| 4/3/2008 8:14:31 PM |
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bluepalm69
Lakewood, CA
age: 32
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her family likes me. im playing with the kids.
should i wait for her or go on??
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| 4/3/2008 8:16:43 PM |
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sweetiepie1977
Jacksonville, FL
age: 30 online now!
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Just slow down, take YOUR time too...best things in life, are worth waiting for!
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| 4/3/2008 8:20:06 PM |
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thegooddude24
Joliet, IL
age: 25
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If she tells you she needs time respect it, no matter what her reason. The best thing you can do as a man, is give her what she asks.
Best of luck!
GD.
[Edited 4/3/2008 8:20:52 PM]
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| 4/3/2008 8:24:36 PM |
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ladyinparis
Paris, TX
age: 41
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Need a little more info. How long has she been divorced? How long have you been seeing each other? Time for what? Being alone, or to think, or before you move in together, or before you get married?
I made the mistake of stating on here that I met someone who is great, but didn't realize that I wasn't ready for a committed relationship just yet. I then was pounced by several men saying that I was just out for the dinner, or the date..Like I need a man to buy me a meal. Puhleez! I have only been separated for two months. My dream is to be married again and to grow old with someone. But, I have only went on two dates..he wants an exclusive relationship. He calls me every day. He is ready right how.
Maybe it doesn't have anything to do with you, whether or not your are the right one...maybe her head isn't where it needs to be right now. Maybe she will realize how much she cares for you and come running to you with a clear mind after some time.
If she doesn't, you were better off. She saved you some misery down the road.
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| 4/3/2008 8:55:53 PM |
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bluepalm69
Lakewood, CA
age: 32
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seewtiepie1977 thanks it helps
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| 4/3/2008 8:58:19 PM |
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bluepalm69
Lakewood, CA
age: 32
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thegooddude24 cool i feel better cause of your in site
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| 4/3/2008 9:03:58 PM |
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bluepalm69
Lakewood, CA
age: 32
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ladyinparis your on the money! ive been single she blow my world. i spent easter with her family. i was there with her on her moms b-day. so you say just wait until she calls me. we talk every day. she said she like that but now im in the dark. its driving me up the wall.
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| 4/3/2008 9:13:21 PM |
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woody59
Plymouth, IN
age: 60
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I dated a lady for 4 months, and all of a sudden she needs time? so I give it to her , she comes back in 11 days we date for 3 weeks and she needs time again, so I give it to her then she comes back in a week and after 2 dates she needs time again so I give it to her then after a month and a half she comes back in a week she tells me she is going to date somone else! so I go away now she is wanting back 2 months later! it just seems like it is a game and one I dont like playing! I say give her the time, but if she comes back and then needs more time tell her to go take all the time she needs because you arent interested
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| 4/3/2008 10:13:24 PM |
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bluepalm69
Lakewood, CA
age: 32
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woody59 great thank you. but doesn't hurt i live alone. own a house and have no kids. its like what the f*ck eeeeerrrrrr!!
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| 4/3/2008 10:17:37 PM |
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passionplay1975
Arlington, TX
age: 32
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from what I have heard from women, when they say this to men, that means they met someone else and want to see if it leads anywhere if it does not, you are her fall back guy. I can't say that is for all women, but from what I have seen. Another reason I don't have many girlfriends, they are evil and wicked. 
Good luck to you
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| 4/3/2008 10:18:07 PM |
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bry11ca
Buellton, CA
age: 43
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Let your actions speak for you . . . tell the truth about what you want. Communicate it, clearly. If she wants that it will show in her relationship with you.
Then you (two) will move forward.
Bry 
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| 4/3/2008 10:24:56 PM |
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bluepalm69
Lakewood, CA
age: 32
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passionplay1975 you so right i was on my space i asked call me. then she went off line. that hurts. what you say feels right. sorry next!!
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| 4/3/2008 10:26:49 PM |
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passionplay1975
Arlington, TX
age: 32
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I am sorry blue, yes it hurts. it sucks. Just need to pick up and move on, not all women are like that.
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| 4/3/2008 10:29:00 PM |
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bluepalm69
Lakewood, CA
age: 32
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bry11ca it may be to late for yours. what i did was delete her from my space. im 32, i chose not to play games. ha lol there other fish in the sea!! right
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| 4/3/2008 10:32:37 PM |
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bluepalm69
Lakewood, CA
age: 32
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pass i gave my all. i was my self. it feels she might fall back on me. it not far for her to do that. my haert is breaking. but her it is im given up on her becuase im not right for her(good enough) ha ha
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