Words to Ponder

8/4/2010 6:21:41 PM	Words to Ponder
duchessa Yonkers, NY age: 59 online now!	I received these words from a friend.... There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore... and who always will. So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
8/4/2010 6:24:44 PM	Words to Ponder
donajaii Lansing, MI age: 42	What if it is your Mother???
8/4/2010 6:25:18 PM	Words to Ponder
ichoose_alone Richmond, IL age: 38	Nope. Not buying it. Sometimes, the best and only place to be is in the past.Well,for me it is.
8/4/2010 6:25:58 PM	Words to Ponder
rocket000 Murrayville, GA age: 52	There is a similar saying, Friends for a season, friends for a reason and friends for a lifetime...
8/4/2010 6:26:53 PM	Words to Ponder
bigdaddyforyou Henderson, NV age: 30 online now!	very nice, thanks for sharing,op
8/4/2010 6:28:52 PM	Words to Ponder
kingritter Mount Aukum, CA age: 22	And always look to the future
8/4/2010 6:28:56 PM	Words to Ponder
raynbowsyns Dalzell, SC age: 36	For once a thread I actually appreciate. Thank you (now I must go back to S&D and be a sarcastic horn dog before sentiment makes me cry)
8/4/2010 6:32:31 PM	Words to Ponder
fuzbuster Corpus Christi, TX age: 42	That deep. Considering I just realized I don't want to share my popcorn with a date, you've taken it to a whole new level there.
8/4/2010 6:59:33 PM	Words to Ponder
klassy_klown Bakersfield, CA age: 41	I don't live in the past, but I know I wouldn't be the woman I am today if it weren't for the people in my past.
8/4/2010 7:05:14 PM	Words to Ponder
thebestman Alpharetta, GA age: 36	hi klassy
8/4/2010 7:06:18 PM	Words to Ponder
duchessa Yonkers, NY age: 59 online now!	Quote from donajaii: What if it is your Mother??? pondering about
8/4/2010 7:07:23 PM	Words to Ponder
duchessa Yonkers, NY age: 59 online now!	Quote from ichoose_alone: Nope. Not buying it. Sometimes, the best and only place to be is in the past.Well,for me it is. Individual is as individual does...to me, future is the word.
8/4/2010 7:17:07 PM	Words to Ponder
ladyog Rotterdam Netherlands age: 54	No...TODAY...is the word...for TODAY is all we have right now...
8/4/2010 7:18:38 PM	Words to Ponder
sweperman Opdyke, IL age: 45	hummmm....I love many things about my past,i hate many things about my past,but i ponder about my future and wonder what will be!
8/4/2010 7:22:07 PM	Words to Ponder
justokingin2010 Billings, MT age: 50	For me, all the people from my past matter. They made me the man I am today. Without the painful memories, could I really appreciate how good the pleasant one’s are?
8/4/2010 7:24:38 PM	Words to Ponder
leftfooted West Covina, CA age: 51	For some that point is when there is no future and only the past is what can be looked upon.... [Edited 8/4/2010 7:26:18 PM ]
8/4/2010 7:29:30 PM	Words to Ponder
jeweles5 Galion, OH age: 31	While agree that people from the past have helped shaped me itnto the person I am today but there are reasons why some people need to stay in the past. I also believe people come into your life at certain points for certain resons and not all are ment to stay a part of your life forever.
8/4/2010 7:32:38 PM	Words to Ponder
duchessa Yonkers, NY age: 59 online now!	Quote from justokingin2010: For me, all the people from my past matter. They made me the man I am today. Without the painful memories, could I really appreciate how good the pleasant one’s are? Do you really think we need to see evil to be able to appreciate goodness?
8/4/2010 7:43:36 PM	Words to Ponder
duchessa Yonkers, NY age: 59 online now!	Quote from jeweles5: While agree that people from the past have helped shaped me itnto the person I am today but there are reasons why some people need to stay in the past. I also believe people come into your life at certain points for certain resons and not all are ment to stay a part of your life forever. We always could say things happen for a reason.
8/4/2010 7:49:17 PM	Words to Ponder
justokingin2010 Billings, MT age: 50	Quote from duchessa: Do you really think we need to see evil to be able to appreciate goodness? I think the term evil would be stretching my comment a bit far. I will say, if you have ever experienced true gut wrenching pain, you can truly appreciate the relief you feel when that pain abates, or goes away completely. Then, you are able to remember the joyful memories and really feel that joy again.
8/4/2010 7:51:40 PM	Words to Ponder
ldroftrollops Goshen, IN age: 30	Quote from duchessa: Do you really think we need to see evil to be able to appreciate goodness? I agree evil might be a stretch of the language....but, in regards to the point of your question....absolutely. How else would one learn to appreciate?
8/4/2010 8:06:32 PM	Words to Ponder
duchessa Yonkers, NY age: 59 online now!	Quote from ldroftrollops: I agree evil might be a stretch of the language....but, in regards to the point of your question....absolutely. How else would one learn to appreciate? By enjoying what is obviously good?
8/4/2010 8:22:35 PM	Words to Ponder
littlerandyinfl Yalaha, FL age: 30	And, your online "friends" might as well be prison inmates.
8/4/2010 8:33:17 PM	Words to Ponder
klassy_klown Bakersfield, CA age: 41	Quote from justokingin2010: For me, all the people from my past matter. They made me the man I am today. Without the painful memories, could I really appreciate how good the pleasant one’s are? I like the way you think. I wonder if anyone exists who has not felt pain? Does everyone's pain have to be equivalent to be felt? By the same token, are there those who have never experienced goodness? And does goodness have to be experienced on the same level to be felt? I believe I should not drink whiskey.
8/4/2010 8:46:10 PM	Words to Ponder
duchessa Yonkers, NY age: 59 online now!	Quote from littlerandyinfl: And, your online "friends" might as well be prison inmates. Or plain idiots....
8/4/2010 8:52:08 PM	Words to Ponder
ldroftrollops Goshen, IN age: 30	Quote from duchessa: By enjoying what is obviously good? One needs to understand the difference between good and evil, happy and sad, to be able to appreciate them don't you think? If not, the potential to take everything for granted, is much higher and much more probably
8/4/2010 8:52:33 PM	Words to Ponder
broadcaster1 Pacoima, CA age: 56 online now!	Quote from donajaii: What if it is your Mother??? Good point but still applies Parents never own their children as much as they want to We are merely a custodian of them with sole responsibility to deliver them to the future as undamaged as possible As much as I disagree with the OP on a lot of other issues I think the post is correct Norbert Slidingbottom
8/4/2010 9:03:02 PM	Words to Ponder
duchessa Yonkers, NY age: 59 online now!	ldroftrollops ""One needs to understand the difference between good and evil, happy and sad, to be able to appreciate them don't you think?"""" Indeed; I was just asking
8/4/2010 9:03:06 PM	Words to Ponder
gdaddy47 Columbia, TN age: 62	Quote from rocket000: There is a similar saying, Friends for a season, friends for a reason and friends for a lifetime... Had all three. Very true words.
8/4/2010 9:05:28 PM	Words to Ponder
duchessa Yonkers, NY age: 59 online now!	broadcaster1:"""" As much as I disagree with the OP on a lot of other issues I think the post is correct"" Are you aware that the OP was sent to me by a friend?
8/4/2010 9:20:52 PM	Words to Ponder
duchessa Yonkers, NY age: 59 online now!	""Had all three. Very true words. "" I had many friends for a reason...most of then for less than a season....only two for a lifetime
8/4/2010 11:03:44 PM	Words to Ponder
broadcaster1 Pacoima, CA age: 56 online now!	Quote from duchessa: broadcaster1:"""" As much as I disagree with the OP on a lot of other issues I think the post is correct"" Are you aware that the OP was sent to me by a friend? It would have been a natural assumption that a "friend" and "words of wisdom" may have had the OP's endorsement, if so that would have been a point at which we would have had an agreement. If not then it is sad that on this issue also we may seem to beg to differ. Norbert Slidingbottom
8/5/2010 5:56:33 AM	Words to Ponder
duchessa Yonkers, NY age: 59 online now!	Quote from broadcaster1: It would have been a natural assumption that a "friend" and "words of wisdom" may have had the OP's endorsement, if so that would have been a point at which we would have had an agreement. If not then it is sad that on this issue also we may seem to beg to differ. Norbert Slidingbottom Yes, I endorse what my friend sent to me...I wouldn't start a thread if I didn't find it of value. Too bad, I love our disagreements. LOL
8/5/2010 6:01:12 AM	Words to Ponder
arkansasnman Fayetteville, AR age: 47	Quote from duchessa: I received these words from a friend.... There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore... and who always will. So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future. People shouldn't base their life and philisophies on poems or cliche's. ......also, why in the hell catagorize people like that? It leads to stupid conclusions and bad decision-making.
8/5/2010 6:02:13 AM	Words to Ponder
grneydsnglmale Grand Junction, CO age: 52	Without a point of reference we are doomed to repeat past mistakes. While not LIVING in the past, I have to REMEMBER it in order to not screw myself up again the same way. IMO...
8/5/2010 6:06:41 AM	Words to Ponder
pacifier69 Cattaraugus, NY age: 45 online now!	its very important to remember when the grass was green as to not make the same mistakes again. theres no possible way to just "forget" the past. thats not how a mind works. it is important not to bring up the past to future dates. no one likes hearing someone whining about their ex.
8/5/2010 6:25:36 AM	Words to Ponder
crzyblubttrfly Fort Smith, AR age: 51	Hopefully we will have our" memory bank" for a long time. Experience has always been the best teacher. Even so ... "Don't let yesterday use up too much of today." ,will always be my favorite. I use it so DAMN much.
8/5/2010 6:27:32 AM	Words to Ponder
grneydsnglmale Grand Junction, CO age: 52	Quote from crzyblubttrfly: Hopefully we will have our" memory bank" for a long time. Experience has always been the best teacher. Even so ... "Don't let yesterday use up too much of today." ,will always be my favorite. I use it so DAMN much. Excellent quote!
8/5/2010 6:34:59 AM	Words to Ponder
abreathaway Tulsa, OK age: 59	Quote from klassy_klown: I like the way you think. I wonder if anyone exists who has not felt pain? Does everyone's pain have to be equivalent to be felt? By the same token, are there those who have never experienced goodness? And does goodness have to be experienced on the same level to be felt? I believe I should not drink whiskey. Does the fact that someone else's pain is greater than yours, make you feel you pain less?
8/5/2010 6:36:52 AM	Words to Ponder
abreathaway Tulsa, OK age: 59	Quote from crzyblubttrfly: Hopefully we will have our" memory bank" for a long time. Experience has always been the best teacher. Even so ... "Don't let yesterday use up too much of today." ,will always be my favorite. I use it so DAMN much. The most intelligent thing (which really shocked me) my ex ever said to me is, "if you don't quit living in the past you may lose your present"!
8/5/2010 7:18:54 AM	Words to Ponder
broadcaster1 Pacoima, CA age: 56 online now!	Quote from duchessa: Yes, I endorse what my friend sent to me...I wouldn't start a thread if I didn't find it of value. Too bad, I love our disagreements. LOL They are merely points of view and as such nothing detrimental
8/5/2010 8:18:54 AM	Words to Ponder
trish2010 Burley, ID age: 38	Like this one too Attitudes are contagious is yours worth catching?
8/5/2010 8:41:57 AM	Words to Ponder
stumppy Bath, PA age: 64	Life can be a b*tch, If you are lucky you may grow up.
8/5/2010 10:02:12 AM	Words to Ponder
latestflame Germantown, TN age: 33 online now!	OP where someoen buys roses is one thing that doesnt matter and it's the thought that counts.
8/5/2010 10:19:14 AM	Words to Ponder
gary_guitar_ Franklin, NJ age: 54 online now!	I've got friends who have been in my life for a long time, friends who were in my life for a season, and friends who seemed to just pass through as quickly as they came. God puts people in our lives for a reason; either we're going to learn something from them or teach them something, we're going to help them through a tough time in their lives or they're going to help us through one. When we're really, really blessed, we will meet those friends who are there, no matter what and they're a joy to have in our lives. They stick around and we come to know what REAL friendship is. Passing friends and acquaintences are a dime a dozen, but true friends who will go the distance with us are the rarest and most precious gems we can ever be blessed with.
8/5/2010 10:23:35 AM	Words to Ponder
candyeyes83 Saint Petersburg, FL age: 26	Quote from gary_guitar_: I've got friends who have been in my life for a long time, friends who were in my life for a season, and friends who seemed to just pass through as quickly as they came. God puts people in our lives for a reason; either we're going to learn something from them or teach them something, we're going to help them through a tough time in their lives or they're going to help us through one. When we're really, really blessed, we will meet those friends who are there, no matter what and they're a joy to have in our lives. They stick around and we come to know what REAL friendship is. Passing friends and acquaintences are a dime a dozen, but true friends who will go the distance with us are the rarest and most precious gems we can ever be blessed with. Hey Gary! Its good to see you I like what you had to say and its oh so true! No matter how difficult or challenging a person is to deal with, I also believe they enter our lives for a reason, either to help us learn or for us to help them learn something. Just a few years ago I didn't realize that, but now I do ~
8/5/2010 11:08:37 AM	Words to Ponder
duchessa Yonkers, NY age: 59 online now!	Quote from arkansasnman: People shouldn't base their life and philisophies on poems or cliche's. ......also, why in the hell catagorize people like that? It leads to stupid conclusions and bad decision-making. Well, people base their life in whatever they feel is the right stuff for them; some base their life in one quote from their parents...others on a poem....another group base it on religion. Guess what? Nobody has the right to judge them. We are individuals and as such we find solace in different ways.

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