slainte
Mohawk, NY
age: 64
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I guess it all starts with the profile, which I tried to fill out as best as I could...but maybe it stinks....tell me....
then there are the threads...I seem to be killing them...what's that about???
What am I doing wrong....
never done anything like this so I really am in the dark, and it isn't getting any lighter....
suggestions???????
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boricualady
Hayward, CA
age: 40
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First off you need a photo or perhaps you have submitted one and its still under review? Profiles with photos get WAY more attention than those without. Also your Profile description is very bare. Describe the positive things about you! What are your interests? What is it you love to do in your spare time? Do you have any special talents or hobbies? Many times it is common ground that captures someones attention as well. For instance if you spent your life breeding horses and raising cattle you may catch a ranchers attention and conversation would flow so naturally because you both have long time similar life experiences to share.
Get creative, its not just about describing what you look like, its about describing WHO you are. Those of us well past the twenty something age have been molded and shaped by life in general and it is the road we have traveled that makes us the unique individuals that we are today! Let everybody know how special your really are because there is nobody just like you on this planet!
Good luck in your search hun.
~Darlene~
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