| 4/15/2007 8:03:03 PM |
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unboltedflame
Eufaula, AL
age: 31
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I can't possible tell you how sick I am of getting all these pervs IM me. Do you like to watch? What are you wearing? Do you have any naked shots? Does anyone talk to a woman like shes a woman anymore? In the last few days i've heard some real nasty things, and all i can say is "what were you thinking"? Do you think telling me you live with your mom is gonna turn me on? Do you think 2 sentences after we say hello im going to turn on my cam and show you my goods? I mean, is no one interested in talking at all. It seems like the only people who are contacting me use this as a free porn site. Its making me a little angry. I, myself, am a straight freak, and love sex, but the way in which it is brought up and the rude comments that are made, not to mention way to much information on some peoples parts, has got me doubting in the process. I'm open for advice.
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| 4/15/2007 8:21:39 PM |
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
age: 61 online now!
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Flame those are the ones that contact you first the ones you want to talk to will get around to it they just think before they approach a woman so hang in there.
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| 4/15/2007 10:45:40 PM |
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traumadez
Redlands, CA
age: 44
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Why do you accept the IMs?
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| 4/16/2007 5:49:38 AM |
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unboltedflame
Eufaula, AL
age: 31
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I usually accept the im's because they start off, hey, how are you doing, or nice profile, then the minute we start talking they turn porn on me. I'm still unsure about the whole internet dating thing, I feel like I should explore all my options, but dang, if I wanted cheap come on lines and rude behavior, I could go down to Cowboys and get enough of both in one night. I just don't understand why people think they can talk to a complete stranger like that, and expect to get anywhere but ignored. LOL, maybe my expectations are to high.
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| 4/16/2007 9:10:40 AM |
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windroper
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 47
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I just don't IM. Problem solved. 
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| 4/16/2007 9:13:27 AM |
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jondalar
Reno, NV
age: 53
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Hello Flame
I know you are proud of the tattoo but bareing a breast to show it brings out the perv in those that start off nice and attracts the pervs right off. Sex is the number one search on the internet. I almost made a stupid remark about your breast when I first checked out your profile and I do not concider myself a perv. I am sure windroper has gotten some of the same hits on her IM. You can reduce the problems with men by sharing the tatts with friends only.
Jondalar
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| 4/16/2007 10:20:09 AM |
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wolfy9459
Dayton, OH
age: 45
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Flame you might be surprised that those pervs do actually get women that will do what they ask. Dose not say much for the woman or the perv. I think from what Iv seen your posts and looking at your profile, you seem to be a nice person. So hang in there you will find a nice guy. Im sorry that these pervs have made you feel bad. But as a friend said to me one time. "Dont let people like that get free rent in your head".
Kenny
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| 4/16/2007 7:11:23 PM |
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shilowsmom
Beloit, WI
age: 52
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Kenny
Who ever your friend was I love the statement...I definately am going to use that one "dont let people like that get free rent in your head",
If's great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks
Luann
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| 4/16/2007 9:15:06 PM |
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unboltedflame
Eufaula, AL
age: 31
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I dont think I bared my breast, I think I showed off my tatoos which I am proud of and shows a little of my personality. I can look at a mans tatoos without asking him to show me his erection. Come on! That cant actually be an excuse as to why people talk like that. Thats kinda like saying a woman wearing skimpy clothes is asking to get raped. It says to show who you really are. To let your personality come thru. Well, im a tatooed, chain smoking, opinionated southern woman, who doesn't care to be talked to like a slut.
But...I do like your comment Kenny. I'll have to remember that.
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| 4/16/2007 9:53:06 PM |
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jondalar
Reno, NV
age: 53
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Flame
You asked for advice and I shared my opinion. It is a mans point of view and you have yours. I like the Tattoo and every delicate inch of exposed breast. No complaints from me just my opinion.
Jondalar
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| 4/16/2007 11:11:54 PM |
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traumadez
Redlands, CA
age: 44
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When I asked why you accepted the IM's you said they start off nice (basically), then turn to porn. My point was that I generally don't accept IMs unless I have gotten to know them on the forums, through emails first, or like thier profile and am feeling brave! lol And then I'm ready to close the window at the 1st sign of trouble!!!
As for the picture of your tatoo... you're right it doesn't give them the any rights... but it seems to invite trouble!
When I go out with a few of my friends and we're dressed... oh, say... to attract attention... we do just that! But sometimes we have to ignore some unwanted attention! It's the same on here, wouldn't you agree?
JMHO Dez
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| 4/17/2007 5:01:10 PM |
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unboltedflame
Eufaula, AL
age: 31
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your right traumadez, i'll just have to be more careful who i choose to let in my world. i've just seen alot of porn on the net, its everywhere, i didn't think my little boob shot would elicit that much attention. Or make me seem to be something i'm not.
And opinions are what I asked for, i wasn't offended jondalar, lol, and nothing about me has ever been called deicate. Thanks
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| 4/17/2007 6:09:24 PM |
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mom1st
York, SC
age: 30
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I haven't recieved any IM perverts (thus far, and don't want to), but I have had some raunchy, perverted emails sent to me. I automatically blocked that user so that it would not continue, so I am sure that they got the point if they tried to again. I am new to this internet chatting, and it blew my mind, some of the stuff that men say. I think its easier for pervs on the net b/c its not face to face, so the have more nerv to say things that even they probably wouldn't say to a woman's face. They know their not gonna get slapped. Good luck and take care.
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| 4/17/2007 6:09:58 PM |
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xgymnast
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 34
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Thanks, Flame. That needed to be said. I view guys like that as biological weapons- guys with more diseases than you'd like to think about.
I'm sure someone rewards their behavior, so it continues. When women decide that we are strong enough to stand up and choose good men, the behavior will stop.
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| 4/17/2007 8:05:35 PM |
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bogbob460
Grand Prairie, TX
age: 47
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Well hello there!! you are very right it is very hard to fine anybody that just want to talk , now it look like that all they want to do is talk about sex!! ALL I like to do is to meet smoebody that I can talk too. the way I,m you have to know the person first, just to see where you are standing first and to see if you get alone with the person . you can say that I,m the old way i like to take my time with the women to see were i stand with her you can say that i am kind of sly at first but ones i know you i,m not by the way you do have a nice porfile i would like to see your tatoos but i don't want you to think that i am that kind of person so i will wait to ask you that ok if i hear from you i hope to hear from you because i like the way you think!!
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