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10/25/2010 3:29:08 PM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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Why it that I meet the guys that are seriously disturbed?
Why is that I have met several guys who seems genuine; hours of talking and texting, to then mid sentence have them just vanish into thin air?
Why do some some guys say that they are on their way to meet me but never show up?
Why is it that I read on guys profiles; that they are not interested in games, and yet as far as I can tell they play more games than Bob Barker?
Why can't some guy just be honest?
Why do some guys say that they want an honest woman, and then indulge in behavior that is the antithesis of the goal?
Why do some guys feel that it is ok to ask me to engage in a sexual act with them, without me knowing what they look like, to then be verbally abused for asking if they have a picture?
Why are some guys habitual liars?
Why do some guys work feverishly to destroy something that has not even really begun to be built?
Why?
And yes for the record I am seriously livid right now!
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10/25/2010 3:42:48 PM |
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nobs4u
Mansfield, OH
age: 49
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Well,then,I won't "poke the hornets nest".....oh,what am I saying?Sure I will!Now,now,Nikkithe song was "Some GIRLS" and the Rolling Stones did it...............P.S.I'll bet yer cute when yer mad!
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10/25/2010 3:43:59 PM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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WEll! Ya made me laugh babe! Kudos
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10/25/2010 3:56:25 PM |
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nobs4u
Mansfield, OH
age: 49
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awwww,shucks,just doin' my job ,ma'am!*tip o' the hat*
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10/25/2010 5:03:18 PM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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I just received a phone call from a Chinese restaurant, had a HUGE order of food placed to my phone number from some guy who refused to leave his name! How f**king infantile is that!
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10/25/2010 5:55:25 PM |
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spud466
Galion, OH
age: 49
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Yes that was infantile does'nt that person know that after you eat chinese food 15 minutes later your hungery again!!
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10/25/2010 5:59:59 PM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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One difference between men and women: women walk around malls, look at clothes and other goodies, laugh a lot and if they see something they like, they buy it. On the other hand, men walk around in the woods, listening for sounds and looking for signs and if they see something they like, they shoot it! I wanna go shopping!
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10/25/2010 7:39:35 PM |
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rzibb
Oberlin, OH
age: 58
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I just received a phone call from a Chinese restaurant, had a HUGE order of food placed to my phone number from some guy who refused to leave his name! How f**king infantile is that!
Next time that happens give nobs and i a shout, I am sure we will be willing to split the cost and enjoy the food.
What you posted is also a two way street, i have made plans with the ladies and a noshow on their part. But hey no worries, if it was ment to be they will send me a note and we can arrange another meeting.
I checked out your profile and you seem like a nice lady, so don't worry, a nice guy will come along and sweep you off your feet, until then kick back and relax and ignore all the wackos out there.
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10/25/2010 7:45:21 PM |
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legaleye
Columbus, OH
age: 58
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As said, its a two way street. Since you date men, you deal with men who have those traits. Men who date women will claim the women are the same way. There are just a lot of dysfunctional people out there. At the same time, people dont have patience, and also, both men and women, have unrealistic viewpoints about how life really works.
When I first got divorced many many years ago, I was to say it mildly, shocked at how many people will just turn into date no shows. Same with the number of people who relied on pills and stuff to keep them walking a straight line, so to speak, legal and otherwise. But nothing surprises me anymore, and I have no real expectations about a date anymore, so cant be disappointed, only pleasantly surprised.
Laughing here... seriously livid... so you shaved your legs for this one?
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10/26/2010 9:48:33 AM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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rzibb: Thank you very much! It would be awesome if he would turn up sooner rather than later!
legaleye: As a matter of fact I did! But I do every other day so it's a moot point on that topic
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10/26/2010 11:21:35 AM |
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imagoodone4sure
Xenia, OH
age: 50
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Wow I'm impressed that you shave so often. I might shave once a month in the winter time. Just goes to show ya, I don't date plus the extra hair keeps me warm.
Chin up - ppl, both men and women can be jerks and when they know they made you upset, they win.
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10/26/2010 12:37:30 PM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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I HATE the stubble lol! Of course both can be buggers; however, yesterday I had enough and I may stop dating for a while. I am waiting to hear if I am accepted for the position that I have been interviewing for (fingers crossed) and I will know by the end of the week. Maybe I'll focus on my career again for a while! UGH! Spinsters say that don't they?
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10/26/2010 1:03:03 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 46
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Good luck with the job nikki!!
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10/26/2010 2:59:00 PM |
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easydaddy2loveu
Dayton, OH
age: 41
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Dont give up Nikki. Some guys are just a**holes and others love in a rain cloud. There's one out there just looking for you. They just might need GPS though. Can we have those installed on our butts yet? Im sure technology is getting that far so only a matter of time.
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10/26/2010 3:33:11 PM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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Sb: thank so much. My costume is complete and I am sooooooo looking forward to this weekend. It would kick a** if it is celebration of halloween and getting the job!
Thanks Chuck! My sister keeps telling me this as well, but I'm so disgusted with guys right now. I might mistakenly tell the right guy to bugger off lol! Note to self, don't be mean to all new guys!
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10/26/2010 3:50:26 PM |
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easydaddy2loveu
Dayton, OH
age: 41
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Remember men are pricks by nature. Lovers by neccessity. Comforting when needed. Almost good for nothing the rest of the time.
Just keep smiling and keep listening to your sister.
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10/26/2010 4:21:54 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 46
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I don't know the answer to any of your why, why, why questions.
Just stopped in to say I can't wait till this weekend either. I'm seriously considering taking Friday off just because!! Actually I have a lot of stuff to do for Saturday so I'm thinking an extra day off would help. Well, that's my excuse anyway!!
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10/26/2010 5:10:13 PM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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You should for sure take Friday off on this weekend! Get smashed Friday and Saturday! hehe
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10/27/2010 12:33:13 AM |
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snides20
Mingo Junction, OH
age: 28
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sorry nikki i thought ya was hungry
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10/27/2010 8:23:23 AM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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If I see you this weekend you are getting the biggest wedgie ever
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10/27/2010 12:22:55 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 46
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Alrighty then.....I have Friday off!!
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10/27/2010 1:11:51 PM |
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imagoodone4sure
Xenia, OH
age: 50
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Have tons of fun.. Take pics okay???
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10/27/2010 3:09:58 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 46
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Blackmail pictures, right?!?
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10/27/2010 3:45:01 PM |
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catieliz
Columbus, OH
age: 47
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I wish I knew the answer to your questions. I say when starting a relationship be friends. Get to know each others likes, and dislikes. Don't get the intimate thing going until you are in a few dates unless there is chemistry and you want to jump his/each others bone(s).
Both men and women can be weird and so very hard to read. Mine I am seeing has been talking about marriage, or moving in together. I am not ready for either. We have just been at this thing since April, and I know I have a wondering eye. My new job there are guys who flirt, especially the young ones, what is up with the 19 to 25 crowd, wanting a large almost 47 year old? Do they need a mama? That's subject for another thread. Ha, ha.
I do hope things go well for you. That is why they say Men are from Mars and Women from Venus. Both too hard to figure out.
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10/27/2010 5:17:53 PM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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Alrighty then.....I have Friday off!!
WOOOHOOOO!
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10/27/2010 5:26:04 PM |
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easydaddy2loveu
Dayton, OH
age: 41
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I wish I knew the answer to your questions. I say when starting a relationship be friends. Get to know each others likes, and dislikes. Don't get the intimate thing going until you are in a few dates unless there is chemistry and you want to jump his/each others bone(s).
Both men and women can be weird and so very hard to read. Mine I am seeing has been talking about marriage, or moving in together. I am not ready for either. We have just been at this thing since April, and I know I have a wondering eye. My new job there are guys who flirt, especially the young ones, what is up with the 19 to 25 crowd, wanting a large almost 47 year old? Do they need a mama? That's subject for another thread. Ha, ha.
I do hope things go well for you. That is why they say Men are from Mars and Women from Venus. Both too hard to figure out.
Been my experience that older women are safer with 1 exception(topic for another thread).
Easier to get along with and easier to talk to. When I was younger every major relationship I had was with an older woman except for 1, and no I didnt need/want a momma. Younger women have a tendancy to be overly self conscience... hope I spelled that right Older women are more laid back and dont want games. Of course I can speak only from my own experience.
Chuck
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10/27/2010 5:54:20 PM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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Chuck, I agree totally! I'm not interested in games (well , naked twister may be lol)!
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10/28/2010 6:30:48 PM |
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mr_bojingles
Columbus, OH
age: 44
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Why ask Why!
It takes up too much much time and is a waste of effort.
For every person there is a different story.
Just be happy, don't let others still your joy, and keep moving to the rythum of your drum.
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Previously someone asked "What younger guys want with an older woman?"
A womans beauty never fades (excercise helps), and women usually aren't comfortable with their sexuality until they mature. The hormones flip flop:
Guys can't thank straight until the surge of testosterone levels off (older), and women become more aggressive as the estrogen drops (testosterone has a stronger influence on sex drive). Also, older women usually don't have unplanned pregnancies so both parties can relax and accept "it" for what it is. So there is a mutual exchange/benefit without all the drama.
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Why guys lie??
Remember the saying "Attract more bees with honey."
Women like the romance of getting what they want; so he gives it to her.
Tell a lie...she is happy, but tell the truth...a woman will complain until your dead and then date your best friend.
Honest guys are usually single.
Lying requires way too much effort.
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10/29/2010 10:56:00 AM |
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cowgirl212
Coshocton, OH
age: 52
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Ya gotta kiss alot of frogs before ya find that prince!...
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10/29/2010 12:58:04 PM |
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reeseciz
Streetsboro, OH
age: 30
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hell why do women never respond to my emails? Just ask to chat and get to know each other
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10/29/2010 4:36:53 PM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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hell why do women never respond to my emails? Just ask to chat and get to know each other
Huh! It's funny that you ask this cuz I was just complaining to my sister about the exact same thing! Dutch door action I suppose!
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10/29/2010 6:00:57 PM |
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reeseciz
Streetsboro, OH
age: 30
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Well just seems since I have a son more women are turned off , it sucks
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10/29/2010 6:22:18 PM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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Reese: like I said it's dutch door action: meaning, it swings both ways! guys don't contact me because I have children! but this is only one factor to take into consideration. online dating is brutal business, keep at it hum I'm sure that you will meet someone
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10/31/2010 12:23:48 AM |
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smokungguns05
Senecaville, OH
age: 37
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Why ask Why!
It takes up too much much time and is a waste of effort.
For every person there is a different story.
Just be happy, don't let others still your joy, and keep moving to the rythum of your drum.
---
Previously someone asked "What younger guys want with an older woman?"
A womans beauty never fades (excercise helps), and women usually aren't comfortable with their sexuality until they mature. The hormones flip flop:
Guys can't thank straight until the surge of testosterone levels off (older), and women become more aggressive as the estrogen drops (testosterone has a stronger influence on sex drive). Also, older women usually don't have unplanned pregnancies so both parties can relax and accept "it" for what it is. So there is a mutual exchange/benefit without all the drama.
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Why guys lie??
Remember the saying "Attract more bees with honey."
Women like the romance of getting what they want; so he gives it to her.
Tell a lie...she is happy, but tell the truth...a woman will complain until your dead and then date your best friend.
Honest guys are usually single.
Lying requires way too much effort.
Hmmm maybe that's why I'm always single...I'm too honest! I have a few friends who are the typical "bad boys" they get women all the time. I just laugh when the girls say, "why me" and I say cuz you keep chasing the bad boys. Lol and pass up the good ones like myself. : (
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10/31/2010 6:27:53 PM |
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idebonair
Cincinnati, OH
age: 22 online now!
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I'm visiting Cincinnati from NY and I'm trying to figure out
WHY does it seem like 90% of the women have kids here?
and
Why are 85% of the women I see are overweight?
this place sucks sorry but it's true
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10/31/2010 6:57:42 PM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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Hmmm maybe that's why I'm always single...I'm too honest! I have a few friends who are the typical "bad boys" they get women all the time. I just laugh when the girls say, "why me" and I say cuz you keep chasing the bad boys. Lol and pass up the good ones like myself. : (
Guns: I could agree with you if that was my prob;em; but th e truth is at stage in the game I'm more interested in someone that is stable over a bad boy. I'd love nothing more that to find a genuine, honest and really great guy and be able to retire from dating! If you know any send them my way!
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11/1/2010 4:33:40 AM |
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imagoodone4sure
Xenia, OH
age: 50
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I'm visiting Cincinnati from NY and I'm trying to figure out
WHY does it seem like 90% of the women have kids here?
and
Why are 85% of the women I see are overweight?
this place sucks sorry but it's true
Since you are just visiting it shouldn't matter and you are going back to NY soon right? With that attitude, no matter where you go you'll more than likely be alone.
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11/1/2010 7:15:04 AM |
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catieliz
Columbus, OH
age: 47
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We are country people here, we like to eat and we don't kill (abort) our babies, different values then those in NYC. I lived there 6 years, almost every Hispanic girl I saw had a child, or was pregnant.
Some men like a large woman. I am glad of that. Sorry, off original subject of thread.
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11/1/2010 9:09:28 AM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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Since you are just visiting it shouldn't matter and you are going back to NY soon right? With that attitude, no matter where you go you'll more than likely be alone.
You go girl
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11/1/2010 9:18:06 AM |
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yournamehere84
Zanesville, OH
age: 26
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women are just as guity though...i know this all to well...most guys though are just as confused ...they may not know what they really want...they may change day to day its all about how you feel at the moment...some nights i feel lonley and depressed and say i wish i had soemone to call my own..other nights i just want to get laid lol...its all about how you feel day to day and im sure women have this same thought.
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11/1/2010 5:34:16 PM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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women are just as guity though......its all about how you feel day to day and im sure women have this same thought.
Don't be so sure!
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11/2/2010 7:43:27 AM |
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yournamehere84
Zanesville, OH
age: 26
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there are many stages of lonliness...some times worse than others....like i said one day i may be thinking of that special someone..and the other...i could just use a good lay...im not on here for the latter..but at least i feel that way myself somtimes...been through alot the past 2 weeks so my emotions have been all over the place with things like this.
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11/2/2010 7:48:45 AM |
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easydaddy2loveu
Dayton, OH
age: 41
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Heya Nikki How are you today girl?
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11/2/2010 7:53:31 AM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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Of course there is also another HUGE factor to take into consideration! And that is you have not yet went through the first phase of life change. This typically happens between 28-30 years of age. It is at this stage that you begin to solidify and become the person that you will be for the rest of your life. This is not a "your young" type comment, it is simply factual. And the point I making is this; the way you view what you want or need in a relationship will change drastically over the next 4-6 years.
At my age I want something much concrete and stable. More from dating to relationship and comfort level quickly. Yes f course there are days that we all need laid and days that we need more emotional support. The difference is: with anyone or someone!
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11/2/2010 8:05:22 AM |
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easydaddy2loveu
Dayton, OH
age: 41
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Nikki its called settling. Almost everyone who settles ends up in divorce court...
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11/2/2010 8:07:31 AM |
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nikkip2112
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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Spot on babe! How are you btw? Did you receive th phone message of Meatloaf playing at the bar the other night? The tune came on and I instantly thought of you and called, geez I hope it wasn't too late. I was pretty shnockered at that point lol!
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11/2/2010 8:09:19 AM |
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easydaddy2loveu
Dayton, OH
age: 41
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No I havent heard it yet. Ive been feeling kinda crappy last couple days. In fact just sent you an email telling ya about it
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11/6/2010 8:42:57 PM |
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jenn3773
Newark, OH
age: 37
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i know what ya mean about guys thinking that jumping in the sack is even close to dating. I just had one today that i had never met get mad cause i wouldnt go to his house to have sex.
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11/6/2010 9:06:51 PM |
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spud466
Galion, OH
age: 49
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@ nikki
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