| 1/31/2008 10:00:01 AM |
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restlessknight
Philadelphia, PA
age: 51
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If you ended up being single for your entire life because you never found love would you feel like a failure?
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| 1/31/2008 10:29:14 AM |
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scatman80
Nassau, NY
age: 27
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I already do feel like a failure.
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| 1/31/2008 10:30:20 AM |
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are_we_a_match
Huntsville, AL
age: 30
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NO. That just says that we never found eachother.
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| 1/31/2008 10:34:19 AM |
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sitkarains
Sitka, AK
age: 48
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If you ended up being single for your entire life because you never found love would you feel like a failure?
No I would not feel like a failure. I am not a failure. I would continue living my life to the fullest. I am happy now, I am just not content with everything in my life. I still yearn to share it with someone special.
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| 1/31/2008 10:35:03 AM |
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silver_rain1011
Springfield, VA
age: 22
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I'd wind up very bitter and I'd be the crazy cat lady on the street.
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| 1/31/2008 10:41:50 AM |
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ddlknnc
Huntersville, NC
age: 53
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I have a lot of hobbies and projects to keep me busy so even the divorce didnt bring me down. Lately I have thought about the need to have someone steady in my life. Yes I would like that because it seems like something is missing, but it would have to be someone very special. I dont know about the rest of you, but going to bars to meet people is a bore. I think having a steady someone is good for planned events, even going to the movies is better as a pair.
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| 1/31/2008 10:43:38 AM |
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drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
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being single sucks! it sucks bad! it sucks real, real bad!  
ok ok i made my point. settle down. 
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| 1/31/2008 10:48:48 AM |
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collide64
Janesville, WI
age: 43
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Failure? Hell no. I love myself, my kids, my family, my friends, all of you...........I don't want to be alone but I choose to be alone until the best fit happens. Not expecting the perfect person just someone who can put up with me for the rest of my life.
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| 1/31/2008 10:58:19 AM |
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newlife4me2
Saylorsburg, PA
age: 43
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I agree with the above three posters.............but I read something a new friend wrote and I said "Yup - that is so true"
It went something like "I'm not looking for the one I can't live without, I'm looking for the one I don't want to live without."
[Edited 1/31/2008 10:59:22 AM]
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| 1/31/2008 11:00:33 AM |
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missyroo375
Suffern, NY
age: 21
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I have to admit I'm young single and I love it!!1I'm free to travel the world  
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| 1/31/2008 11:01:22 AM |
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missyroo375
Suffern, NY
age: 21
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but there are times that I feel I could have more.......
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| 1/31/2008 11:04:01 AM |
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collide64
Janesville, WI
age: 43
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Missy, enjoy your freeedom and youth. You have plenty of time to find the right one. It's not a race, no matter what everyone around you is doing. JMO
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| 1/31/2008 11:08:30 AM |
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stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 41
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No because I have a beautiful daughter to finish raising and she will always need me for something.
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| 1/31/2008 11:41:46 AM |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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I don't MIND being single, I mind being alone. There's a difference. Do I feel like I am a failure because I am alone? No. I'm a very successful alone person. But I don't think I ever intend to marry again - to me marrying wasn't any less lonely than I have been in the 12 years since the divorce.... in fact in some ways it was more so because he was right beside me in the bed.
Now I miss people who should be beside me in the bed and aren't.
?? makes sense to me??
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| 1/31/2008 11:51:01 AM |
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restlessknight
Philadelphia, PA
age: 51
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Last time I checked, being single wasn't a life sentence and in my mind doesn’t equate to any sore of failure in life. In fact, any day now, I could meet Ms. Right. Instead of waiting for her to come along, I relish the fact that she has yet to arrive which leaves me to be the CEO of my wonderful life. I don't have to ask permission to stay out extra late with my friends or compromise on matters of finance, housing, travel, etc. I’m single and ready to mingle and that's just fine with me!
Want to know the most beautiful thing about being single? The endless possibilities that await you! The world is your proverbial oyster. Indulge!
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