| 3/8/2011 7:11:23 AM |
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demetrios2
Cincinnati, OH
age: 54
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I have come across some women that have wonderfully written profiles all of the rights words and not to mention they are easy on the eyes. When I send them a message explaining to them what I found in their profile that caught my attention I get a one liner back in response.
So I send them another message and again I receive back another one liner. This goes on for a while they always respond back but with just a few words it takes several tries just to get a paragraph from them. I even mention to them that they seem rather shy and again just a one liner back. I am at a loss are these women shy or are they playing some kind of a game?
Do you tell them that until they have something more to say don't bother responding back is that being rude? Or do you just tell them it was nice but good luck.
[Edited 3/8/2011 7:14:27 AM ]
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| 3/8/2011 7:13:33 AM |
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tater79
Springfield, IL
age: 32
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they are not interested and they are just being nice to you 99% of the time. If they wanted you they would ask questions back to you in their response
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| 3/8/2011 7:14:22 AM |
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onnightwings
Raleigh, NC
age: 47
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I'd imagine women like that get a lot of Email.
What are you doing to stand out from the herd & warrant more than a short reply?
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| 3/8/2011 7:15:34 AM |
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demetrios2
Cincinnati, OH
age: 54
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maybe they just don't like what they see
Then why do they bother responding back to every message?
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| 3/8/2011 7:16:53 AM |
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loriedgier
Henderson, NV
age: 49
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*racking my brain trying to remember if I do that or not*
I think that I use one liners when I am being polite but not really interested. Or if the guy is adept at one liners, then I return in kind.
Other than that I'm not sure. Not really thinking it's shyness.
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| 3/8/2011 7:18:26 AM |
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ashadeofred
Lansing, MI
age: 60
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I believe Tater is correct....they are just trying to be nice and not really interested.
I have, however, encountered men who had well written profiles....yet when they responded to me, they couldn't put two sentences together. Obviously, someone else had written their profile for them. A few even admitted to that being the case.
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| 3/8/2011 7:18:27 AM |
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nothereyoudont
Appenzell
Switzerland
age: 92
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Most attractive (online profile) women will never even respond at all.
Why?
Because the profile's a fake and a scambot cannot reply.
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| 3/8/2011 7:21:59 AM |
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demetrios2
Cincinnati, OH
age: 54
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Most attractive (online profile) women will never even respond at all.
Why?
Because the profile's a fake and a scambot cannot reply.
I said easy on the eyes not 10s just the normal girl next door look.
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| 3/8/2011 7:21:57 AM |
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dramatic_muffin
Woodbridge, VA
age: 39
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they are not interested and they are just being nice to you 99% of the time. If they wanted you they would ask questions back to you in their response
This one.
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| 3/8/2011 7:23:00 AM |
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shyamy
Mankato, MN
age: 20
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I am probably guilty about this as much as anybody. When I respond I try to explain that I am not interested and hope they find what they are looking for.
If I just delete the email, I get responses back and get called all kind of nasty names 
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| 3/8/2011 7:23:04 AM |
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demetrios2
Cincinnati, OH
age: 54
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nobody really wants to deal with a f**ktard
Did I hit a never with you or what are you one of these one liners?
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| 3/8/2011 7:26:41 AM |
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demetrios2
Cincinnati, OH
age: 54
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I am probably guilty about this as much as anybody. When I respond I try to explain that I am not interested and hope they find what they are looking for.
If I just delete the email, I get responses back and get called all kind of nasty names
So I take it that they are not interested but they never say that. All they do is answer back with a simple answer. Why not just be honest.
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| 3/8/2011 7:26:57 AM |
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softscents
Louisville, KY
age: 62
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Most people will take sometime and put some thought into their profile intro's. Sometimes it takes a little more prodding to get them to say a little more when e-mailing.
If you are interested just keep prodding and maybe they will feel more comfortable. Sometimes when we let it rest for awhile and come back to it the interested party will come out of their shell.
Good Luck
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| 3/8/2011 7:27:55 AM |
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loriedgier
Henderson, NV
age: 49
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OP....write me. LOL  
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| 3/8/2011 7:31:04 AM |
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shyamy
Mankato, MN
age: 20
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Quote from demtrios2: So I take it that they are not interested but they never say that. All they do is answer back with a simple answer. Why not just be honest.
It takes extra effort to be honest. It is the way it should be, but many people are not like that anymore, sad to say.
Hope you find what you are looking for 
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| 3/8/2011 7:32:25 AM |
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gjlover
Grand Junction, CO
age: 47
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When I send them a message explaining to them what I found in their profile that caught my attention I get a one liner back in response.
Quit b*tching. At least you are getting a response.
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| 3/8/2011 7:34:22 AM |
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teaurtei
Anderson, IN
age: 43
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I'd imagine women like that get a lot of Email.
What are you doing to stand out from the herd & warrant more than a short reply?
This.
Or like the others said, she might just be being polite.
Or she might not be interested.
Or she might've had someone else write her profile.
Or...well...it could be anything, but as one poster pointed out, most DON'T respond. You're one up on that. Take cheer from knowing that and enjoy the responses you do get.
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| 3/8/2011 7:38:54 AM |
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_settee
Flower Mound, TX
age: 57
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I don't think they are being coy..
If they aren't engaging you in conversation, they most likely aren't interested and just being polite..
Are you practicing open-ended conversation? Most of us get the emails where the response is either a yes or no, and nowhere to go from there...give us something to respond to and if we're interested, we'll respond..
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| 3/8/2011 7:41:19 AM |
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nothereyoudont
Appenzell
Switzerland
age: 92
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I said easy on the eyes not 10s just the normal girl next door look.
Well, to me (and probably most guys) 'Easy On The Eyes' means at least a 7.
Be she next door or not.
Experience sez: 7+ online = fake profile about 95% of the time.
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| 3/8/2011 7:41:20 AM |
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timis53
Peoria, IL
age: 53
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I think a one line response is a polite way of saying no thanks. I've sent a couple different first emails with no response, so I give up
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| 3/8/2011 7:44:58 AM |
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shyamy
Mankato, MN
age: 20
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Hey timis,
Sounds like you are not one of those nasty guys that sends ugly emails back when we don't respond.
Good for you 
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| 3/8/2011 7:45:41 AM |
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tater79
Springfield, IL
age: 32
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I am probably guilty about this as much as anybody. When I respond I try to explain that I am not interested and hope they find what they are looking for.
If I just delete the email, I get responses back and get called all kind of nasty names
I have this happen the opposite way.......I used to respond to people I wasn't interested in, and tell them thanks for the kind email etc, and I wish them luck in their search,,,,,,then the nasty emails would come in, from them being mad about the rejection........
That is why I take the stance of....if I'm not interested I gnore their message and 99% of the time they get the hint after 3 or 4 ignored emails..........even though they should of got the hint when the first email wasn't responded too........but of well.
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| 3/8/2011 7:46:20 AM |
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blu_angie
Milton, FL
age: 48
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They just aren't into you!
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| 3/8/2011 7:47:55 AM |
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shyamy
Mankato, MN
age: 20
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I have gotten that too, Tater. It's an ugly world out here but what are you going to do?
Just have to learn to roll with the punches 
There are plenty of nice people out here. I didn't want to sound like I hated everyone 
[Edited 3/8/2011 7:49:25 AM ]
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| 3/8/2011 7:50:12 AM |
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timis53
Peoria, IL
age: 53
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I have gotten that too, Tater. It's an ugly world out here but what are you going to do?
Just have to learn to roll with the punches
You are wise beyond your age
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| 3/8/2011 7:50:12 AM |
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nothereyoudont
Appenzell
Switzerland
age: 92
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Hey timis,
Sounds like you are not one of those nasty guys that sends ugly emails back when we don't respond.
Good for you
That would be the actions of the typical shut in cyber loser without a life.
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| 3/8/2011 7:52:56 AM |
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nostringsjstfun
Grand Junction, CO
age: 41 online now!
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they are not interested and they are just being nice to you 99% of the time. If they wanted you they would ask questions back to you in their response
Tater hit this one right on the spot
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| 3/8/2011 7:59:26 AM |
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indianadave1951
Elkhart, IN
age: 60
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nobody really wants to deal with a f**ktard
A real Dale Carnegy reply for sure. No wonder she's still single and on DH.
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| 3/8/2011 8:07:29 AM |
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hotpockets
Maple Shade, NJ
age: 55
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Most attractive (online profile) women will never even respond at all.
Why?
Because the profile's a fake and a scambot cannot reply.
<<--- AM NOT!!  
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| 3/8/2011 8:13:50 AM |
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timis53
Peoria, IL
age: 53
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I don't think they are being coy..
If they aren't engaging you in conversation, they most likely aren't interested and just being polite..
Are you practicing open-ended conversation? Most of us get the emails where the response is either a yes or no, and nowhere to go from there...give us something to respond to and if we're interested, we'll respond..
You're cool
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| 3/8/2011 10:28:12 AM |
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iamalwaysjustme
Olathe, KS
age: 51
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I am not shy, but I still blush when a man compliments me 
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| 3/8/2011 10:32:03 AM |
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mysweetkisses
Apple Valley, CA
age: 22
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This one.
right on the money!
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| 3/8/2011 6:47:00 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
age: 30 online now!
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I used to avoid shy women because I'm pretty shy myself. I was more comfortable with an outgoing woman who did all the work when it came to talking. Then one day I noticed a hot shy woman and made myself talk to her. I was glad I did.
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| 3/8/2011 6:47:55 PM |
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ldroftrollops
Goshen, IN
age: 31
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Go Stobil!...You're either getting laid, or getting really close to getting laid...congratulations!
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| 3/8/2011 6:50:20 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
age: 30 online now!
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No, what I was talking about was years ago. She hates me now.
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| 3/8/2011 6:50:43 PM |
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ldroftrollops
Goshen, IN
age: 31
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Don't ruin it...you're on a roll.
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| 3/8/2011 6:50:57 PM |
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donajaii
East Lansing, MI
age: 43
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Most attractive (online profile) women will never even respond at all.
Why?
Because the profile's a fake and a scambot cannot reply.
You are not a very nice man, are you??
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| 3/8/2011 7:05:15 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
age: 30 online now!
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I like shy women because they keep to themselves. They're not gonna know 50 guys. I'm intimidated by lots of competition.
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| 3/8/2011 8:42:57 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
age: 59
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A one liner? You're lucky! They don't respond to me at all.
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| 3/8/2011 8:44:59 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
age: 59
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I have come across some women that have wonderfully written profiles all of the rights words and not to mention they are easy on the eyes. When I send them a message explaining to them what I found in their profile that caught my attention I get a one liner back in response.
So I send them another message and again I receive back another one liner. This goes on for a while they always respond back but with just a few words it takes several tries just to get a paragraph from them. I even mention to them that they seem rather shy and again just a one liner back. you tell them that until they have something more to say don't bother responding back is that being rude? Or do you just tell them it was nice but good luck.
She's either to socially dysfunctional to write which makes her a lost cause or just not interested which makes her a lost cause. If you have to go through that much effort to get her to say anything it's best just to move on and find someone a lot more interested.
[Edited 3/8/2011 8:47:25 PM ]
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| 3/8/2011 8:50:37 PM |
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tater79
Springfield, IL
age: 32
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ah ha I can see stobil again
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| 3/8/2011 8:52:04 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
age: 30 online now!
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I'm a 3 star'r!!! Hot damn.
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| 3/8/2011 8:55:10 PM |
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jezlooking
Lewiston, ID
age: 54
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Demetrios,
Do you ask questions they can respond to? Or give info about your self they could comment on? I am not sure what is up with the one liners either, but I get them a lot too..For example "Hi, How are you?" This is a typical email I receive no pic and a thousand miles away, although my profile says picture please and no long distance!
Not sure what's up with that?
You would think if they were not interested they would not respond to you at all..Could it be poor typists or spellers?
I agree who wants to pull conversation out of somebody..
And I am shy too!
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| 3/8/2011 9:11:27 PM |
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flirty_n_fun67
Belleville, ON
age: 43
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i don't know...lol
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| 3/8/2011 10:19:40 PM |
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zdd0227
Saint Paul, MN
age: 50
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Thats funny Red. Lets see if you can really fly with the big boys.
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| 3/8/2011 10:25:38 PM |
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zdd0227
Saint Paul, MN
age: 50
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Dang I didnt know this was a trash me site. I'm in the mood so take your best shot
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| 3/8/2011 10:27:20 PM |
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tater79
Springfield, IL
age: 32
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well now you know........ it's trash double 27 night
[Edited 3/8/2011 10:27:34 PM ]
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| 3/8/2011 10:27:26 PM |
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youdontnomeyet
Henderson, NV
age: 50
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| 3/8/2011 10:27:55 PM |
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zdd0227
Saint Paul, MN
age: 50
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3 Star what? Like a cheap hotel or penis size.LOL
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| 3/8/2011 10:28:47 PM |
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tater79
Springfield, IL
age: 32
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The above cake is your's 227.......enjoy
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| 3/8/2011 10:30:54 PM |
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dh_whxre
Struthers, OH
age: 28
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i want some of that cake! 
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| 3/8/2011 11:49:53 PM |
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vixengal101
Washington, DC
age: 33
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I am a girl that is so not shy at all...Any girl who is giving you one liner is probably not interested in you no offense but when i give the one liner thats the most likely the reason
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| 3/8/2011 11:50:47 PM |
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vixengal101
Washington, DC
age: 33
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Ill take below the waist please lol
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| 3/8/2011 11:55:37 PM |
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stobil
Gallatin, TN
age: 30 online now!
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I often give one line. Doesn't mean I 'm not interested.
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| 3/8/2011 11:57:20 PM |
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miked8323
Tallahassee, FL
age: 33
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That isn't always true some women are shy or just have a conference problem
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| 3/9/2011 12:48:00 AM |
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dulcecheska
Kissimmee, FL
age: 53
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Hi everyone, I'm new to the forums I usually read them but never post. This one was very intersting to me for several reasons. First I have to agree with what some have said about on liners because the respondent may not be interested but does not want to be rude. Second it's hard for some people to start a conversation "cold" meaning they feel strange just rattling off with someone they've yet to know. And thirdly, my personal experience. Yesterday someone sent me a wink and I wink back. Then he asked me if I've ever visited his hometown and I responded with a negative because I hadn't. Then he replied that he wanted to meet me. Of course I asked him how far was his place from mine and he gave me a milage number distance. I replied that it was quite a distance to meet someone that you are just starting to know. He wrote back and said that he would make it worth my time. Of course I asked him how because by this time I was getting curious. To whick his response was a proposition to a specific sexual act. So to answer the question the first gentalman asked and I believe his name is Demetrious, there are two responses to your question. Some women will respond with a one liner because they may not be interested and don't want to be rude. And then there are others that may have experience some of what I've just shared. To a certain degree I think it is up to the person initiating the conversation to make the respondent feel comfortable enough to open the lines of communication.
[Edited 3/9/2011 12:53:46 AM ]
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| 3/9/2011 12:58:26 AM |
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mae_m
Moultrie, GA
age: 42
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<--- very shy
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| 3/9/2011 1:00:00 AM |
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nostringsjstfun
Grand Junction, CO
age: 41 online now!
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@Dulc Uuuuuhhhhhhhh, are you writing a term paper on this topic
@Mae, your not shy, you just don't say much
[Edited 3/9/2011 1:01:43 AM ]
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| 3/9/2011 1:05:17 AM |
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mae_m
Moultrie, GA
age: 42
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@nostrings
I am shy
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| 3/9/2011 4:06:23 AM |
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honestami
Ravenna, OH
age: 55
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I always tell them,,," Your over abundance of words seems to be very boring to me,best of luck to you and your search"
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