12/31/2007 4:46:04 PM |
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happyasusual
Tucson, AZ
age: 49
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I am very new to this stuff - chat rooms and such, have no idea what I'm doing. The on-line dating I'm becoming quit experienced at and just keep putting myself out there, thats okay, it can be fun. I opened my e-mail today and got meanest and horrible attack on my profile, I am not nieve in any sense of the word but I still can't believe the hate message today I could feel the venom come across my computer,
Janet
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12/31/2007 4:47:16 PM |
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adelinesmother
Fremont, NE
age: 37
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Someone else said something about this earlier today. I have yet to experience it. SORRY that you had to go through that.
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12/31/2007 4:47:46 PM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
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Block and delete Janet. I'm sorry someone had the audacity to do such a thing.
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12/31/2007 4:49:12 PM |
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kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 47
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I haven't experienced it myself, but apparently many people, both male and female have. There is a block feature you can use so you won't get anymore from that person. Sorry you had trouble.
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12/31/2007 5:03:46 PM |
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happyasusual
Tucson, AZ
age: 49
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Thanks ladies, I appreciate it, I know I can block him from my sight but I could not believe anyone would actually have the nerve to say some of the things he did, geez. He must have been hit hard by someone in his life to attack like that, but no excuses for abuse.
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12/31/2007 5:09:55 PM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
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Unless you changed your profile I saw absolutely nothing in it that would warrent a comment. Some people have way too much time on their hands.
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12/31/2007 5:14:16 PM |
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ylekiot
Stateline, NV
age: 51
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Simply ignore people like that. Without a captive, reactive audience they will cease to perform for you. No response, no negative attention reward. Those kinds of people are an ongoing threat to the gene pool anyway. Happy New Year!
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12/31/2007 5:15:48 PM |
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kfab1023
Jacksonville, FL
age: 51
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Yeah I got some like that too block and delete and just know that everyone else here is great just a few assholes out there 
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12/31/2007 5:16:05 PM |
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mr_passion_2009
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
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u know i think its sad that some on here is so unfair that attack someone . i get the attacks on my spelling . but i've notice that this place have alot of mean and rud peopleon it. to me its kinda makeing me feel that its no longer worth trying to find someone.WOW its funny that some would have an issues about your profile i see nothing worng with it .but if its about profiles i can set here and point out alot of thing worng with almost half of the profile on here .
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12/31/2007 5:20:00 PM |
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recluse
Greenville, SC
age: 58
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Mr. Passion, listen to Kfab.
People are so different. Just look for the ones you're interested in and enjoy, my friend.
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12/31/2007 5:22:39 PM |
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ylekiot
Stateline, NV
age: 51
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Passion, if someone's not cool with your spelling then they're not the right one in the first place buddy. 
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12/31/2007 5:28:59 PM |
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dragan
Clinton Township, MI
age: 38
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If they don't like it, tell them not to read it. No one held a gun to their heads and said, read this. They decided to all by them selves and if they did not like what they read and sent you hate mail, then they need to grow up and see what is wrong with them. Usually people who do that stuff lash out because they want to belittle someone else because they are a dumbass.. Wait I mean a d*ckhead, wait, shit.. I mean, they are ... both of those. Tell them to go to K-mart and buy a life.
[Edited 12/31/2007 5:30:08 PM]
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12/31/2007 7:33:32 PM |
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thankuvets
Choctaw, OK
age: 39 online now!
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Just got some harrassing emails today really, funny this pops up now..
NOT that I mind, but it was a 27 year old sending nude pics of herself, wanted to HOOK up for quickie, says she was visiting from out of state and was right around the corner..
Nice pics, saved them actually, just in case she trys anything, I saved all the emails that says she was 27 and why she sent them, I checked just now and she has hidden her profile..
LIKE she would ever get with me, I do have taste, and to jump some hottie cause she is looking, NOPE, I prefer my women with a little more class.
Any woman that would sleep with a guy she just started emailing 30 minutes prior and the only thing she wanted to know was how big my boy was?? Yeah, thats gonna happen, I may think shes hot, but damn, I dont want my boy to be falling off from some damn disease or something.. eeeeeewwwwww. LOL
I just wrote the Mods, and told them I have the emails and if anything is said or whatever, I still have them.. Plus, the pic is nice, very well done.. So she sends these pics out, and I dont mind having it.. LOL
She has to live with the fact that I have her pics...

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12/31/2007 8:14:00 PM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 44
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Sorry HAPPY, This being a free site actually lets in more dirtbags. Don't let it bother you. BLOCK AND DELETE> Unfortunately these dirtbags give all us guys a bad name. I hope you can look past that and give the decent guys a break. I wish there was a way to control it. PLEASE FLAG their E-mail as VULGAR AND HARASSING before you delete it. This may help flag the user and get them removed. We definitely need some sort of system that checks their IP ADDRESS and keeps these dirtbags from rejoining under another name. The technology is there. I don't know why the moderators do not use it. HAPPY NEW YEARS TO ALL!(except the dirtbags)
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1/1/2008 1:11:18 AM |
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happyasusual
Tucson, AZ
age: 49
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Thanks. I really appreciate all the thoughts, I honestly started to wonder about my profile, I guess I was over anxious and let the guy to me, he made me feel like my profile was from a street walker, so I really appreciate the great responses. My chin is now back up - grin, and obviously smiling again.
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