lookin4herntx
Dickinson, TX
age: 29
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Well, I am fairly new to this, and I was just wondering, how do you get people to notice you? I never know what to say in the description box except a few little things. Can anyone give me advice on how to be more attractable on here or atleast approachable? Any and all help would be greatly appreciated.
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gammatx
Ennis, TX
age: 48
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What I found out and the advice I got was to just post in the forums. When I first signed on I couldnt understand why I wasn't getting "hit on". After I got more comfortable on the site and started posting in the forums I began making friends, and noticed more people that seemed to fit what I am looking for. Most however are too far away so now I enjoy just talking to the few friends I have met so far and having fun reading and posting in the forums.
Just hang in there and it may not be today or tomorrow but you'll get noticed, friends will happen and who knows maybe you'll find that someone special.
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lookin4herntx
Dickinson, TX
age: 29
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Thanks Gammatx, your help, and advice is greatly appreciated.
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zevwannabe
Woodway, TX
age: 47
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Just try to be yourself. I know it is harder for guys (sometimes) to express what they feel and what they are looking for in someone. Tell what you like about yourself. I do not mean be to be boastful and haughty (like some guys are on these sites) but just give some of your insights to who you are and what you are about. Are you shy, outgoing, quiet,talky,funny, serious?....What kind of girl are you looking for? And a pic does help, not because everyone is vain and goes by looks only. I dated guys that I was not instantly attracted to their picture but when I met them they were just so fun and personable that it was hard not to like them and want to get to know them more.
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grace_ful_heart
College Station, TX
age: 39
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i agree with gam... post in the forums.. you can really get a feel of how people are by what they say.
have fun!
grace
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1bit2spurs
Winnsboro, TX
age: 37
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Spurs.
There are two ways that i know that will get you there.!
#1 Post something out there that will make the ladies verry mad at you ,and then come back and apologise and admit you were wrong as a gentleman should do.
I do not recomend that one.
#2 Post something nice that shows the ladies that you are really a great guy and it will get their attention.
I do recomend the second!!
And just be yourself !!
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tx_blu_eyz67
San Antonio, TX
age: 41
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just be yourself have fun
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