3/16/2008 7:00:15 PM |
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norcalmatt
Arcata, CA
age: 31
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so I've never been on a dating site before and am starting to see why......I haven't met 1 person and the few who I've emailed have sort of flaked out on the communication. Am I the only one with such bad luck or does this site really work? have any of you actually met another person from this site? If so where are all the social people at in northern CA. Obviously there needs to be an attraction between two people but are people really too scared to meet new people?
[Edited 3/16/2008 7:00:45 PM]
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3/16/2008 8:36:35 PM |
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tamirae
Woodland, CA
age: 32
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im not to scared just busy ... so it takes a bit of planning to meet someone. but yeah it happens.
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3/16/2008 8:46:37 PM |
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norcalmatt
Arcata, CA
age: 31
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that's funny that you replied....I just checked your profile out. I see you chat it up quite a bit on these board. So you've had some luck meeting people in your area? this is free so I'll stick around but can't say I'm too hopeful.
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3/17/2008 2:55:34 PM |
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g_spothitter69
Crescent City, CA
age: 26
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norcalmatt
I have had luck meeting someone from here in Crescent City, we didnt stay friends we had som diferances but I seen her she lives here. So you can meet someone it just takes time. Good luck
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3/18/2008 10:25:07 PM |
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your_sweetie
Yuba City, CA
age: 49 online now!
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try getting on the forums...it helps getting out there..
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3/19/2008 11:10:21 AM |
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norcalmatt
Arcata, CA
age: 31
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I do a little if I have somthing to add....it's all good, I could probably post a better picture.
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3/19/2008 10:05:25 PM |
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caliguyinwy
Big Sur, CA
age: 43
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never lose hope... all you have to do is try a little harder...persistance pays off, especially for women, it seems they like to be chased a little..
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3/19/2008 11:27:21 PM |
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papi076
Yucaipa, CA
age: 31
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dont give up i havent yet
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3/20/2008 12:57:03 AM |
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thewarvet05
Waterford, CA
age: 24
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all i can say is that if is wasnt for this site i would of never met the woman of my dreams. she is one yr. older then me and it was wierd at first meeting somone from online but after the first few dates it gets easier. since then we have became BF/GF and been to yosemite and santa cruz and have pretty much been unseperable...i hope it really works out for the long hual and i know she thinks that too. so connections do happen on here dont rush it though, it all starts with a wink.
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3/20/2008 1:11:29 AM |
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harborcitydude
Harbor City, CA
age: 41
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hey matt, don't give up man, it can happen. I have a few pointers for ya to kind of help it out a little... first, fix the misspellings in your profile. Then maybe add what kind of woman you are looking for. Hell, its free man, and no storage limits... write a friggin book!!! Women want to gather a lot of info about you. They also want to know if you are wanting what they have to offer. It's scary going to meet someone for the first time... or even talking to them. Another thing is hit LOTS of forums... start new threads as often as you can come up with an idea that will make people want to post to it, then follow it up as often as you can... check your thread. Post to as many forums as you can, and make your posts funny as he11! You will start drawing attention. I had a wonderful gal give me this advice, and after fixing my profile up a bit and posting in some popular forums, now I am even getting initial contacts from women that I didn't even see in my searches!!! I haven't met anyone yet, but I am emailing or chatting with a couple of people. So hang in there man... make a few changes, put some time into it. You will get so much more out of it if you do!
HCD
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3/27/2008 10:30:46 PM |
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thewarvet05
Waterford, CA
age: 24
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I agree with guy almost totally, the only comment i have is that he said that you had misspellings on your profile. As it does make you seem smarter if you can spell, i see his point. But however if you usually dont spell good, dont be fake and grab a girls attention cuz chances are she will find out the true you if this is the case. So, be you, if she doesnt like you cuz you dont spell great, then chances are she is to shallow of a woman for you anyway....unless you like them that way. just my thoughts.
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3/27/2008 10:50:18 PM |
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mwold
Granite Bay, CA
age: 25
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Stick with it!
Either you hear something everyone once in a while
or you delete your account and hear nothing.
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3/28/2008 12:05:04 PM |
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norcalmatt
Arcata, CA
age: 31
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thanks all......it's ok I'm not to worried about it.
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3/28/2008 1:24:29 PM |
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jrbogie
Cool, CA
age: 58
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Hey Matt, if you don't mind me saying, I looked at your profile and you seem sincere and say the right things. I'd just suggest that you get more pictures on. The one you have is fine but I think the ladies like to see a little more close up. I've only been here a couple weeks and no shortage of ladies to chat with. Good luck.
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