007 4:05:16 PM |
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lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 54
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When I stick the post it note on his forehead with a huge "L" written on it...
because all he could discuss was sex
because all he could discuss was his ex
because all he could discuss was his job
because all he could discuss was himself
[Edited 12/6/2007 4:15:42 PM]
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12/6/2007 4:05:24 PM |
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davewave1
Ann Arbor, MI
age: 60
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If, upon the very first instant of physically seeing me, she does not smile broadly and kindly, experience tells me there is no "chemistry" for her, and further time together will be mutually wasted.......... That is my read on this, Ms. True....
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12/6/2007 4:09:40 PM |
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butterfly58
Arcadia, MO
age: 58
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When they cut the meeting short like what happened to you!
When they act like they did me a complete "favor" in honoring me with their presence
When they can't laugh and enjoy whatever even if we both know it's not a connection of sorts.
When they expect things they shouldn't
When they're rude, whiny, snobbish and unable to enjoy the moment!
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12/6/2007 4:09:41 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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Dave.. I think that is a pretty good sign to go by. I think we all look for that sign the moment we meet
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12/6/2007 4:12:07 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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Actually this guy called for about 2 weeks asking to give it another try. You can only be polite for so long before ya hafta get rather rude.. which worked with him. The guy has 5 teenagers and they must of called 15 times a day! I sure knew where the kids got their whining from!
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12/6/2007 4:12:37 PM |
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moose3098
Benton Harbor, MI
age: 58 online now!
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I,ve only met one woman so far. Thought I'd be able to tell by the look in her eyes. After we finished dinner and were leaving I didn't think she was interested in me, but then she asked me to call her later. I've seen her five times in the last couple of months and I STILL can never read her.
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12/6/2007 4:15:06 PM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Ok do tell tru..who was the whiner?
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12/6/2007 4:16:41 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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Moose.. there are just some people that can't be read it seems
And Nancy? No way am I saying!
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12/6/2007 4:16:43 PM |
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davewave1
Ann Arbor, MI
age: 60
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The number of phone calls speaks of desperation of a sort on his part. I know of no mature person who desires to be involved in situations sending strong signals of desperation.
Experience speaks to me that there almost always is that initial "Spark" that starts the fire.........long term, or not.
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12/6/2007 4:18:20 PM |
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moose3098
Benton Harbor, MI
age: 58 online now!
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But Tru, I wanta be able to read her, dammit!
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12/6/2007 4:19:30 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50 online now!
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I don't know what his reasoning was to call me constantly like that for 2 weeks. It's like it just didn't register to him that I really wasn't interested. Finally.. after 2 weeks of calls, he finally said " Well, I give up then" But then sent me one last email just to make sure I wasn't interested
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12/6/2007 4:19:48 PM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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I agree Dave desperation is a big turn off.
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12/6/2007 4:20:30 PM |
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moose3098
Benton Harbor, MI
age: 58 online now!
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HELLO!
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12/6/2007 4:22:26 PM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 55
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guys, i have this big ole crystal ball i'm selling pretty cheap. i was going to sell it on ebay, but i'll give ya'll first shot!!
You look deeply into the glass and it gives you a clear shot of reading a woman. It depends on where she stands while you are peering through the glass, but if you move it around a bit, it changes. haha
peace
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