Your worst date and what you learned!

12/20/2007 5:22:54 PM	Your worst date and what you learned!
ceejames12 Geneseo, IL age: 63	So tell everyone about your worst date and what you learned from it! Here is mine: When I was in college, my super Senior year, I was, as usual, sitting in the student center practicing playing bridge with my friends Jim “MDI” McCormick, Carol Helmink, and her friend “Marilyn”. My advisor and Math Department Chairman had given bridge lessons, which I had to take because I am logical, and a math major. The conversation probably deal with the methods of our outstanding professors. The other three were killing time waiting to leave for the campus movie that night. I was waiting for them to leave because I was going to sneak into the movie - I was broke again. I had dropped school for a quarter because of financial problems. I was driving a cement truck and living out of my car until my student teaching during the 2nd quarter. After the three of them left I was sitting there playing solitaire when “Linda” (I think) walked in and came over to my table. I asked her if she was going to the movie. She said that she didn’t have anyone to go with and asked me if I was going? I told her that I was broke, but asked her if she could keep a secret. After she promised I told her that I was planning on going to the school movie anyway because I was going to go in the back stage entrance, walk up a spiral stairs to a landing where I put one of the stage prop chairs. Then I would push out a panel, that blocks spot lights glare, and from there I would sit and watch the movie for free. As I told the story about how I had arranged the prop furniture she seemed to get more and more excited about what I was about to do. So I asked her if she wanted to go with me. To my surprise she said “yes”. ... When we got to the chair I sat down without thinking about where she would sit. Like if I had planned it, I whispered to her to sit on my lap. Without hesitation she did. Then I told her to put her face next to mine because I did want to push the panel to far open or someone may notice us up there. She did! I don't remember what the movie was about, but she sat on my lap, with her face next to mine, and throughout the movie we spontaneously checked to see how soft each others lips were. She never said “don’t”, and I never said “stop”! I don’t think she ever told her boyfriend, who I think she had a fight with that day! Whenever I hear the Everly Brothers singing “Temptation” (Golden Hits CD) I remember that date, and what I learned: Make sure you want to go out with a women, if you ask her out! When I sent this story to one of my DH friends, she wrote: “Isn’t education fun!” Oh, Yea! Your story should be funny or have a funny ending, etc.!
12/20/2007 5:44:29 PM	Your worst date and what you learned!
cmjanew Sayre, PA age: 48	Mine is a little more recent - like two years ago. At a super bowl party (one where I met the guy my wife...at the time....was living with___he is now my step-husband) I met this young thing we'll call Shelley. I drank a bit too much, which isn't much at all, but enough to make me feel an apology was in order. Long story short - we went skiing the next weekend. First we went to the mall for ski clothes for me since I don't ski. A date of sorts....but not even an invite in when I dropped her off. Anyway, turns out, the ski date was on her birthday. And, we were meeting a couple she sees ONCE a year. OK - I'm pretty much odd man out while she's catching up. Plus, she's celebrating her birthday with drink, and more drink, and more drink. (aside - it was the Sunday VP Cheney shot his hunting buddy. But in the bar of the ski joint you couldn't hear the tv - but Cheney's picture was on the screen. I commented "I'd sure like to know what that's about" She looked up and said "Who IS that?" Whew) So, on the way home she starts lecturing me about players etc....I don't have a clue what she's talking about. I'm fresh out of a 30 year relationship. It gets quiet for the last 15 miles or so of the ride home. We pull in the drive of her home, she gets out and starts unloading her stuff. Out of the blue she says "you want to come in?" I say no. And She Gives Me Another Chance. I say "no" again. What was I thinking Doh. Oh, but it gets better. I drive the rest of the way home to find TheDaughter waiting at my house to hear how the day went. So I relate the above. She says "Dad! If she invited you in, she must have wanted to cuddle or something" I reply "but I didn't have anything with me" Dead serious - totally innocent - she says "What? Viagra?" I was refering to condoms.
12/24/2007 8:19:49 AM	Your worst date and what you learned!
cullingsong Ayden, NC age: 40	I was out with a man, first date, nice dinner, great conversation, and on the way back, in the car, i noticed the edge of a tattoo peeking out from the sleeve of his shirt. So, I lean over, brush back his shirt enough to see the rest and comment that it's a nicely done tattoo. So, he says, real excited, "I have more!", PULLS OVER, shows me his other arm, his calf and then half stands up in the car, PULLS DOWN HIS PANTS-OMG! to show me the words "bad ass" tattoo'd on his butt. "Bad" on one butt cheek, "ass" on the other. So, I call my sister, who'd set me up with this guy, and say "I can't date someone who has "BAD ASS" tatoo'd on his ass. And she says, "How'd you see his ass?" To which I respond, "Exactly." It was a homemade tattoo. Done by a man. On another man's ass. And he showed it to me. On the first date.
12/29/2007 7:40:57 AM	Your worst date and what you learned!
steak_king Whitmore Lake, MI age: 50	Pictures can be deceiving, 'nuff said!
12/29/2007 8:40:41 AM	Your worst date and what you learned!
blkdenim Madison, WI age: 24	how freakinsh for that date to do something so unspontaneous with out being asked. That's a sicko and at least he could have had a better tattoo to show.lol
1/4/2008 12:08:58 PM	Your worst date and what you learned!
sky14 Pittsburgh, PA age: 36	Which one? Not enough time in the world to tell them all. Aww the nightmares!!!! What have I learned???? How to have a good laugh!!
1/4/2008 12:34:37 PM	Your worst date and what you learned!
libra75 Garfield, AR age: 32	I learned to always make damn sure the pic i get of her is RECENT!!!!!!!!
1/4/2008 12:59:36 PM	Your worst date and what you learned!
sky14 Pittsburgh, PA age: 36	true true libra!!!!
1/5/2008 8:43:46 PM	Your worst date and what you learned!
mainle Boston, MA age: 42	Within the past year only: I had been talking to a police officer and found him very interesting and funny. He asked me out for coffee and I accepted. When I met him, he was worse than his picture but I thought, that's ok, looks aren't everything. Well, behavior on his part for a first date was everything. We ended up with martini's instead of coffee and he drank 8 to my one. The more he drank the more he began to choke on himself-coughing-clearing his throat. Nervous twitch? After 1 hour of discussion he immediatly jumped into "I want you to be my girl and no one elses". I mentioned that we had only known one another for a short time and this was the first face to face AND, that I was not ready for a full blown relationship. My stomach started to turn. As the night progressed he began to talk about his ex running off with a truck driver and his adopted son who had been continuosly raped by the boyfriend. He then began to clear his sinuses by snuffing in and swallowing while continueing to clear his throat. He had taken a peek at the bill and announced "WOW, I haven't seen this amount in a long time!" I offered to help him pay for it. He said no that he had invited me out. I was so grossed out by this time and a little scared! I suggested that he seek medical attention for his...issues and that I had to go home now. He immediatly was offended and said "I don't get a kiss?" I told him that he was pulling my leg and that I wouldn't kiss him unless he went to see a doctor because I didn't want to catch anything. I left at that point.
1/17/2008 9:38:09 PM	Your worst date and what you learned!
lickmytongue Sandia, TX age: 55	OMG!! you were to nice mainle...
1/18/2008 12:59:00 AM	Your worst date and what you learned!
silver_rain1011 Springfield, VA age: 22	Had a few, a couple really bad ones, and a few where I made a fool of myself... One date many years ago, I met a guy from online. And to be safe Itold him to meet me in my turf (a local restaurant I love). Well I get there first cause I haven't had dinner yet, so I'm shoving down my food and he comes in, finds me, and sits down. He told me he was white... he wasn't. I asked where his ancestors were from, he said he was Persian. I told him Persians are not white, they are middle eastern, and "Persia" does not exist anymore. We had cake and never saw each other or talked again. Not interested in a man who lies. What I learned: Men lie about the dumbest, most obvious things to try and get into a woman's pants. Another date, more recent, I talked with a nice guy online, we'll call him Joe. We decided to meet at a Vietnamese restaurant. I was skeptical because of the things he had said before were very shallow. Let's just say I normally have tons of self-confidence, this guy made me extremely self-conscious about my looks, my job, my weight, everything. But I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt. Joe was very pleasant and nice on the date, and laughed when I accidently spat rice at him. Next date was a group date, I met a bunch of his friends, nice people. We have sex that night, and I'm not impressed anymore. He ignores me when we go out with the same groups 2 weeks in a row, so I assume he's not interested anymore, which is fine with me cause I didn't exactly want to be teaching a boy the 1-and-2 of sex. So backtrack for a second, our second date, one of his friends was cute to me and hung around me, we'll call him Bob. Bob and I started hanging out more on the outings, while Joe was ignoring me. After about 3 weeks of hanging out with the new crowd, Joe wants me to sleep over his place, and I tell him no. He gets very upset and eventually I learned Joe told Bob to back off of me while Joe was ignoring me. Well too bad, snooze you lose. Bob and I went out on a date and had sex before Joe asked me to stay over the second time [I had already moved on]... Bob was soooooo much better than Joe, I knew I wasn't wasting my time after that.
1/18/2008 8:56:09 PM	Your worst date and what you learned!
jules34 Quincy, IL age: 35	I learned to NEVER let my mom set me up on a blind date! I agreed to go out with her friends son. It turned out the plan was to go to a fishermans banquet. In the 5 minute ride to the restaraunt I learned all about his 3 marriages and exactly what went wrong. At the banquet he was pretty obnoxious but some of the other people there weren't too bad. He kept trying to hang on me like he was making sure everyone saw he had a date. So, I ended up claiming a headache. I mean don't guys know when you say that it really means you've had enough and you just want to get the hell outta there? So, he tried to slobber on me at the door and I gave him the cheek. 2 days later he sends me a dozen roses to my work saying thanks for the good night.Of course my buddies at work had a blast wondering what I did for those! He then called twice that day to make sure I got them. He called several more times that week and I didn't answer. Then his mom called my mom and chewed her out for having such an ungrateful daughter.
2/7/2008 9:59:17 PM	Your worst date and what you learned!
dirtydm76 Riverside, IL age: 18	Well i was going on a date with this guy. He wantedto take me to the movies. I got into his car and we were about a half an hour away, near where he lives. Then he said he ddnt have money for a movie so i offered to pay so he said "Naw lets just got to my place and watch one. Its free anyways." So we went to his apartment and i guess there was a party going on. He disappeared and everyone was drunk as hell. Then i see his making out with another girl. Im like wtf! So i called my friend to pick me up. I was so hurt and angry. I learned to drive urself or go seperatly. That was the worst day ever and ontop of that, he told me how much he liked me and got back with his ex..really screwy.
2/8/2008 1:40:19 PM	Your worst date and what you learned!
planejumper73 Milford, MI age: 35	I went on a first face-to-face with someone I met on another dating site. We get to the bar where we were meeting her friends. Hanging out, talking, watching the hockey game......everything is going cool. I end up buying her a number of drinks, then she tells me that she doesn't have her license because of a "3rd DUI". She had 3 DUIs and she's still drinking?!? Absolutely no contorl. I haven't talked to her since.

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