| 4/8/2008 10:23:18 AM |
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hunter39m
Glen Saint Mary, FL
age: 39
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A little advice please,what is the best way to
to start a friendship or relationship on here
I mean should I just say hi and ask them to check out my profile or what?
I'm looking for a friendship that will turn into
something great but should I say that I'm just looking for a friend first or should I say i'm looking for a serious relationship that will eventually lead to getting married ?
HELP PLEASE I am totally lost, but i guess being with only two women in the last twenty years can kinda put a guy behind in the dating seen you know
any advice would be great
Thanks,Tim
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| 4/8/2008 10:32:15 AM |
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wolfcreekgal
Sheridan, WY
age: 44
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My advice would be to start out as friends and see where it goes.
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| 4/8/2008 10:34:29 AM |
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celeste57
Ramsey, NJ
age: 50
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I'm with wolfcreek, start out as friends and something fun will always develop
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| 4/8/2008 10:35:48 AM |
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dragonheartpm
Galveston, TX
age: 55 online now!
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Tell her you think she is attractive if she is. That you like something she has in her profile...Whatever to start an email going.Start out w/no expectations and see what happens...
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| 4/8/2008 10:36:59 AM |
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meli1982
Springfield, MA
age: 25 online now!
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i'm with the two ladies before me. start off as friends!
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| 4/8/2008 10:40:36 AM |
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winesong
Bend, OR
age: 60
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I would suggest that you post in the forums, and GROUPS that have special interest to you. See who sparks your interest with their viewpoints, and responses. If you see someone that interests you, check out their profile. Read what they are looking for,
and respond to something in their profile, that shows that you READ their profile.
Anyone can craft a profile of dreams, it is often how they present themself in
the arena of public forums, that they will reveal their character.
Enjoy, jump in and have fun...
Wine
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| 4/8/2008 10:42:27 AM |
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virgomomof1
Brunswick, ME
age: 35
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Talk about any common interests. And when she has interests such as movies, and travelling, and camping, ask her where in particular she goes and name some of her favorite movie or music titles. Go more into detail instead of the usual talk of "walks along the beach, bike riding, movies, etc"
And another thing, just be yourself. And be honest! Thats key.
[Edited 4/8/2008 10:58:23 AM]
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| 4/8/2008 10:46:09 AM |
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sitkarains
Sitka, AK
age: 47 online now!
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Well first of all welcome back to the crazy world of dating and we ain't in Kansas anymore toto.
I know I found the same thing to be true. How do we get back in the saddle again after being with someone for a long time.
I personally found the forums a great source of information on how to write and interract with people..
I think when sending an email keep it light casual, friendly, Talk about something you found in her profile that you really have an interest in.
For example I have dancing in my profile listed as one of my interests. I do dance, I made a new wonderful friend just from that interest since thru email's we both have found out we have been to some of the same festivals.
It is so much easier to give a list of the don'ts than it is of the do's. Bottom line. Send out emails that have that personal touch, Not the dreaded form letter,we all hate them and they are so easy to spot. Keep in non sexual, big turn off. "hi, I think you are hot, wanna chat" Big turn off. I reply to those with No I don't.
Most of use check out profiles before we answer you so by stating that I feel it is a wasted time and space.
I don't think you should come off with I am looking for a serious relationship right out of the gate. I mean aren't you looking for that one special person that will be your friend thru all time. That to me is where a serious relationship should start.
I also am so turned off I mean in a big way by the statements. I am not into Games and I am a good guy or a nice guy.. I am immediately on red alert when I see those statements. Since If I am interested in you. I will find those things out in time. I don't need to be told..
Hope some of this helps..
The other best advice I think I could give anyone in the internet world is to grow thick skin. People out here sometimes think it is okay to project their problems onto someone else. So let is wash off your back.
Start out as you plan to continue, Be honest since that will show up rather quickly, Be brave show who you really are and what you believe in, Remember that there is always the 50/50 chance that they might not be interested, No big deal if that is true.
Good luck
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| 4/8/2008 10:55:49 AM |
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fulloflife911
Pickering, ON
age: 44
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Just be completely honest about what it is you are looking for. Most people use these sites (like myself) to weed through the thousands of men by enternig specificiation on what we are looking and not looking for. (Specs if you will)
If you are not honest up front about what you want, you will not get it and spend alot of time talking to people who are not close to being your sole mate.
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| 4/8/2008 10:59:56 AM |
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mmmbaby75
Aurora, CO
age: 32
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Just be you. Anything else would be a lie. 
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| 4/8/2008 11:03:33 AM |
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ladygo
Fredonia, TX
age: 72
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All the advice above is good, but if you contact more than one woman at a time, keep them straight and don't, I repeat don't tell a woman she is good looking if she doesn't have a picture at he profile. Happened to me. I just laughed.
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| 4/8/2008 11:04:31 AM |
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honestinlov
Perkasie, PA
age: 64
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Tim, wolfcreekgal has it...I have been told by one lady here that she, the lady not wolfcreek, likes persistance, as I kept in contact with her even though I didn't feel she was interested. But, I did it as a friend. I approach all the ladies, here and elsewhere, as a friend. That way it can be built upon or go south and no one is hurt. Always always respect the love ladies and who they are. They are the STRONGER of the two sexes! They will cry because they give their heart, laugh because they don't want to hurt you or anyone else and be there for you forever if they decide to honor you with their love.
God how I love them...They were made second so that God could improve upon the first.
Terry
Read Rains post afterwards and agree with her, as most that is stated here is the same. These two women can give you good advice!!
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| 4/8/2008 11:05:02 AM |
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ping_ping
Kingwood, TX
age: 25
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Just start off talking about what interests you. Avoid the smooches, kisses and other kinds of sex talk.
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| 4/8/2008 11:06:52 AM |
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katiescarlett72
Dallas, TX
age: 35
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Send her a high-resolution, full-color photo of your goodies.
Works every time.
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| 4/8/2008 11:13:59 AM |
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honestinlov
Perkasie, PA
age: 64
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Get your email ready Katie, here it cums... comes...
Stupid, dirty old man...must be from up north...Damn Yankees
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