| 3/10/2010 4:53:46 PM |
Y cant men like the big girls were sexy in our own way |
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derfgutta
Owensboro, KY
age: 33
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| 3/10/2010 6:29:38 PM |
Y cant men like the big girls were sexy in our own way |
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ky1956
Hopkinsville, KY
age: 54
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Most of the women I date are bigger.If they are nice and honest there is no problem.Big Girls 
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| 3/10/2010 7:00:03 PM |
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me_and_my_puppy
Covington, KY
age: 31
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wow, i have to comment on this one...
ladies, PLEASE tell me that you dont have a body preference that you dig in potential mates. Do it, and i will let it go...(and add that in my opinion, your self esteem level is way too low right now to be dating...anyone)...
i dont think that guys that dont "like big girls" are jerks. i just think that it is not their personal preference. everyone has a certain body type that they like best in the opposite sex. i, myself, am not very physically attracted to "skinny guys"...so are tall and thin guys crying and saying that i am a jerk and an a-hole, etc? if so, that even makes me more UN-attracted to those types of guys. (oh yeah, and shows me how desperate that they are.)
what i want to say here is that if you think that you are a "big girl" and you are thinking things like "why dont men like me because of my body?!, etc." then YOU probably arent really ok with your body, either. And instead of admitting that to yourself, it is easier to place the blame elsewhere. It is not fair to blame only the guys. You have got to love yourself, and that includes your body. And whether you get there by wanting to be healthier and losing a little weight, or just changing your thought processes, once you're there...a LOT more guys will be attracted to you than they are now.
If a "skinny guy" approached me with confidence and knew who he was, and he liked that person and was proud of himself, and acted like he wouldnt break into tears if i rejected him...trust me; i would probably look twice at him, rather than at the "super-duper smokin hot guy that looks like he is just my perfect type" that keeps crying and saying things like "why cant any decent girls like the big guys?"...
some of my thoughts.
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| 3/13/2010 12:07:33 AM |
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unwanted78
Louisville, KY
age: 31
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My opinion on this mater. I try to be a decent man myself, and do what I can to that extent. But I have a little size myself, so I get overlooked being a decent mane I guess, hehe. Every wants someone fitter or prettier to inspire to physicly so they can feel better about themselves thoug looks are not the only aspect of life to aspire to. The world is somewhat shallow, as if looks and fitness is the reason of insperation its, but to some part its also a way to be more productive in life the fitter you are in life the easier life is to do activities and to better ones self. If you are over weight do you care about yourself, if you are overweight are you striveing to better yourself? Being overweight is hard but its not fit peoples fault we are overweight, me myself I want to better myself and have strived to do so off and on but being over weight in a since is an easy way to get beatdown emotionaly and puts people under emotional stess to better oneself. Its easy to beatyourself up when you are overweight. so not doing what you can to get fitter or get out or past what ever emotional ties that keeps you over weight is not something to inspire to its a negative since of asperation. So if people who are over weight like me are beating ourselves up is that realy something to inspire to. When I was younger I didn't not know better I guess it was sometime before or around the middle of my single digits years, I use to think to myself and still did into my mid to late 20's give or take whats wrong with me why don't I get respect or attentsinl. When I little I was skinny I started gaining weight at the inbetween the ages of 6 and 7 and didn't not think much about it till withing the last year to 3 years give or take. When I was young I thought no one cares about me I am not spectial to noone so I guess I thought to myself I need to punish myself as if I deserved punishment I did not know the name of my punishment but I just thought to eat myself to death but I did not get real fat real fast but over time I did. I lost weight in spurts when I was younger and I have been trying to lift weight since the age of forteen. Off and on I developed muscle quiting the gym in spurts when tight with moneny. I don't think thoughs down spurts of working out helped but anyway as I was saying I did not think much about it till a year to 3 years ago how I have hurt myself getting overweight partially for being sinsetive in wanting more respect and attenssion/love than I got. I sined I put gluteny on myself as a child I was over sinsative and a bit confussed as a child and got the ideal to eat myself to death as a punishment. I was a kid so I did not know the name of it or even that I sined I was a kid and didn't know any better but I let my sin get the better of me I didn't realy even understant the name of my sin till I was in my teens I grew up feeling invisible and not very noticed or appreciated. Still feel that way but want to get past sinning like that. I decided 5 or more years ago give or take if I am going to be a looser I want to be a looser on my own terms!!! Is it realy the decent men or women's falt we were oversensitive or stupid and or confused to do better for ourselves!!! Why Should people in better standing in life want us bigger people if we hold on to our own negative affect to inspire others we make ourselves overweight is that their fault or our own? Every one wants insperation to do better are they inspireing to do better by wanting someone who just don't care about themself or to do better for themself??? Sure it would be better and easier to have some understanding but we as overweight people for the most part have hurt are selves by giveing up and not trying harder to better ourselves!!! We hurt ourselves?? And society as a problem with makeing stuff thats better for you more costly by the amounts like a big bag of chips or junk food. If its better for you it costs more then it also depends on how we portion the bad stuff over the good??? Depression Thats my take on the issue
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| 3/13/2010 12:56:45 AM |
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brandonjay16
Manchester, KY
age: 18
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hey i like big girls and most are sexy....
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| 3/13/2010 2:21:10 PM |
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jugheads72
Bardstown, KY
age: 38
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you got that right baby...
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| 3/13/2010 4:52:51 PM |
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rodmanusmc
Glasgow, KY
age: 57
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Actually, it dosen't matter the size of the woman. It's who she is on the inside that makes her beautiful on the outside. I've met very beautiful women, only to be made ugly because of what's in their hearts.
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| 3/15/2010 2:46:12 PM |
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singlesteven
Springfield, KY
age: 28
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nothing wrong with bigger woman. i love em. they love me. whats wrong with that. ppl who judge on looks are stupid. most of the nicest funest most honest ppl are bigger. hell i was, nothing wrong with it. dont get me wrong, you ought to be attracted to the person, but if your that judgemental, you got the problem.
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| 3/15/2010 5:49:26 PM |
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thickness4u
Springfield, OH
age: 39
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I think the term you're looking for is "social conditioning". Everyone has grown up being fed the same line of garbage all their lives about how skinny somehow equals pretty. this is a common misconception when most of the time skinny girls don't take care of themselves as good, don't carry themselves as good, don't have as good a mastry of appropriate social behavior, and quite franky aren't as good in bed as a big woman. There is only one reason for this. it's because they don't have to. they think that because they are skinny, they are beautiful and they don't have to worry about it. They know that on any given day, men will line up around the block to get a piece of that. YYYUUCK!! Too often, women base their self-worth on their waistline. This is total bull and the most beautiful women in the world inside and out have always been big women. A big woman needs to have a personality, witt, charm, a good sense of humor, and take care of herself. She knows that she has to go that extra mile. Well for all the big women out there, THANK YOU!! I appreciate you more then you will ever know. I would walk past 100 skinny girls, just to get to that one proud, confident, sexy, big woman who doesn't need the rest of the world to tell her that she's beautiful.................. because she will ALWAYS have men like me.
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| 3/15/2010 11:24:08 PM |
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unwanted78
Louisville, KY
age: 31
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Maybe the big women here should consider big men, if they are not getting attentions frome fit pretty boys? Why do you have to have a cobana boy or a fit movie star or athletic man? its apparent they can be a bit shallow to big women like most every one is to a big man? Have you bigger women realy Over exstended your talerance for accepting a big man like me that may have a bit more understanding where you are comeing from? maybe you all are a bit shallow as well so get a taste of of your own shallowness? Like some fit people or pretty people get? at times? are you realy out of options or just want something better than others may feel you deserve?
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| 3/16/2010 7:55:14 PM |
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gizmohardy
Owensboro, KY
age: 38 online now!
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Actually, it dosen't matter the size of the woman. It's who she is on the inside that makes her beautiful on the outside. I've met very beautiful women, only to be made ugly because of what's in their hearts.
Now here is the smartest thing I have read all night. Don't all of you realize? When we are old and gray and all our "shit" is sagging to the ground I will choose to be with my best friend, the one who is beautiful on the inside. Kudos to you Rodman...
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| 3/16/2010 8:26:00 PM |
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rebeccajo
Vanceburg, KY
age: 39
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and where were u all my life?
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| 3/16/2010 8:29:39 PM |
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gizmohardy
Owensboro, KY
age: 38 online now!
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and where were u all my life?
Yea no shit LOL
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| 3/16/2010 8:41:04 PM |
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beckygarcia69
Lexington, KY
age: 41
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i m bbw and proud of it 
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| 3/17/2010 2:44:44 PM |
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cynmullins
Covington, KY
age: 29
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Cuz they brains ain't wired right!!! 
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| 3/17/2010 4:35:25 PM |
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eviance
New Hope, KY
age: 29
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If a guy is going to be a d*ck over your size then he isn't a decent guy to start with. I was a big girl, leaving my husband kinda changed that, but I know the feeling. Not to mention I still have the ugly a** stretch marks and such. A woman SHOULD be about curves!
From my bi standpoint, I very rarely find skinny chics worth looking at. Last time a guy called me fat I told him: "That's ok, fat girl makes great blankie and pillow, terrible couch and you aren't getting any of them, hope you find warmth with a toothpick!"
God bless the voluptuous!
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| 3/20/2010 5:49:26 PM |
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blue_eyedbeauty
Manchester, KY
age: 18
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Try being a teenaged girl that is not one of those skinny chicks I mean there are more men out there that like bigger women than there are teenaged guys my own age! It is so horrible! I just want one guy that loves me for who I am and not for my looks!
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| 3/28/2010 3:02:31 PM |
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kystreetbiker
Elizabethtown, KY
age: 21
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i think all women deserve to be treated like people instead of just some girl you know
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| 3/30/2010 9:45:14 AM |
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longhaul4you
Owensboro, KY
age: 53
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well in my case ! i love a bbw and if ur a bbw in the owensboro area Hit me up! theres nothing like a big Playground ! 
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| 3/30/2010 9:54:14 AM |
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owensborogirl2
Owensboro, KY
age: 46
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hello longhaul..
and where would the play ground be?
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| 4/1/2010 4:29:15 PM |
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nancikay
Lexington, KY
age: 62
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I wish I could find an older guy who likes BBWs. Their profiles either say height/weight proportionate or else they don't say at all what their preference is. It should be ONE SIZE FITS ALL! I wish I could be thinner than I am, sure. If I am lucky enough to lose this weight at some point, I hope those guys who disregarded me before due to my size, don't come around and want some loving because I will just IGNORE them. Shallow Hals are not welcome. I loved Hal when he was blind to size. It was so sweet! Love Grows where my Rosemary Goes...
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| 5/3/2010 3:54:33 PM |
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midnightraven94
Louisville, KY
age: 26 online now!
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to me i love Big Beautiful Women because there easy to cuddle with!!! To me i dont care what you look like all bbw are beautiful in god eyes.... just because a girl is like a plastic barbie makes me sick because its like there sick or something
[Edited 5/3/2010 3:56:26 PM PST]
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| 5/17/2010 11:43:37 PM |
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bradley10
Campbellsville, KY
age: 33
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I like big women. I like women with curves and being full figured.
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| 5/18/2010 8:44:13 PM |
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catbrg
Catlettsburg, KY
age: 51
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I am here in ashland ky.Email me if you dare.
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| 5/22/2010 4:18:16 PM |
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bubbajg
Barbourville, KY
age: 47
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im a big guy love bbw lol
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| 5/23/2010 7:52:53 AM |
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bubbajg
Barbourville, KY
age: 47
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i love the bbw most men and women alike are so hung up on themselves they cant notice anyone else
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| 5/23/2010 1:11:40 PM |
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small_townwoman
Marion, KY
age: 43
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The following is from one of my BLOGS
Dear Sir,
If you are looking for “Barbie” you can stop reading right here. LOL
Please let us be realistic she is a fantasy, mainly plastic, and she cheated on “Ken” with “GI JOE”. LOL
One can still be “Sexy” and not be “Barbie”.
Some woman in today’s world do not believe in plastic surgery to improve themselves and if they do, in my opinion, they are foolish and not being honest with themselves or others. There are more important things in a relationship than color of hair, eyes, shape of nose, cellulite, and whether or not they are “perky”.
Granted physical attraction is a plus but should never be used as a basis of a relationship.
When using physical attributes as a “judge” then you miss out on the most important things that one should be looking for, like; intelligence, sincerity, self-sufficiency, loyalty, character, compassion, passion, humor, affection, family oriented, personality, wit, charm, morals, confidence, integrity, values, thoughtful, and most of all have mutual interests with you. Not in that order of course, LOL.
It's who a woman is on the inside that makes her beautiful on the outside. Some “Barbie” types are very beautiful women outside, but ugly because of what's in their hearts.
[Edited 5/23/2010 1:12:22 PM PST]
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| 5/23/2010 4:03:35 PM |
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ladyrae85
Beaver Dam, KY
age: 46
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I'm a BBW and I get ignored or overhear jokes about me. God loves me and when he's ready He will send me someone special.
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| 5/23/2010 6:36:08 PM |
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kael27
Elizabethtown, KY
age: 22
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I guess you can ask the "big guys" the same question. Or the hairy guys. Or the lanky guys. lol.
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| 5/28/2010 7:58:51 PM |
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purtysweet
Louisville, KY
age: 54
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sexy mama in her own rite....lmao.. more of me to love .. more cushion for the pushing .. lol guys didnt just make these up for no reason .. GOD BLESS the man with slow hand who has all day to discover whats under the covers LOL
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| 5/31/2010 12:57:09 PM |
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dubosegregory50
Louisville, KY
age: 46
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so true ms lady well spoken but now let talk my name is gregory and yours? first it a great honor to be able to introduce myself to you this wont be long straight and to the point i am felling you and need to get with you and chat see where we can go from here maybe we rise as friends to something greater they say it gets greater later i guess this is what they are talking about you huh? hollo back one time just to show me how real you are boo e-mail address is dubosegregory50@[blocked] or 5028350606 anytime you feel u need of some special words to lead to a smile on your face and in your heart as well hollo back you will be at peace one good day ms lady
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| 5/31/2010 7:40:29 PM |
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benzohol
Louisville, KY
age: 23
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Mammals are naturally attracted to a mate that appears healthy. It's more of a sub conscience thing though, so it's not always broadcasted. We, as organisms, need to know that our mate will be able to survive and persevere through the hardships that life will bring. That's how we ensure the well-being of our offspring.
I won't out rightly express that I find a woman who is hardly able to walk due to poor life choices unattractive, but I'll leave one to infer. Having 'meat on the bones,' however, is a different story altogether. I personally find these types of women more attractive than your typical super model type. What it all comes down to, though, is the person inside the body. I would like to think that most guys also fall into this school of thought.
Does that answer your question?
[Edited 5/31/2010 7:46:30 PM PST]
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