| 12/19/2007 8:26:34 AM |
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repochick
Rosemount, MN
age: 29
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Why do some people think that threats and anger are going to give them what they want??? I got into a discussion with a person and I tried to work to a peaceful agreement for the best interest of all parties but when the other person involved wasnt getting whatever it was they wanted they flipped it and started all these threats. I mean  do they think they are going to gain by being assholes?? 
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| 12/19/2007 8:28:17 AM |
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lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49 online now!
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Its the usual defense mechanism...anger first then it moves on to other emotions....normal but sometimes difficult to understand...
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| 12/19/2007 8:32:39 AM |
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britbrit
Gloucester, MA
age: 22 online now!
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hey like I said before.....let them be assholes, it just makes it easier for us to be b*tches!!! 
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| 12/19/2007 8:34:02 AM |
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repochick
Rosemount, MN
age: 29
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It just makes me so mad to waste my time and energy trying to be civil when they are just going to lash out and make threats at me anyway!!! I mean really, ...
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| 12/19/2007 8:34:20 AM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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I almost got into a fist fight nite before last with someone who weren't getting what they wanted...I decided not to put myself on her lvl. 
xoxoPeaches.
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| 12/19/2007 8:34:34 AM |
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lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49 online now!
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wow, I'm sure that made her day.....and helped alot...
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| 12/19/2007 8:35:59 AM |
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britbrit
Gloucester, MA
age: 22 online now!
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then dont be civil...they wanna make threats then tell them to come right on.......if you dont back down to them then eventually they will shut up cuz its all talk most of hte time
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| 12/19/2007 8:36:05 AM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Well, considering that she knows me....sure lol....She knows how I am and how I treat assholes....I don't give em the time of day. 
xoxoPeaches.
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| 12/19/2007 8:37:18 AM |
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repochick
Rosemount, MN
age: 29
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If only a fist fight was going to end this issue. I wouldnt really want to fight either, or go to their level, but sometimes I wish I could take a bat and knock some sense into some people...
That was not meant or implied as a threat, either.....
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| 12/19/2007 8:38:32 AM |
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phillygirl0007
Philadelphia, PA
age: 46
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repo, don't waste your time . . . i've learned that you just can't reason with some people, it's pointless to try, and if i don't give them the reaction they're looking for, they'll move on . . . whether on line or in person!
don't stoop!!!!
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| 12/19/2007 8:39:25 AM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Repo, I know lol...Just remember your better than that. And, Heyyy! If they are doing that to you...They must really be jealous. *Hugs*!
xoxoPeaches.
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| 12/19/2007 8:40:36 AM |
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repochick
Rosemount, MN
age: 29
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I wish it were that simple. Chances are they will move on but if they dont its just more added stress in my life for having to go through all the crap of it. Its a long story and a bunch of drama, really. It just makes me sooo mad when people make threats pertaining to my children!!
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| 1/3/2008 4:33:50 PM |
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qazyguy
Rockville, MD
age: 50
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OK, so let me put it this way. Actually IGNORING someone, not even acknowledging their existance is EVEN WORSE than fighting with them.
The Amish call it "shunning".
Let Me Go Qazy On You
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| 1/3/2008 4:54:31 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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They are just trying to intimidate and control. Makes them not look good as a potential mate 
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| 1/3/2008 4:56:14 PM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 36
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taking advice from the amish now? aren't they the ones who say ....all we want is to be left alone?.... then print out maps telling us how to find them
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