| 3/18/2008 2:19:24 PM |
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leo84
Scotts Valley, CA
age: 23
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| 1. good looking |
| 2. romantic |
me i'm so clueless when it comes to things like this, all i know is that, i;m just am what i am, but apperently i have not found that right to accept me me for who i am i am good looking, i can be romantic, what more must i do?
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| 3/19/2008 11:57:43 AM |
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leo84
Scotts Valley, CA
age: 23
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i think it is the romantic side of the guy that women really want,
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| 3/22/2008 8:24:56 PM |
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vanohm
Hayward, CA
age: 26
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I agree with you, I'm confident with who I am and I do everything I feel is right. Above all else, I'm a really nice guy. I think that should have been one of your answers "a nice guy" because that seems to be the #1 complaint from women is "why can't I meet a nice guy!?!?". Only problem with that answer is it's still complete bullshit. I'm trying my hardest not to offend any ladies here but typically from what I see, most women seem to rather just get a jerk for a man in their life so they have something to complain about and wander off in lala land about some perfect prince they wish they could meet. Except when they finally meet a nice guy, they (1)decide he just doesn't challenge them enough, (2) thinks he's a pushover or (3)secretly enjoy an abusive relationship.
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| 3/23/2008 3:15:01 PM |
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noxqsis
West Covina, CA
age: 49
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not just one thing and those things may change from time to time easiest way to find out is to ask her but dont take it for granted that it will stay that way
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| 3/24/2008 2:07:46 AM |
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leo84
Scotts Valley, CA
age: 23
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yeah i so agree with both of you guys, thats the onthing i hve a problem with being to nice and understanding, and it's like they tell me oh you are to good for me, or some other kind of bullshit like that, so i'm like thinking should i start being a totally jerk or what so i can get a grilfriend??? any way damn girls are so compilcated..
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| 3/24/2008 1:38:55 PM |
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vanohm
Hayward, CA
age: 26
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I don't know, I wouldn't exactly say all of the jerks come out on top. It depends what you're looking for. If you're looking to just score with a bunch of chicks, yeah by all means, be a real douche bag and they'll probably love you for a short while. If you're looking for something long term with potential, the only advice I can ever really give on that is...just be yourself. A lot of people pretend to be someone they aren't, sometimes it works. But the last thing you'd ever want is to finally meet the girl of your dreams and you act like a complete idiot and blow your chance when you may just have had a pretty damn good chance by just being yourself. One thing you may want to change though, stop going out of your way to be extra nice if that's what you do. Nobody likes a pushover or a suck up.
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| 3/26/2008 1:07:12 PM |
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eyeslksummerain
Crescent City, CA
age: 32
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A sense of the absurd as well as a sense of humor, broad shoulders, the ability and the desire to barbecue meat, adventurous spirit, someone who is comfortable in their own skin,with calloused hands a quick smile that reaches their eyes, and what the hell looks sexy swinging a splitting maul.Ect..........
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| 4/2/2008 12:28:08 PM |
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vanohm
Hayward, CA
age: 26
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swinging a splitting maul!? LMAO I'm going to get right on that
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| 4/2/2008 1:02:34 PM |
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guuuera
Orange, CA
age: 18
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oh girls don't know what they want...girls always complain about the jerk losers (but really hot) guys they've dated and want nice guys but always seem to turn nice guys down. i don't think girls want nice and calm--they want chaos. which is TOTALLY dumb, but i've done it too. now i just want to drive on a newly paved highway. if that makes sense lol
so i guess be a jerk! but don't really. just don't call back immediately or show up late (only like 5 or 10 minutes tho!). or don't date dumb girls who don't know what they want.
haha
hope that helped, it prolly didn't 
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| 4/2/2008 5:44:16 PM |
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stargoat
San Jose, CA
age: 30
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It all depends on the woman. Ive always found women to use me for what I
have and can give them, instead of actuall love. I hope I'll find
that soon.
 
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| 4/3/2008 6:19:29 AM |
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plenary1
Camarillo, CA
age: 47
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There are a lot of different things people are looking for in males/females. I can tell you what most older females are NOT looking for. 1. not little boys that are as young as their kids. 2. someone that lives at home with mommy or daddy in their 40tys 3. not someone that is attached to the job, money, or other things all the time.
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| 4/5/2008 10:25:22 PM |
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buttafinger
Citrus Heights, CA
age: 24
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Women want a man who is loyal , compassionate , Stable and devoted or committed to her in every way possible real simple...
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| 4/5/2008 10:29:19 PM |
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shuggar62
Hawthorne, CA
age: 37
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Honesty to oneself and to his mate is the one thing I am looking for in a guy. If we cannot be honest with ourselves and one another, the relationship is doomed from the start.
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| 4/5/2008 10:46:23 PM |
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kona22
Los Osos, CA
age: 21
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Money you dumb shits. Money seems to make everyone a little more beautiful. Girls don't care about looks as much as men do. Everyone knows that. Girls want and exciting man that is scary and unpredictable, yet give them a sense of safety. So they say romantic but they'll end up calling it boring. All girls are indecisive.
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| 4/7/2008 8:36:57 AM |
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vanohm
Hayward, CA
age: 26
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ROFL kona22, I think somebody is finally on the right track hahaha. I think what women want and what they tell people what they want are completely different. I know there's reason behind it...You can be the nicest guy in so many ways possible but if you don't have much money, you're not likely to be seen as a possible match for somebody who's looking at the bigger picture. Most women want a man that can provide (to support a family is my guess).
This isn't entirely bad, who wants to date a loser? It's still superficial bullshit though if you ask me. Find somebody with a big heart, not a big wallet. I did a lot of searching on the Yahoo Personals site before, where women can list the desired income of their match. Probably about 75% of the profiles I saw listed that they wanted their man to make 75k+ salary. And I'm talking girls in their 20's and early 30's. Apparently love does have a dollar price.
In my opinion...it is an issue. Women don't want to admit it because they don't want to sound like superficial b*tches. On the other hand, independant woman or not, they still want a man that is successful and financially well.
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