I think that's very interesting, because some guys don't stick to one woman themselves. I guess they may not like the competition, or don't want to put too much energy into something that won't work out. But I think it's way hotter when someone wants you enough to fight for you.

Man really! You can't live in the past. What happend, happend for a reason. Take it a a life lesson and move on, don't dwell on that stuff .

I don't mean to bring religion into this , and hope I don't offend any one,

I think, my higher power who I call God
Puts people in your life for a reason, and also takes them out. At the time we may not know why it happens or understand what's going on, but later on we look back (not dwel) and say wow .

Look at some of the things you have been through, and see how you have grown and became a better person.

ok sweetie. He is very grumpy for a reason. but it just so happens you caught his eye while he still needed to heal from the last girl. IM AM TELLING U DON'T THROW HIM AWAY EITHER because hes mr. negative. he needs a friend. And u should be friends too with THE ONE if u find him.
second my personal thoughts. if u cant talk about the past with someone there's no point in talking at all. but if u want to keep emotions out of the relationship then he could always find a friend to tell his whole world too. Is that what ud rather in a relationship to keep things separate. Even if its a guy friend.

u totally don't want to hear what he has to say. Just saying
and b4 u say its to soon to hear it all. i also think that's a bunch of crock too. There cold be things that make him who he is. and u should hear those b4 hand.

Its not always dwelling. because sometimes the past comes back to haunt ur nightmares over and over. so u should discuss hurts with people.