llama0755
Delaware, OH
age: 19
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i have a friend that has been a friend from age 12 or 13. she is a friend that is close even tho we could be apart and not talk for years. she switched schools for the last two years of our high school years and i never talked to her for thoes two years. she is now back in my life now that we both are in collage. i dident know it then but she has been the person in my dreams for years. i dident know it untill last month bc i never saw the face of the person in my dreams. then one day last month there she was. same feelings and every thing just now i know who it is. so heres my question. how do i tell her?
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pooq
Saint Paul, MN
age: 26
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All you gotta do is say it man. only you could make it good because only you know the full extent of your friendship/relationship.
You should realize that when you tell her it is possible that nothing changes because she sees you now as a best friend and not boyfriend material. Im just saying its possible and you should know that. Think about it and be ready to accept it or you could lose her completely.
That said, if you wanna be low key wait for valentines day and go almost all out. get her something that would be too much for a friend but only suggest that you feel that way for her.
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llama0755
Delaware, OH
age: 19
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i wont lose her completely she alretty knows a little how i feel but not the whole story
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chevylover89
Medford, OR
age: 18 online now!
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dude just tell her..let it out!...thats what I would want a guy to do...
tell her how u feel inside, and there is really a good chance she will return those feelings....
good luck!
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mmaru
Erie, PA
age: 23
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I'm with Pooq here... either say it straight out, or do something special for Valentine's Day. Either way, let her know that if she doesn't return your feelings, you'd still like to be friends. I've had a couple guy friends that wanted more and just finally told me, and even though it was a little awkward, I was flattered and appreciated that they told me.
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llama0755
Delaware, OH
age: 19
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mm did you try any of them out as a boyfriend?
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