If scriptural commandments are defined as any word that proceedeth forth from the mouth of God.... Then the first one to man and woman was "Go forth and multiply". See? I do get something out of going to church.

Men stick up for women in threads under the delusion that saying nice shit about women and having women's back will get them more dates. Women get their panties twisted. It's ok to criticize men but a crime to criticize women. That's double standard to the 150th power.

Now let's talk about the 11th commandment and what it means to you.

I know I don't have any room to talk at all. But what about treating people regaurdless of gender the way you want to be treated. Do you like people being a d*ck or a b*tch to you?

Or possibly recognize truth when they see it and aren't afraid to say so just because it was said by a woman?

Ever think that the men who stick up for women actually.... like women? Crazy I know!

I don't want a man to kiss my ass. If he can't be genuine, he can leave. I want a man who can be nice but can also put me in my place (verbally of course) when I'm bein out of line for no reason. I'm talking more about the men on here who defend women in general when a guy starts a thread just talking crap about women as a whole. Not all of us are bad. Some of us are actually quite good but many fail to see that when all they are doing is dwelling on the bad ones they have come across and projecting it onto every other women they meet.

I agree 100%. I'll defend women when they're being attacked but if a girl is being a b*tch I'll let her know it. It's all about respect. Guys like the OP have none. They only see women as good for one thing and they treat them as such. Being nice to someone isn't selling your soul. It's just being respectful. Defending someone who's being wrongfully attacked isn't selling out. It's just doing the right thing.

People who start threads like this see women as objects to be used and discarded as they please. They have no respect for anyone, especially women, and only do things in ways that only benefit them. People like this are more likely to be physically aggressive to women (not saying the OP is, I'm just saying). It raises a lot of red flags and creates a never ending circle. They remain single and lonely and blame women for it, which of coarse raises more red flags and pushes the women away. If they do find a woman willing to date them it never last a long period of time because they get bored with them or the woman gets tired of being treated like a doormat and the cycle begins again.

I agree..............Ass Kissing has increased 10 fold since I joined.

.....but I can't judge too harshly. I was once an a** kissing nice guy who was spineless and compromising of my personal power in hopes of getting a sexy/attractive girlfriend.


....but we live and learn.

I nominate Cole for being named DH MALE ATTENTION WH*RE OF THE YEAR.

Who will second the motion?

It looks like there is an 11th commandment at this site. Anyone here know what it is?
Give up?
It's "Thou shall no criticize women".
Men stick up for women in threads under the delusion that saying nice shit about women and having women's back will get them more dates. Women get their panties twisted. It's ok to criticize men but a crime to criticize women. That's double standard to the 150th power.
Now let's talk about the 11th commandment and what it means to you.

Cole, I don't kiss anybody's ass, period. I do happen to love women, screwy as they are, and I don't defend them "to get more dates". I will call a woman on her shit, just as quickly as a man.
BUT, I will agree with you 100% about the double standard. There are a lot of women who think it's fine to define men as knuckle dragging Testosterone containers, with their d*cks always in their hands and thinking only of sex and football. That's the ugly backlash of the women's "movement". Women in the past 30 yrs ahve been taught to devalue men in order to "empower" themselves as women. That's just stupid thinking. You don't empower yourself by degrading someone else. You empower yourself by being the best YOU that you can be.
I hope, someday, that we all realize that it's all about the love, the giving, the caring, not power. We all, men AND women, need to learn how to get along better.

Once again your supposition, while true for some, lack much merit. Your assumption of what other men do and why they do it is just that an assumption. I tend to think that most women are smarter than you portray them to be. I feel a woman will accept me as I am or not at all and I do not say what I say in hopes of getting a date. Whether I get a date or not does not change the fact that generalizations and characterizations based on one's personal experiences affects the way you think and present yourself.

Obviously, you are dissatisfied with your experiences with women and mind you only the women that you have had an interaction with and now you want to damn all women. Then you want to label and malign men that point out the fallacies in what you consider to be the truth. Bottom line and again I repeat myself, your truth is not necessarily everyone else's truth. You need to get over yourself and get a life. You win some, you lose some, life is not about fairness it is about how you live your life. So, if you want to wallow in self pity and keep going on and on with your diatribe about women then be my guest.

You are supposed to be of an age where you should have learned some life lessons, but it appears quite frankly you have not learned much at all. It is time to let the past go and get on with life and work on improving your own attitude and then maybe things will change for the better. The operative phrase is "improving your own attitude" because you want to, not for someone else. It is time, don't you think.