| 12/29/2007 3:59:17 PM |
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jenn_love
Diamond Bar, CA
age: 21
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Ok here is the short version, I met this guy on the internet and he was really nice to talk to and I must be a smooth talker or something cuz after a month or so of off and on talking he told me that he might love me. It scared me at first but I gave him the benifit of the doubt and we met. OK NOW HERE IS MY PROBLEM I don't feel for him the way he feels for me. We have been dating for about 2 months now and I don't feel a spark, DO YOU THINK IT WILL EVER COME? Or should I just move on? He's a great guy don't get me wrong but the physical attraction isn't there and its important to me.  ME  
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| 12/29/2007 4:02:58 PM |
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kindakute
Kankakee, IL
age: 23
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I think u should really follow ur heart if ur not attdarcted to him u should let him know because in the long run ur gonna end up hurting urself by staying with him
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| 12/29/2007 4:06:37 PM |
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jenn_love
Diamond Bar, CA
age: 21
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I have told him in nice ways that he's not really my type and stuff like that but I'm very much attracted to his personality and he treats me like a Queen but when we kiss I don't feel anything. I've told him so many times that I don't want to hurt him but.... WHAT DO I DO??
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| 12/29/2007 4:26:21 PM |
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chinatown_girl
Oyster Bay, NY
age: 19
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is it his looks or his style that u dont like? what is it u dont like physically about him?
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| 12/29/2007 4:30:50 PM |
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jenn_love
Diamond Bar, CA
age: 21
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I have NO idea, poor thing he has even tried growing a mustache for me to see if that would work cuz all my ex's had one. I care about him alot and he cares even more for me but there is NOTHING. I told him that we should just be friends but he said he can't do that cuz he has fallen in love with me. It really hurts to know that a guy that is so amazing in so many ways doesn't do anything for me, ya know? It makes me want to cry sometimes, like I'm really trying to feel it and IT JUST WONT COME
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| 12/30/2007 4:52:10 PM |
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darthlaidher
Knoxville, TN
age: 26
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tell him you dont like him, dont lead him on. head games suck! just tellem you dont like him!
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| 12/30/2007 5:01:02 PM |
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hotman1914
Phoenix, AZ
age: 20
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if i was you write him a letter tell him how you really feel in your heart and telll him the truth and be your self maybe its that you like him but you dont have the feeling to show that you like him or jest tell him every nicely i know this jest be nice to him cuz once you break his heart he wont be the same forever
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| 12/30/2007 5:04:28 PM |
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darthlaidher
Knoxville, TN
age: 26
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he'll be fine unless hes one of those types that get depressed easily but if hes a normal guy he'll get over it in a few days.
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| 12/30/2007 5:05:34 PM |
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hotman1914
Phoenix, AZ
age: 20
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thats true
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| 1/1/2008 3:21:09 PM |
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ztl
Clifton Park, NY
age: 23
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I agree I would just tell him the truth, living a lie never works out well. Who knows leading him on might just chase off someone that you really like down the road. Not only is it not fair for him, its not fair for you either.
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| 1/2/2008 7:23:12 PM |
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jenn_love
Diamond Bar, CA
age: 21
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Thanks for the advice, He's an amazing person and I love the person he is. I understand what you mean about leading him on but I think I have already done that. Now how do I fix it? This isn't good, I could see myself with him cuz he's a great guy but it wouldn't be amazing like I would want it to be.
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