Nice Guy ?? You tell us.

8/14/2010 6:22:14 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
stumppy Bath, PA age: 64	Let us have a debate, what is a nice guy? I read these threads, in all these posts, and have yet to see a consistent opinion of what a nice guy is. I have been called a nice guy by one, and 10 minutes later called a rude, childish boor, by another. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
8/14/2010 6:23:59 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
sdiver31 Port Richey, FL age: 40	not sure what people consider nice, I believe I am maybe that is my problem.
8/14/2010 6:24:52 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
jammil Valdosta, GA age: 27 online now!	I'll answer this later. I'm posting now to keep this easy to spot in the forums. Great to discuss!
8/14/2010 6:25:33 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
lakersrock Springville, UT age: 43
8/14/2010 6:25:33 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
qnofmycstle Tempe, AZ age: 36	The "nice guy" has many of the qualities or traits you seek.....but you're just not attracted to them...!!!
8/14/2010 6:26:41 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
polefrog Harriman, TN age: 53	I think, they think it means neutered!
8/14/2010 6:29:22 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
stumppy Bath, PA age: 64	Qn, That rings true, from my male perspective re: women.
8/14/2010 6:33:11 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
kittykat66 Moosic, PA age: 43	I believe the problem lays in where every woman has her own version of what a nice guy is.. I will come back to this I just wanted to keep track .. and now i am going to go spend time with the sweetest and nicest guy i know... my grandson.. kiss kiss
8/14/2010 6:33:24 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
eztimes71 Martinsville, VA age: 39	Quote from qnofmycstle: The "nice guy" has many of the qualities or traits you seek.....but you're just not attracted to them...!!! There's my problem!
8/14/2010 6:35:04 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
lakersrock Springville, UT age: 43	Quote from qnofmycstle: The "nice guy" has many of the qualities or traits you seek.....but you're just not attracted to them...!!! i knew it was my looks.
8/14/2010 6:37:40 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
thebestman Alpharetta, GA age: 36	A nice guy has all the nice attributes but bears no backbone, not adventurous, easy to walk over, kiss women's a** often, highly predictable, cookie whooped, etc... Women will test men to see how much and how far they can get away with stuff, and if a woman feels like she can walk over him, he's deemed too nice and she's not interested. There's nothing wrong with being nice, but a man must have a backbone, don't come across as being weak, be adventurous, spontaneous, spice things up, be assertive and a host of other things. The bottom line, be versatile and not a suck up and kiss ass.
8/14/2010 6:46:44 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
lotusfly0 Longmont, CO age: 52	Depends Stumpy Your up bringing. Your inner self. Your religion or none there which. Like for instance, you people see me in all different lights depending on your personal perspective of life values. Look at Muslims and Christians, that's on a broader perspective, but a parable nonetheless. As you know, we are all different, not just our physical make up but or up bringing too. Look at the diversity in these United States. Heck there was a national war over difference of opinion, least we not forget. I need to dramatics, yet factual, to get the point across. And it doesn't stop there, even our inner selves. Hey, thirty years ago when in the military I had buds who had the pick up line, " hey B if I follow you home will you keep me for a few days?", and they were all most always taken up on it. I never did, but was asked ti gigolo lol no, never did. Roll with it?????
8/14/2010 6:49:36 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
hookingup2010 Denver, CO age: 38	I think we are all nice, I don't know if anybody would recognize being evil or bad
8/14/2010 6:50:04 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
nole_89 Loganville, GA age: 47	See jamesbrown40. He's a poster here. Pretty much the personification of a nice guy. Both the good and bad.
8/14/2010 6:53:11 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
122750again Deva Romania age: 59	A Nice Man, has all the Good Qualities, that the Bad Boys lack. Dependable Honest True to Himself Humble, yet Proud Willing to Compromise Capable to Adapt Loving Endearing Forthright Falable Respectful
8/14/2010 7:00:22 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
polefrog Harriman, TN age: 53	Maybe we aren't nice.......just sneaky!
8/14/2010 7:12:36 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
jonas35 Dahlonega, GA age: 36	<---- Poster child for nice guy.
8/14/2010 7:15:15 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
nance416 Lebanon, PA age: 59	Ok gals looks like this thread needs some more female perspectives ....... Nice guy....... this can be broken down in so many ways. I think a nice guy is someone who is easy to talk to, one that also listens to what the conversaton is about. And yes someone with maners. He is unually one who is comfortable within himself that shines to those around him. nice guy - is not always followed with BUT..... As we age, there is just some qualities that are more important than when we were younger, that we want and need. Some of us are looking for that nice guy and not a kiss asssssss but its a quality first looked for, with many of us. We dont want a dork.......we are not interested in someone who is stuck on themselves, etc. Yet each of them have some qualities too. I'm not looking to rule the roost but to have equal parts and say. I have met a few men and I think on the most part they are all "Nice Guys". Just not what all, I am looking totally for, but a plus!
8/14/2010 7:16:16 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
exctbleboy Gainesville, FL age: 45	This again ? A nice guy is a sucker I am telling you .Now I consider myself a gentlemen until I have a reason to be something else entirely I have been called a nice guy by one, and 10 minutes later called a rude, childish boor, by another Better to go ahead and just be an a** hole up front that way you dont confuse them
8/14/2010 7:25:12 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
kittykat66 Moosic, PA age: 43	Quote from thebestman: A nice guy has all the nice attributes but bears no backbone, not adventurous, easy to walk over, kiss women's a** often, highly predictable, cookie whooped, etc... Women will test men to see how much and how far they can get away with stuff, and if a woman feels like she can walk over him, he's deemed too nice and she's not interested. There's nothing wrong with being nice, but a man must have a backbone, don't come across as being weak, be adventurous, spontaneous, spice things up, be assertive and a host of other things. The bottom line, be versatile and not a suck up and kiss ass. guess you just did the talking so I dont need to repeat myself.... BRAVO.. totally agree, tho when I said it in a different thread ... it upset some ladies so take cover babe.. hehehheheehe.. meowwwww
8/14/2010 7:29:31 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
okmrchris Hicksville, NY age: 49	He's the guy I never want to be.
8/14/2010 7:53:32 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
doublehugx Campbell, CA age: 83	The whole problem is the phrase.... " You're a really nice guy, BUT...." means you are not her nice guy..... Nice is just a word, and the whole drama is that it gets used to let people down easily...... don't worry about the labels, guys....just be yourselves, be someone you can be proud to see in the mirror, and a very good woman will be there shortly. So many people try to use the bait to find someone, whether it be niceness, money, looks....whatever. You aren't going to find someone to love YOU by being someone else!
8/14/2010 7:57:05 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
rob2k Mocksville, NC age: 36	Laugh my a** off, too nice? there's a difference between being nice and getting walked on. You react to the situation you're given, if you're nice to me, I'll be even nicer to you. If you're not, I simply won't be with you, easy as that.
8/14/2010 8:17:08 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
milas2010 Philadelphia, PA age: 28	Quote from qnofmycstle: The "nice guy" has many of the qualities or traits you seek.....but you're just not attracted to them...!!! This would be the answer for most females.
8/14/2010 8:24:01 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
kingofnorcal510 Oakland, CA age: 20	Symptoms of Nice Guy Syndrome: -Goes all out to please his lover, even at his inconvenience. -Usually indecisive -A "yes man", I.E. avoids arguing, even if it means going against what he believes -Gets insecure if he sees his lady talking to other guys -Rarely flirts with other people when in a committed relationship -Overly concerned about hurting women (physically or emotionally) -Calls her several times daily -Takes every rejection from women personally [Edited 8/14/2010 8:24:31 PM ]
8/14/2010 8:28:10 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
sunny_bee Torrance, CA age: 45	Everyone has both good and bad qualities. Some have more of one than the other, and we all have had different experiences and opinions...so what may be "nice" to me might be considered a schmuck by someone else. I think my main qualifier for a guy to be considered "nice" would be honesty and respect. ETA: self professed "nice guys" are usually schmucks, case in point: Flamer [Edited 8/14/2010 8:29:10 PM ]
8/14/2010 8:39:04 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
bob_redux Kathmandu Nepal age: 55	A "nice guy" is a genetic dead end. Women want to squirm under a winner, and he usually isn't all that "nice." As long as you don't disrespect her in front of family or friends, and ask nothing of her except sex........she will fool herself into believing she is in love with you. Good luck...
8/14/2010 8:48:17 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
crzyblubttrfly Fort Smith, AR age: 51	Quote from qnofmycstle: The "nice guy" has many of the qualities or traits you seek.....but you're just not attracted to them...!!! and let me add when you upfront and honest(which they all mention they prefer)about your lack of attraction they handle it like a man.
8/14/2010 8:49:16 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
milas2010 Philadelphia, PA age: 28	Quote from thebestman: A nice guy has all the nice attributes but bears no backbone, not adventurous, easy to walk over, kiss women's a** often, highly predictable, cookie whooped, etc... Women will test men to see how much and how far they can get away with stuff, and if a woman feels like she can walk over him, he's deemed too nice and she's not interested. There's nothing wrong with being nice, but a man must have a backbone, don't come across as being weak, be adventurous, spontaneous, spice things up, be assertive and a host of other things. The bottom line, be versatile and not a suck up and kiss ass.
8/14/2010 8:51:30 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
claudius5 Petaluma, CA age: 60	All I know is that they whine a lot and have a tendency towards self promotion; because that is the only way they get noticed.
8/14/2010 8:57:28 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
jammil Valdosta, GA age: 27 online now!	Quote from thebestman:A nice guy has all the nice attributes but bears no backbone, not adventurous, easy to walk over, kiss women's a** often, highly predictable, cookie whooped, etc... Women will test men to see how much and how far they can get away with stuff, and if a woman feels like she can walk over him, he's deemed too nice and she's not interested. There's nothing wrong with being nice, but a man must have a backbone, don't come across as being weak, be adventurous, spontaneous, spice things up, be assertive and a host of other things. The bottom line, be versatile and not a suck up and kiss ass. You kick ass, thanks for posting exactly what I was thinking. Get on writing that book so I can buy it already!
8/14/2010 9:25:38 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
s1eep1ess Clovis, CA age: 39 online now!	Nice is in the eye of the beholder.. Some people like assertive men while others like the ones who show a lot of emotions... I want someone who is strong minded won't give me everythang I want, but will also be there for me when I need him.. The men that show emotions all the time don't mean there not a nice guy but I know me well enough to know Its not a good type of relationship for me and my personality..
8/14/2010 9:27:52 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
thebestman Alpharetta, GA age: 36	thanks jammil
8/14/2010 9:29:20 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
jammil Valdosta, GA age: 27 online now!	I'm a problem solver, not a nice guy!
8/14/2010 11:17:19 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
jennala Surrey, BC age: 42	Quote from thebestman: A nice guy has all the nice attributes but bears no backbone, not adventurous, easy to walk over, kiss women's a** often, highly predictable, cookie whooped, etc... Women will test men to see how much and how far they can get away with stuff, and if a woman feels like she can walk over him, he's deemed too nice and she's not interested. There's nothing wrong with being nice, but a man must have a backbone, don't come across as being weak, be adventurous, spontaneous, spice things up, be assertive and a host of other things. The bottom line, be versatile and not a suck up and kiss ass. great reply thank you bestman! [Edited 8/14/2010 11:21:40 PM ]
8/14/2010 11:24:09 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
jennala Surrey, BC age: 42	Quote from sunny_bee: Everyone has both good and bad qualities. Some have more of one than the other, and we all have had different experiences and opinions...so what may be "nice" to me might be considered a schmuck by someone else. I think my main qualifier for a guy to be considered "nice" would be honesty and respect. ETA: self professed "nice guys" are usually schmucks, case in point: Flamer i agree
8/14/2010 11:24:35 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	Quote from claudius5: All I know is that they whine a lot and have a tendency towards self promotion; because that is the only way they get noticed. Or so it would seem here on DH.....
8/14/2010 11:27:25 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
mercedes01 New South Wales Australia age: 48	I reckon when someone say's your nice it means your a plain boring person but nice
8/14/2010 11:46:44 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
bigbazborn San Jose, CA age: 45	I am boring an a lil prick.
8/14/2010 11:51:13 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
jonas35 Dahlonega, GA age: 36	I have heard nice guys taste better, wouldn't know. What do you ladies think?
8/14/2010 11:57:05 PM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
gritsarebest Kannapolis, NC age: 46	Quote from polefrog: Maybe we aren't nice.......just sneaky! pole....you sneaky?????
8/15/2010 12:01:06 AM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
tina_holmes Atlanta, GA age: 30	Quote from qnofmycstle: The "nice guy" has many of the qualities or traits you seek.....but you're just not attracted to them...!!! I do not mean to open e discussion with you but pleeease stop with this overrated BS of the boring good guy, and the intriguing son-of-a-b*tch. PLEASE! Then all guys around, will convince themselves that they have to act like jerks in order to attract women...and the result of those BS is a complete mess already. [Edited 8/15/2010 12:01:47 AM ]
8/15/2010 12:10:43 AM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
halilove Gainesville, FL age: 44	If a man is not "nice" to me I am gone Don't like jerks
8/15/2010 12:13:19 AM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
bigbazborn San Jose, CA age: 45	Nice and unpredictable?
8/15/2010 12:17:19 AM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
tina_holmes Atlanta, GA age: 30	To me a good guy is no necessarily spineless, he eventually can kick asses; the difference is that the bad guy kicks asses randomly to attract the attention, the good guy kicks only the asses that deserve to be kicked, just because is fear; and others can think what they want. [Edited 8/15/2010 12:19:29 AM ]
8/15/2010 12:18:13 AM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
broadcaster1 Pacoima, CA age: 56	Quote from hookingup2010: I think we are all nice, I don't know if anybody would recognize being evil or bad When I am good I am bad and when I am bad I am really bad
8/15/2010 12:18:38 AM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
bigwhiteshaft Lettsworth, LA age: 21	Some times you gotta just lick somw booty!
8/15/2010 12:39:50 AM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
northphxhiker Phoenix, AZ age: 48	i've been called "adorable" once or twice by women -not so sure if that's a good thing or an insult?
8/15/2010 2:47:10 AM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
1joyusall Queensland Australia age: 63 online now!	Quote from stumppy: Let us have a debate, what is a nice guy? I read these threads, in all these posts, and have yet to see a consistent opinion of what a nice guy is. I have been called a nice guy by one, and 10 minutes later called a rude, childish boor, by another. stumppy in my opinion u swing (not sexually) from someone i would like 2 saying something that offends--- i dont know if u think its smart or what? i like humour so maybe if u put a laugh icon i will know u aren't serious=== once u really took me by surprise and i thought omg hes one of those---no respect 4 women---hurtful degrading after that i never say stumppy (POO-meaning friend) 2 u, cuz i thought ur rude---now if i talk rude and u tell me, i will say sorry 4 it--even if i didn't offend on purpose u treat women's assets dont have a better word---what makes them women in a degrading way now humour is fine--- laughter i like--but pure attack NO. we need to feel what makes us woman our biology is soft beautiful respected and sacred---not vulgar and ugly and of no value except 2 be used. nice guys have that sweet awe of a woman--like her femininity is sacred-:::rose:--they never use vulgarity to describe it. i like nice men--- we dont need 2 be degraded then we end up degrading u
8/15/2010 3:02:35 AM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
1joyusall Queensland Australia age: 63 online now!	Quote from thebestman: A nice guy has all the nice attributes but bears no backbone, not adventurous, easy to walk over, kiss women's a** often, highly predictable, cookie whooped, etc... Women will test men to see how much and how far they can get away with stuff, and if a woman feels like she can walk over him, he's deemed too nice and she's not interested. There's nothing wrong with being nice, but a man must have a backbone, don't come across as being weak, be adventurous, spontaneous, spice things up, be assertive and a host of other things. The bottom line, be versatile and not a suck up and kiss ass. my dead hubby let me know---when i was heading the wrong way--- but not in a vulgar way--- he realize i had feelings--- he wasn't perfect--- but he tried---he didn't use abuse be disrespectful and tell me he could have anyone like me , women come a dime 4 a dozen he valued me--so i tried to deeply respect him if u start calling women (i speak 4 myself) degrading things u lower her self esteem --y would u do that on purpose? its hard 2 respect a man who doesn't respect u,---so u grow cold and distance and use him and speak 2 him the bad way he spoke 2 u, women need kind sincere words and then u will get more physical intimacy from them--they wont just oblige u like its a job. this is my opinion
8/15/2010 3:42:31 AM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
stumppy Bath, PA age: 64	So far the only thing I'm getting from the guys is that they are afraid to be thought of as being wusses if someone says they are nice, and from the ladies that they say someone is nice is when they are blowing them off the potential list. Which is why guys don't want to be nice. But the ladies btch if the guy acts unnice. WTF*
8/15/2010 3:46:40 AM	Nice Guy ?? You tell us.
jammil Valdosta, GA age: 27 online now!	I'm halfway tempted to b*tch in the worst way about this town I'm stationed at.

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