| 1/9/2008 2:29:36 PM |
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magicmanooo7
Pineville, LA
age: 34
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hmmm..elaine bobbit comes to mind.....lol..j/k..OUCH!!..on second thought... leave his ass, take his shit, sell it off..refer to boxers posts last night!
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| 1/9/2008 2:29:44 PM |
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lovesillusion11
Moab, UT
age: 25
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i gotta say, jus take a moment and realize..... THAT THERE IS SOMEONE EVEN BETTER OUT THERE FOR YOU! he had his chance and blew it! never settle for less.... find the best and be happy!
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| 1/9/2008 2:30:20 PM |
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dcy
Brandon, SD
age: 54
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that's funny----how are you doing?
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| 1/9/2008 2:31:38 PM |
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lovesillusion11
Moab, UT
age: 25
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if they jus said they wanted to see others........ they couldn't have their cake and eat it too! i thinkin people cheat simply for the thrill of trying to not get caught.... just like people kill.... they know it's wrong.... but it still happens..... and everyone who seeks such thrills..... NEVER THINK THEY WILL GET CAUGHT........ BUT ALWAYS DO!
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| 1/9/2008 2:34:13 PM |
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magicmanooo7
Pineville, LA
age: 34
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im fine..still have a peter, but dont have my shit!..lol..j/k
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| 1/9/2008 2:35:48 PM |
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iloveboxers
Somerset, KY
age: 41
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see magic i am already laughing. and do ya wanna buy somebody elses shit?
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| 1/9/2008 2:35:48 PM |
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classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
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Yep, it's always the guys.
On my side of the fence, however, it was my ex that wanted some guy at work. Unfortunately for her, he didn't want her. He was sleeping with the wife of a police officer. Seems he got a 38 stuck in his ear one night, but that's another story. So basically the wife through the kids and I away for some guy that didn't even want her. I must really bad a bad guy. Judge sent me packin' with three kids by my side though. Guess I wasn't all bad, lol.
I was smart enough to figure that all women were not like her. And I did find a special lady. So keep the faith dcy, God doesn't close one door without opening yet another. 
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| 1/9/2008 2:36:18 PM |
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magicmanooo7
Pineville, LA
age: 34
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lmao i suppose i need too..j/k
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| 1/9/2008 2:36:44 PM |
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ellezia
Crescent City, CA
age: 25
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Though I never did I was tempted once to cheat, it was not that I did not love my boyfriend, I loved him with my entire heart but sometimes the heart and head are not in the same place at the same time.. There were issues in our relationship and sometimes the "What if" bug gets in and things happen... I am ashamed to admitt that I did kiss another guy but that made me feel so quilty and tore me up inside that I talked to my ex and we discussed what was going on... it made us much stronger for 3 more years untill he finally decided that he was more interested in my best friend and I caught them cheating. **sigh** I know that he loved, and still loves me, I Loved and still love him but I also know that there is a line you can not cross and if you do then there is a problem that can not be solved. I can forgive and forget a minor slip... things that should never happen do and how you deal with them and handle them can say a lot about the person you are and the relationship you have. Please don't think that just because he does cheat doesn't mean he doesn't feel something for you... He may.. But it is not the something that it takes to stay together in a relationship and that is why you have to let go and move on and give yourself time to greive the loss. If you can go away from him for like 3 months.. go stay in another town or state or somewhere where you will have NO contact with him for awhile it may give you perspective and allow you to make that choice to move on or try again.
Thanks iloveboxers
[Edited 1/9/2008 2:43:17 PM]
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| 1/9/2008 2:39:10 PM |
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iloveboxers
Somerset, KY
age: 41
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dcy you need to listen to elle. i couldn't have said it like she did, and elle, damn girl.
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| 1/9/2008 2:41:54 PM |
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drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
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magic, whaddya think? road trip? i've never been to sd, but i got some ideas for this punk/ u in?
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| 1/9/2008 2:58:03 PM |
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silver_rain1011
Springfield, VA
age: 22
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Does he know that you know yet? If he doesn't find irrefutable proof and throw it in his face. Don't believe any of his lies! "He who cheats once, will ALWAYS cheat again!"
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| 1/9/2008 3:00:25 PM |
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dcy
Brandon, SD
age: 54
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He knows i know--we've discussed it and then he asked me to marry him--said he was sorry etc. I told him no--and supposedly he's back on track but I think my trust in him is just gone--I don't think it will come back
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| 1/9/2008 3:02:01 PM |
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ellezia
Crescent City, CA
age: 25
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It probally wont. Take time apart and see if you start to Move on or if you are willing to live with what he is. He wont change.
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| 1/9/2008 4:30:51 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47 online now!
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If you enjoy the drama and looking over your shoulder all the time then stay with him. For me, I'd put him out with the rest of my trash.
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