6/6/2007 8:37:05 PM |
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sweetheartchica
White Plains, NY
age: 24
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I'm not in the business of judging or condemning. I'm not and I dont want to be. I just want to lift sex up to what its meant to be. God's gift to married couples. Sex is supposed to be honored and respected and sacred. Touching sex before your married is opening a gift that doesnt belong to you. I'm not gonna sit here and try to pretend like its easy to wait, but it's right. And personally I thank God that sex is and was always meant to be for married couples because it's such a personal, intimate, sacred thing, I couldnt imagine thinking of it as anything else. Dear friend, I dont want to judge I only want to get you to thinking about something that is meant for you to enjoy and cherish and encourage you to make the decision to honor sex for what it is and what it can be not what its become. Some kind of Extracurricalar activity. Sincerely, Me.
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6/6/2007 8:38:22 PM |
Sex is God's gift to Married Couples. |
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toniboy
Coronado, CA
age: 29
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YOU MUST BE A VIRGIN
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6/6/2007 8:41:59 PM |
Sex is God's gift to Married Couples. |
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
age: 61
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I think there are a lot of us come to this conclusion.
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6/6/2007 8:49:54 PM |
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forumruiner
Conyers, GA
age: 19
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Well that is your opinion but don't expect for everybody to agree with you. I haven't seen or felt any signs in my life that would lead me to believe that there is a god who specifically intended for the man's penis to go into the woman's vagina only when the two are in a relationship status known in our society as marriage...so until I do, I'm not going to base my sexual decisions on that premise.
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6/6/2007 9:12:37 PM |
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sahri
Federal Way, WA
age: 42
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chica...I agree with you...The God of this universe (The God of the Bible-personally, I believe the One and only) Did indeed direct us that way in His word. "Leave, cleave and become one" is talking about marriage. Can't say I've always practiced it and if you've managed to stay pure for your wedding night with God's grace...GOOD FOR YOU!!!! In all sincerity.
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6/6/2007 9:15:43 PM |
Sex is God's gift to Married Couples. |
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forumruiner
Conyers, GA
age: 19
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My god just sent me an e-mail saying sex is cool regardless and that personally he's not all that into marriage. If you give me the e-mail address of your god then I can send it to my god on AIM or myspace and they can settle their differences once and for all.
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6/6/2007 9:24:38 PM |
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sweetheartchica
White Plains, NY
age: 24
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Hey if you don't believe that, thats fine. But can we be mature about it. I didnt bash your beliefs about sex, why bash mine?
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6/6/2007 9:26:24 PM |
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forumruiner
Conyers, GA
age: 19
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I'm not bashing anyone's beliefs. If your god doesn't have an e-mail address then that's perfectly okay.
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6/6/2007 9:30:28 PM |
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forumruiner
Conyers, GA
age: 19
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but in all seriousness, i was just making light of it..not bashing it. i believe sex is only as sacred as society views it as being. if most people don't look at it as being something all that sacred or worth waiting for, then what makes it so? that's just my opinion on it though..
don't take anything i say seriously except when i start off with "in all seriousness.."
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6/6/2007 9:48:17 PM |
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sahri
Federal Way, WA
age: 42
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ruiner.....sex....and anything else...is as "sacred" as I (ME, MYSELF, I) choose to make it. That goes for you, for anyone. If it's not to 65% of society...who cares...even if it wasn't to 99%...my view is still valid and so is yours. So, bringing "all of society" into it...is pointless.
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6/6/2007 9:57:53 PM |
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
age: 61
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Deez when you are not even of age yet how do you know what you will understand when you are 40.
I do not believe in the god that you two are talking about but I do believe sex is one of the most spiritual experiences a person will ever have in this life. Until a person is aware of that they have no idea what it is about. Not sex or love or what a relationship really is all about.
That is too sad because then it becomes a bodily function such as eating when you are hungry. And feeding yourself is just as good as being fed.
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6/6/2007 10:19:11 PM |
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rasgumby
Moberly, MO
age: 46
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Wow, this is one I like! finally!!!!
Myself..............in my life,
I also do not believe in the same god, as agnostic.. no one church has all of the right answers.. however,
sex... bed hopping, or picking up strangers in bars, is begggin for trouble.. and then wonder why youre life is so f&^%ed up!
gee, I wonder...lol
sex to me has to at least have a deep meaning! not just a lay!!
as for no sex till married.. just ignorant..and what if you get married and find out your partner cant perform or dont want to except in missionary?
can you say divorce!! lol
Bible says sex is for after marriage yes, but it also says no divorce except for reason of adultry, also says sex is only for procreation.
since I can no longer have kids( by choice) does that mean I should never have sex again?
I DOOOOONT THINK SO!
BUT dont get me wrong,
this is just how I feel and how I live my life.. free will!
do what is right for you.
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6/6/2007 11:21:47 PM |
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bunnyears
Seattle, WA
age: 43
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ras...
just a couple of things...it (the Bible) doesn't say it's only for procreation.
As to not knowing before you marry...I've heard that one all my life. It's gotta be the ultimate (bad) pickup line. LOL
If that was the qualifier then I think there'd be a lot less divorces because more people are doing it before marriage than waiting.
Before, after...it still all comes down to..if we're talking more than "sex" and we're talking intimate, loving, sexual, body, mind, spirit, everything....then 2 people who can share those things outside of the bedroom have a greater chance of achieving it IN THE BED...than all the bed hoppers who are out for kicks but have TRIED their partners out BEFORE marriage will ever have.
I personally had what I thought was great sex before marriage, we were two rabbits in heat...multiple times a day...BUT as soon as we got married, it died.
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6/6/2007 11:27:37 PM |
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damnyourhot
New Braunfels, TX
age: 26
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ive been married for 6 years....i used to really care about sex...not so much anymore. seems like once out of a hundred, i instigate it.
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6/6/2007 11:39:19 PM |
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bevyea
Sanger, TX
age: 55
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Queen, spiritual can be a good description. I hadn't thought of it that way until you said that...totally in love and really good sex was just that, spiritual...like OMG! We totally rocked until I found out I wasn't the only one he rocked!
At this point I don't know what to do because that total love of my life found a new love of his life I don't know if sex will ever be the same.
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