| 12/16/2007 10:10:55 PM |
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kizzykinns6
Montpelier, VT
age: 20
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so i know this guy...me and him have known eachother for about 3 years now and have been on and off with sex we have never had a relationship and he went away for 2 years or so and came back recently...we got back into hanging out quite a bit and one night he was drunk and confessed his love for me and told me he wanted to be with me and marry me and that he wanted me to have his kids someday...now not to long after that he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and just wanted to be friends...at this point i was like okay thats fine if thats what you want then i am okay with that...a couple days later he calls me and ask me to go to a birthday party for one of our close friends and it was also his birthday party to...and we acted like friends while everyone was around at first then we went downstairs to talk and started telling me he was sorry about the email he wrote saying he wanted to be friends and didn't know what he wanted but he liked me ALOT...now if that wasn't confusing enough later that night we slept together and he again was drunk and proceeded to tell me the same things...he wants to be with me marry me and for me to have his kids but he wanted to make a baby that night...so being the fact that i really like this kid i dunno what to do because i feel like he is playing head games with me...everyone of his friends tell me he is an open book when he is drunk and that he is shy as hell when he is sober...i know its true but i am just so confused...i need advice!!!!
PLEASE! 
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| 12/16/2007 10:15:15 PM |
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mountainangel
Charmco, WV
age: 39
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Kizzy honey it sounds like he's just wanting you for a friend with benifits. sounds like you need to find some else that will love you the way you deserve to be instead of wanting to love you when just drunk and horny.
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| 12/16/2007 10:17:09 PM |
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stexasbeauty4u
San Antonio, TX
age: 38
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chances are he really does love you...You called him a kid maybe your instincts are right. Next time he is sober. Ask him directly about his drunken proclomations...Get to the bottom of the story.. When he grows up drunk or sober he will be honest with you.
JMO
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| 12/16/2007 10:17:40 PM |
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lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49
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you tell her mountain...call lonesome..... seriously you are quite young and jmo, kinda young i do believe to be talking marriage to a man who "is on again and off again"
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| 12/16/2007 10:18:34 PM |
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classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
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He doesn't know what he wants. You go for what you want, sweetie. 
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| 12/16/2007 10:19:11 PM |
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froggienm
Albuquerque, NM
age: 36
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Yeah girl, this guy is just playing you to get in your pants. When a guy tells you he loves you when he is drunk and wants to marry you and have your kids, run the other way and tell him NO, you aren't interested. that shouldn't happen until you two have been dating for over a year and are considering marriage and are a bit older too!
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| 12/16/2007 10:33:37 PM |
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b_white
Bonita Springs, FL
age: 21
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man i dunno i think i might leave that alone 
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| 12/16/2007 10:42:14 PM |
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dougstermd
Williamsport, MD
age: 38
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" he was drunk and confessed his love for me and told me he wanted to be with me and marry me and that he wanted me to have his kids someday..."
Drunk right there is your problem!!!!
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| 12/16/2007 10:49:23 PM |
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b_white
Bonita Springs, FL
age: 21
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yep i would have to agree what a f*ck
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| 12/16/2007 10:54:56 PM |
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deserted
Arlington, TX
age: 42
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I used to say things when I was drunk also...Thats why I quit drinking. My opinion would be to go for the sober minded talker.
OR
If you like this guy that much, just keep a bottle nearby at all times.
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| 12/16/2007 11:00:24 PM |
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b_white
Bonita Springs, FL
age: 21
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there could be a big problem with a bottle near by. u better hope he dont start hitting u
 and if this posted more than once i have no ideal y and my bad
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| 12/16/2007 11:02:59 PM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45 online now!
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Drunk people suck. Did he make all these promises before sex? Then they were used as a bartering chip in return for sex. Either way he won't remember what he said in the morning. His change of mind was part in the planning to have sex that night. You were there and you were his best chances to get laid. He put his plan in motion as soon as you met up at the party. I know this is harsh and I hope for you its not so.
My advice is to hold out on giving up the sex and see if he still pursues you. Try to be around him when he is not drunk. See if you get any hints then of where this is leading.
Drunk people suck! Hopefully he's not a habitual drunk. If he is, I would avoid him because he will never amount to anything until he resolves his drinking issues. Drunks will always hit bottom.............They need professional help.
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| 12/17/2007 1:11:25 AM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
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i'd stay away.
first,you don't know what you really want.he,doesn't know what he reallly wants. he's a drinker and young.not an ideal situation to start a family.go out with friends and do other stuff.dont hang around him.
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| 12/17/2007 1:14:07 AM |
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daddy_s
Oak Ridge, TN
age: 27
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or...maybe youre just sex to him and just maybe he was just being drunk when he said that
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| 12/17/2007 1:30:35 AM |
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sweetcj83
Laramie, WY
age: 24
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Well........
This guy is definately messing with you girl. Don't screw him ANYMORE!
Honey you know this already. Oh and his friends, well they don't want to be c*ck blockers have to support their bro.
Trust me...
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