4/6/2008 5:32:48 AM |
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studmuffin5
Austin, TX
age: 29
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I agree women don't care about us nice men, but they feel the same way.
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4/6/2008 11:42:23 AM |
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chevylover89
Medford, OR
age: 18
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well thats because there is no nice guys!
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4/6/2008 11:48:26 AM |
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chrisbug
Grapevine, TX
age: 27
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Well, the way I see it through my experience is thus:
There are certainly without a doubt more things to a relationship than sex. Sure a healthy relationship pretty much needs it as a component, but it's not the core of the matter.
As far as a man needing sex to feel loved as was stated above... hmm. Yep, there are certainly a lot of people out there like that. Personally, however, I believe that is assigning way too much emotional stigma to the act.
As I said, sex is part of a relationship, and as such *can* and *should* be very emotionally fulfilling sometimes. It doesn’t always have to be connected inextricably to love itself though. Separate the two ideas and quite honestly I think you'd have a more solid relationship. Trust is the key.
Trust is at the core of everything. From trust stems respect, and from respect for your partner trust for *you* manifests itself. Without deceit or evasion of true motives behind your actions concerning your partner you'd be surprised what can be possible.
~Chris
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4/6/2008 9:28:49 PM |
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freeskier
Thornhill, ON
age: 20
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it feels good we have more pleasure than u. to get a wome off is harder.
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4/6/2008 9:35:21 PM |
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freeskier
Thornhill, ON
age: 20
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teddy is eather a liar, a fag or has just had sex.. cause al young men want sex. deal with it have smoe sex too u might jut loosten up. but if u belive what tedy is saying ur a idiot.
and as for teddy, tell this girl lies to temperally relive her worries is not cool. u are f*cking lieing if ur telling me a younge hot chick offered her self to u no strign attached u would turn her down u are a stight up lier. giving women these false oppinions will only lead to more fags like u in the world who have to shun thier instincs and not enjoy what they were born with. id put money on u being some religous freek. go f*ck the alter boys and keep preaching tis bull shit and see where what will happen
this is f*cking wrong. me need sex casue they are men and that is what we do. it is the corner stone of a good life. if u ant aving sex then i can only imagine what u do on ur spare time .... i cant belive the way teddy has been brain washed to trick his mind
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4/6/2008 9:36:58 PM |
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freeskier
Thornhill, ON
age: 20
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and what the f*ck is a nice guy so tool who will take u out romance u up and never expect sex .... to deny our human instinct is to deny that we are human to begin with.
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4/6/2008 10:50:02 PM |
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chevylover89
Medford, OR
age: 18
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ok i understand your point of view, but jeez come on now...be nice..
i just want opinons, i dont need any fights going on here....
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4/6/2008 11:30:31 PM |
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sweetctownguy24
Vinemont, AL
age: 24
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Nice(nis) adj.pleasing,enjoyable;polite and corteous; refined.
guy (gi) n. slang a man;a fellow.
hope this helps for the guy above
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4/7/2008 12:10:46 AM |
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chevylover89
Medford, OR
age: 18
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haha..thats funny.....
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4/7/2008 7:43:07 PM |
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syndrome2480
Winston Salem, NC
age: 27
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If you want the answer, look it up. Men cannot help it. It is a known fact that we are easily aroused. It is not our fault, so women need to quit griping about it and learn to accept it. The smallest thing can get us aroused. It just a part of being a man. It's not that we are sex maniacs, some are, but it's how we were made. It goes back to our primitvie instincts also. However, as humans, we are destined to be with one person in life. In our primitive days, it was a matter of just reproducing.
And on a second note, this is the problem with society, no one embraces their sexual desires. Sex is still considered a taboo in America. A known fact, sex is healthy. You wonder why so many people are not healthy, not enough sex. It's a cardiovascular workout and is known to relieve stress.
I'm not trying to sound mean and hateful, but for crying out loud these threads are getting to be a little cliche and old.
And as for this post: exactly...that is the line I got from one of my exs. he said sex is not about it, when thats all he ever wanted. He never really knew nothing about me at all.. those kind of people need to be Do not blame it completely on him. You put the blame on him to avoid taking half the blame. If you knew that's all he wanted, you were the one who chose to stay with him. Textbook Psychology right there. Majority of women are so quick to fully blame men, because they cannot stand to accept the blame on their behalf. A woman cheats, blame the guy. One guy hurts a woman, blame all guys. Wtf women, where does the crap end? You wonder you women can't find good men? Well damn if all guys are to blame for the root of every single problem, they are all hiding. Half the time I find it's easier to stay single and wank off to porn then deal with the stupid shit that women have to dish out. Again, not trying to be mean, but women need to grow up and quit acting so childish and spoiled like they are the queen of the universe. You aren't. Get over it.
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4/7/2008 8:01:05 PM |
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shygary
Gatlinburg, TN
age: 30
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well lets see?Thats also depends on you also.It could be as good for the other perwson.So don't be as good at it,if you don't want them to come back.Not all men just want to have sex although sex is great!
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4/7/2008 8:03:49 PM |
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shygary
Gatlinburg, TN
age: 30
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and yes tier are nice guys out thier.thier seems to be a few in the house and i know i'm one of them
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4/8/2008 12:27:29 AM |
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ucrazyasme
Chicago, IL
age: 25
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Females gain more satisfaction from emotional connections, foreplay, kissing, and sex the right way (makin her feel good). Once she gets this she is addicted. Men experience things a bit differently in that we gain more pleasure from the physical act. Both persons needs are being met. I think if you boil it down to intimacy then both men and women want intimacy (whatever it means to them) equally. Can't fight nature!
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