viking47
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
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ARE YOU HIDING , ARE YOU MARRIED AND CHEATING. OR IS THE LAW LOOKING FOR YA.
WHY DO PEOPLE PUT UP ADDS AND NO PICTURE. ATTRACTION IS A HUGE PART OF PROCESS OF MEETING SOMEONE. RIGHT?
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gopgrl
Attleboro, MA
age: 45
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I don't get it either.
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viking47
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
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thank s if you dont want anyone to see ya, then beat it.. dont be on a dating site.
after all looks are a big part of attraction ,.
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bigbrwneyes007
Cumberland, RI
age: 49
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No picture is because of a couple of reasons...when you work in the public eye...you really don't want people to say..." didn't I see your pic on an internet dating site?" and two.....its called stalkers...I have had them so I have had to change my user name to avoid them. If you have to decide if someone is good looking before you will talk to them...then you really aren't worth my time then.
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viking47
North Kingstown, RI
age: 49
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well that just seems like really bad choise on you part.. and if your inpublic eye LOL and i am . i have nothing to hide. you walk down the street dont ya. Dont you thing that seeing the other and know how they look is a huge part off attraction.. what if this person you talk to and devolope a relationship on line turn out to be a slob unkept. and just plain fugly.. what then,? why bother. at that point.
if you meet someone i tend to want to know if i can awake to this person everyday. do i enoy the face is see?
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fryyyy
North Kingstown, RI
age: 51
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actually .. anyoone who is attracted to you because of your outer shell is attracted to you for the wrong reasons.. EVERYTHING That really matters in a relationship is more than skin deep. If you want a woman for what she looks like instead of who she is.. that's a disaster waiting to happen. what if a better looking woman comes along. what if a woman ages, gains weight.. gets in an accident.. everything u based your relationship on would collapse.
what's inside is what matters.. what's inside is who you should fall in love with and treasure. Invisible quality's like friendship, companionship, intelligence, humor etc...
here in chat you have the opportunity for people to like you based on your mind, what you post here. instead of having flies buzzing around you because you have a nice body. flies that wouldnt be there without the superficial attraction/distraction, of what you look like.
it's ok to have a picture.. if your looking for one night stands etc or want to deal with flies.
if your good looking, people will be hitting on you cus of what you look like instead of who you are.
if your not pleasant to look at .. people would run away without ever getting to know who you really are.
I think there are more reasons NOT to have a picture.. than to have one.
I think a lot of people who have one are kind of like fishing.. but using the wrong bait..
good luck with your picture.. NOT having a picture helps me filter out anyone who NEEDS a picture to see who i really am. saves me a LOT of time, there are no flies here.
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