Is chilvary dead?

8/21/2010 3:29:04 PM	Is chilvary dead?
a_new_plan Houston, TX age: 25	I'm curious. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
8/21/2010 3:30:10 PM	Is chilvary dead?
wheels915 Mesa, AZ age: 51	NO.
8/21/2010 3:31:37 PM	Is chilvary dead?
donajaii Lansing, MI age: 42	A NO, right away. Yee Haa!!!
8/21/2010 3:33:41 PM	Is chilvary dead?
keepalowprofile Sturgeon Lake, MN age: 48	Chilvary showed up right a way. But I was looking for suave and debonair.
8/21/2010 3:33:45 PM	Is chilvary dead?
qnofmycstle Tempe, AZ age: 36	That would be a big "NO" for me too...... had a date last night that proved it's still alive and well.......! So a double "Yeeee ....hawwwwww"....
8/21/2010 3:34:41 PM	Is chilvary dead?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	Chilvary probably is...one of those old English words that has no meaning... But chivalry is still alive and well. You just have to be the type of person toward whom men like to be chivalrous...
8/21/2010 3:36:30 PM	Is chilvary dead?
donajaii Lansing, MI age: 42	Quote from mendicant: Chilvary probably is...one of those old English words that has no meaning... But chivalry is still alive and well. You just have to be the type of person toward whom men like to be chivalrous... Exactly. How ya doing lady??
8/21/2010 3:36:55 PM	Is chilvary dead?
wttychrm Arlington, TX age: 24	No, but it usually shows up in the wrong package
8/21/2010 3:39:15 PM	Is chilvary dead?
wheels915 Mesa, AZ age: 51	Quote from wttychrm: No, but it usually shows up in the wrong package ??????????
8/21/2010 3:40:41 PM	Is chilvary dead?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	Quote from donajaii: Exactly. How ya doing lady?? I'm doing great! Just ready for fall to arrive...this summer heat's a killer! How are you???
8/21/2010 3:41:56 PM	Is chilvary dead?
ladybugbp Pittsburgh, PA age: 51	I haven't found chivalry to be dead.
8/21/2010 3:46:39 PM	Is chilvary dead?
a_new_plan Houston, TX age: 25	@ mendi- It was a typo. Has anybody ever told you that you're very nit-picky? Are you a Virgo? There, I've proof-read and inserted correct punctuation. Happy? [Edited 8/21/2010 3:47:40 PM ]
8/21/2010 3:49:08 PM	Is chilvary dead?
wttychrm Arlington, TX age: 24	Quote from wheels915: ?????????? I mean it's usually the guy I'm not even remotely interested in who's a complete and total gentleman...
8/21/2010 3:51:31 PM	Is chilvary dead?
musicdesign Rocky Hill, CT age: 48	Quote from wttychrm: No, but it usually shows up in the wrong package You are so right about that!!
8/21/2010 3:51:53 PM	Is chilvary dead?
donajaii Lansing, MI age: 42	Quote from wttychrm: I mean it's usually the guy I'm not even remotely interested in who's a complete and total gentleman... I am curious about this statement. This could be a thread all it't own. Why do you think that is?
8/21/2010 3:54:02 PM	Is chilvary dead?
onetrueleo Newark, NJ age: 33	NO.
8/21/2010 3:55:47 PM	Is chilvary dead?
liberallady Lodi, CA age: 50	No
8/21/2010 4:22:07 PM	Is chilvary dead?
liberallady Lodi, CA age: 50	I'm glad my Dad is deadHe scared the hell out of any man who came anywhere near his daughters (6). Some stayed and I guess they passed the test when it came to my Dad "testing their metal", yeah I'll just bet my brothers in law had to ask him for his daughters "hand in marriage" after my dad got his hands off their throuts j/k. OMG my Father was a pistol!! Scared the berjeebers out of me too. edit spelling [Edited 8/21/2010 4:26:13 PM ]
8/21/2010 4:23:12 PM	Is chilvary dead?
mendicant Tulsa, OK age: 81	You're right, OP...I AM nit-picky... Comes from being an English teacher...
8/21/2010 4:39:23 PM	Is chilvary dead?
stumppy Bath, PA age: 64	Hey Mendi... , How is my use of English doing ? ?
8/21/2010 4:42:05 PM	Is chilvary dead?
claudius5 Petaluma, CA age: 60	Chivalry is alive and well. Maybe it's on vacation. I'm sure it will turn up soon.
8/21/2010 5:02:51 PM	Is chilvary dead?
wttychrm Arlington, TX age: 24	Quote from donajaii: I am curious about this statement. This could be a thread all it't own. Why do you think that is? Well you've just inspired me to start my first thread, donajaii..look for it here momentarily
8/21/2010 5:05:21 PM	Is chilvary dead?
pacifier69 Cattaraugus, NY age: 45	i believe chivalry is alive and well...i just hope southern hospitality is still kickin
8/21/2010 5:05:52 PM	Is chilvary dead?
donajaii Lansing, MI age: 42	Quote from wttychrm: Well you've just inspired me to start my first thread, donajaii..look for it here momentarily Cool!
8/21/2010 5:10:30 PM	Is chilvary dead?
cranky_geezer Coram, NY age: 51	What is chilvary? If you meant chivalry, then no. It's hard to kill something that never existed.
8/21/2010 5:11:00 PM	Is chilvary dead?
gdaddy47 Columbia, TN age: 62	Southern hospitality is still kicking. The thing about it is that lots of "yankees" moved here and stayed. That made them "damn yankees".
8/21/2010 5:13:43 PM	Is chilvary dead?
pacifier69 Cattaraugus, NY age: 45	we had to move south. someone had to go to work...
8/21/2010 5:18:56 PM	Is chilvary dead?
122750again Sioux Falls, SD age: 59	Quote from pacifier69: we had to move south. someone had to go to work... 18,621 Guitar Pickers in Nashville
8/21/2010 5:20:28 PM	Is chilvary dead?
stigertails McKinney, TX age: 50	Quote from pacifier69: i believe chivalry is alive and well...i just hope southern hospitality is still kickin hey NY I have been in texas for 30 years and the people down here are the friendliest in the contry. Until they get behind the wheel of a car or truck. Then you may be safer in afganistan or iraq.
8/21/2010 5:34:13 PM	Is chilvary dead?
stigertails McKinney, TX age: 50	Still believe the chivalry is alive but slowly starting to hide as the years go on. Why would a gentleman want to take the time to teach a child manors, respect,, helping others looking after the interest of those that needs help and many other virtues , when society seems to be against that and more of a me first attitude. Here is a little thing to consider. When teaching a small child to help someone, do not have them look at the color of there skin or sex first. When teaching your girl to be self supportive and handle thing on her own, let them know it is still OK to let a boy or a man carry there bags or open a door. And here is a shocker that will floor you. Got it from a training class I had 15 years ago. Why not have a mother date a son and a father date a daughter? Here is the meaning of it. Just set aside one on one time with your child to take them out and show them how to act in public, and ecperiance a good time without pressure from their peers and others. And I do realize that the world is not perfect but what about a positive male or female role model for a child to learn and respect? could not hurt. Chivalry is not dead and there are still a few of us out there that practices it and does what is right but we are far and few between. Some times we would just like to here a little thank you and know it is worth the effort to do the right thing (s).
8/21/2010 5:41:11 PM	Is chilvary dead?
pacifier69 Cattaraugus, NY age: 45	Quote from 122750again: 18,621 Guitar Pickers in Nashville i musta missed that episode of hee haw...dammit!!
8/21/2010 6:52:11 PM	Is chilvary dead?
bigray62 Philadelphia, PA age: 48	No! I think it`s a sign of respect. I`ve dated women who never had a door opened.for them,a chair pulled out,or an umbrella held over them. If you care for someone,it`s the least you can do. It`s the little things that go a long way!
8/21/2010 7:11:42 PM	Is chilvary dead?
legaleye Columbus, OH age: 58	Chivalry is certainly not dead, but sometimes its a crapshoot as to how she will respond. Clearly I want a relationship with someone who undersands, respects and accepts chivalrous behavior, but I have been amazed by how many women see my being chivalrous as akin to demeaning them as less than equal, second class, and the need to be protected mode.
8/21/2010 7:17:19 PM	Is chilvary dead?
pinguinorojo Binghamton, NY age: 24	Quote from bigray62: No! I think it`s a sign of respect. I`ve dated women who never had a door opened.for them,a chair pulled out,or an umbrella held over them. If you care for someone,it`s the least you can do. It`s the little things that go a long way! I agree, it's respect... At my college, I've opened doors for women... Sometimes I get a smile and nice eye contact, that makes it all worth it. Sometimes I get a respectful 'thank you', which is nice. Sometimes I get a hurried or perhaps forceful 'thanks', which is a bit annoying but acceptable. Sometimes they don't acknowledge my existence, which makes me think, 'wow how clueless' and 'why the hell do I do this?'... Then I remember about all the 3 previous instances and I do it again next time. I have also opened doors for men who have their hands occupied with heavy things and don't look able of doing it themselves without trowing anything on the ground first...
8/21/2010 7:21:49 PM	Is chilvary dead?
pinguinorojo Binghamton, NY age: 24	Quote from legaleye: Chivalry is certainly not dead, but sometimes its a crapshoot as to how she will respond. Clearly I want a relationship with someone who undersands, respects and accepts chivalrous behavior, but I have been amazed by how many women see my being chivalrous as akin to demeaning them as less than equal, second class, and the need to be protected mode. Also agreed... too many women in this country seem to interpret a simple almost meaningless gesture or compliment as demeaning behavior, perhaps they interpret any sort of chivalrous behavior as an attempt to make a move on them (which is not always the case).
8/21/2010 9:35:19 PM	Is chilvary dead?
broadcaster1 Pacoima, CA age: 56	Quote from wttychrm: No, but it usually shows up in the wrong package It does not show on a iron horse as one might wish how disappointing and unexpected
8/21/2010 9:37:28 PM	Is chilvary dead?
eternalsolace Savannah, GA age: 28	Yes, my last GF shot it, kicked it's nuts in, disemboweled it to get them out, shoved it in chivalries mouth, right before chopping it's head off. It's probably not dead though. Just badly mutilated waiting on it's HMO
8/21/2010 10:08:01 PM	Is chilvary dead?
broadcaster1 Pacoima, CA age: 56	Quote from pinguinorojo: I agree, it's respect... At my college, I've opened doors for women... Sometimes I get a smile and nice eye contact, that makes it all worth it. Sometimes I get a respectful 'thank you', which is nice. Sometimes I get a hurried or perhaps forceful 'thanks', which is a bit annoying but acceptable. Sometimes they don't acknowledge my existence, which makes me think, 'wow how clueless' and 'why the hell do I do this?'... Then I remember about all the 3 previous instances and I do it again next time. I have also opened doors for men who have their hands occupied with heavy things and don't look able of doing it themselves without trowing anything on the ground first... There is another category which is worth mentioning Though I may add I haven't come across these in the USA that often. Sometimes you also may get " I drink beer and don't shave my legs so don't think I am inferior" this is a rare case experience in Europe
8/21/2010 10:14:38 PM	Is chilvary dead?
rlm68 Mesa, AZ age: 41	it means chilly/cold..chivary.
8/21/2010 10:43:48 PM	Is chilvary dead?
kpthatsme Chicago, IL age: 50	I don't think it's dead. I think it's a combination of things such as how he was brought up and what kind of level of respect he has for the person he is with. If he rally cares and has feelings for her - it'll be second nature to open doors - walk on the outside of the sidewalk - treat her with dignity and respect and just be there to protect her. I know I know women can protect themselves and open their own doors blah blah blah - but I'm not one of them. I like to see the manners and know that someone thinks enough of me to show them too!

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