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| 12/15/2007 12:19:53 AM |
How many Widows or Widowers, on this site:) |
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mollygees
Alvarado, TX
age: 37
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Just curious to see how many widows, or widowers are on this site. And what it has been like for you in the dating world again  I have been a widow for 5 years now, and I am just curious to see if we share some of the commom dating problems lol or if it`s just me
Thanks
Molly
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| 12/15/2007 12:23:58 AM |
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seepopsgonuts
Rancho Cordova, CA
age: 46
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 IVE BEEN ONE FOR FOUR YEARS
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| 12/15/2007 12:49:55 AM |
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mollygees
Alvarado, TX
age: 37
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Sorry to hear that 
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| 12/15/2007 1:25:47 AM |
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ladykathryn0414
Denison, IA
age: 29
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I am a widow as well..
I am not really in the dating world yet.. but maybe one day. Right now just looking to merge really slowly into the dating lane.
What are some of the problems you have had with dating again, Molly?
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| 12/15/2007 1:29:48 AM |
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crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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I'm not a widower, but is it ok if i join?
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| 12/15/2007 1:36:16 AM |
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tygare
Las Vegas, NV
age: 58
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I have been a widow for 5 years. Just recently moved to Vegas from Palm Springs. Just wanted to start fresh somewhere else. Not sure moving to Vegas was right choice.I do not know anyone here. Think this town is way to big for me,looking more into smaller towns.I guess I am still trying to find myself after losing my Husband.Have not done any dating. I am more open to doing that now,just haven't met anyone that has caught my interest.
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| 12/15/2007 1:42:09 AM |
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libra75
Lowell, AR
age: 32
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I've been a widower since October 06'......seems like that sorta thing spooks people to me....
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| 12/15/2007 1:45:40 AM |
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ladykathryn0414
Denison, IA
age: 29
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I know what you mean.. or they say things like I'm sorry for your loss.. and you get sooooo sick and tired of hearing that. ..  (okay maybe that's just me). But its like sometimes you don't even want to tell ppl.
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| 12/15/2007 1:50:30 AM |
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libra75
Lowell, AR
age: 32
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Actually...it's the fact that some people that I tried to talk to about this, the ones that greeted me w/ open arms pull a 180 on me, & cut off all contact....I dont know what to make of it.......
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| 12/15/2007 1:56:10 AM |
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ladykathryn0414
Denison, IA
age: 29
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maybe it was ur personality...or breath..LOL just kidding
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| 12/15/2007 2:01:01 AM |
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libra75
Lowell, AR
age: 32
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Ha...ha........ha
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| 12/15/2007 4:34:07 AM |
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thankuvets
Choctaw, OK
age: 39
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I hope you dont mind me jumping in here.
I think it would be hard to date again from losing my mate.. That has to be harder than divorce, you still loved who you was with, and suddenly you dont have anyone.. Divorce you kind of want away from them.
I would say take it slow, and if anyone runs because your a widow then you dont need them. I would have no problem with dating a widow. I think it woulb be a different way of dating, cause your trying to replace someone that she loved, not someone she was trying to get away from.
I dont mean replace in a bad way either ladies, but most humans want to be needed and loved and have a relationship... NOT all, but most...
I wish you all the best...
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| 12/15/2007 4:41:54 AM |
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v2_1
McHenry, IL
age: 45
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Hi Molly, I'm sorry for your loss and for everyone else's that's posted here.
It's funny, I posted a very similar question when I first joined here. You do go through a lot trying to date and find people who understand. I can't get over how young all of you are to have lost a spouse. I was 40 when my husband died and that seemed young to me.
People do handle death very differently. Unless the person you are dating has lost someone close to you, they're just not going to know how to deal with your emotions. Be honest, but be respectful of their feelings too. I always try to remind someone I'm dating that my husband was there for huge chunk of my life so it's hard to talk about my past without including him. If that bothers them, I try to hold back. If they really don't understand, then they're not the one for me. I've been through that too.
It does get easier the more you get out there and do it. Wishing love, luck, and laughter to you all!
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| 12/15/2007 4:51:38 AM |
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junkyardhussy2
Chandler, AZ
age: 55
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IT is hard to date a widower, always compared to the wife they lost... and with the relatives of the widower and her things all over the house as if it was a shrine. I couldn't do anything right everything I did was wrong..( thats not the way Cheryl would of wanted it or thats not the way Cheryl did it) just two examples. It was just hard. Sadly to say it didn't last.....gl to all of you
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| 12/15/2007 4:56:05 AM |
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thankuvets
Choctaw, OK
age: 39
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I would think having good memories of your lost one would be a plus to me, it would show you had good times and would make a great mate to have...
I would expect you to have great memories, why else would you have stayed married..
I dont hate me EX, we just are not compatable anymore, but I dont regret marrying her, we had a great time, two wonderful kids, lots of love and laughter before we grew apart.
We married to young and she started wondering about what she missed, she has since told me already that she kind of regrets it. Sad, but its the truth, I have moved on already, been dating, and I tell the ladies do not expect me to run her down, she is the mother of my children and if she had wanted to work it out during the first month I would have..
I have since realized some things about her that I will not forgive, so I cant take her back, but cheating on me is not something I overlook. She thought she wanted more, now she doesnt and its too late.
I was devoted for 17 years, never even thought of having sex with someone else, but once she did, well, I expect what I give, and she betrayed that. She is now on her own... I have found some good friends and even been out dating again.. I LOVE IT..
I will try again someday with the marriage thing, but this time, its gonna be as an adult and they will have to be honest and really want me, and to want to be loved.
As for losing someone, that has got to be harder, but if you have to hide those memories cause some guy is insecure, especially of a man that has passed away, then you dont want that kind of guy..
You dont have to run it in the ground, but to me, I would want to make sure I continued making this woman happy, cause look at how she talks about her late husband. That is a legacy I would like to leave. That even dead there is someone that still loves me enough to talk about me..
Good luck ladies..
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