| 4/8/2008 2:10:36 PM |
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jonmjk6
Frankenmuth, MI
age: 36
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What happens if two people wait until they are months into the relationship to have sex. Let's say 2-3 months. At that point you are now becoming more deeply emotionally involved, and probably starting to connect with their friends and family. After that time I think it would be safe to say, that, (if you are exclusive), the feelings are definately there.
So, you like this person, they like you, you do it, and it's AWEFUL!
Now what?
Just for the record, this is a hypothetical question. I am single, single means no sex partner to even have problems with.
[Edited 4/8/2008 2:19:52 PM]
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| 4/8/2008 2:11:16 PM |
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lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49
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Try and try again.....
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| 4/8/2008 2:11:48 PM |
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oneadvntursgrl
Boca Raton, FL
age: 47
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CRY!!! 
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| 4/8/2008 2:14:12 PM |
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msmori
Fresno, CA
age: 42
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AWEFUL... Is it something that can be worked on?? Is what I might be thinking... if the relationship means enough to you to try and work the kinks out.... ???? Which BAD sex is a pretty bad kink!!
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| 4/8/2008 2:14:54 PM |
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jonmjk6
Frankenmuth, MI
age: 36
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Lonesomeloser, I like that line of thinking. However, I am 36 yrs. old. I do not want to train someone.
Of course that is assuming that she is the one that can't screw worth a damn.
Hell, It might be my fault!!
LOL!
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| 4/8/2008 2:15:00 PM |
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passionplay1975
Arlington, TX
age: 32
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agree with both one and lonesome, cry, then work with the person and keep trying. Everyone has their quirks, need to be open and honest with your partner and let them know what you like or are into and go from there. Sex is fixable
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| 4/8/2008 2:15:50 PM |
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funntampa
Tampa, FL
age: 48
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It might depend on the cause. If it is anatomical, there might be a problem which can not be changed. If it is, as is most often the case, derived from emotion, or lack there of, work at changing the emotions.
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| 4/8/2008 2:18:02 PM |
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jonmjk6
Frankenmuth, MI
age: 36
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AWEFUL... Is it something that can be worked on?? Is what I might be thinking... if the relationship means enough to you to try and work the kinks.... ???? Which BAD sex is a pretty bad kink!!
First, this is a hypothetical question. I'm not dating anyone right now. Not dating means no sex. So I don't have this problem, at least not right now. LOL!
Worked on, well, I guess that depends. There are people out there that are just not good at sex. Not everyone has the same likes/dislikes when it comes to what they want and need out the sex in their realtionships.
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| 4/8/2008 2:27:05 PM |
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nevadacityrose
Grass Valley, CA
age: 49
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Practice make perfect! the longer you are with someone the better is naturally becomes, you get to know each other that way. I was married to my first husband for 13 years and it was awsome between us, it took a while to get there but boy was it worth it!
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| 4/8/2008 2:27:31 PM |
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passionplay1975
Arlington, TX
age: 32
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well I have always said it takes three things to make a relationship
1. Communication
2. Honesty
3. sex
Without any one of these the relationship is doomed to fail. You need all of them. We are human after all. 
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| 4/8/2008 2:37:59 PM |
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kazot
Fullerton, CA
age: 47
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Well I wouldn't be in this situation for that very reason.
But hypotheticaly I would be backing out as gently as possible.
At my age I am not interested in taking on a training project.
I also believe if the passion and will are there it will show and if they aren't then all the instruction, practice and work will never change a person from a bad lay to a great lay.
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| 4/8/2008 2:41:32 PM |
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rottsrmygame
Waskom, TX
age: 47
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for everyones info there is no such thing as aweful sex just some is better than others
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| 4/8/2008 2:44:17 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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I wouldn't know. I've never had a woman to wait that long on me. Sorry.
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| 4/8/2008 2:47:00 PM |
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ravishingred
Corona, CA
age: 37 online now!
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Your needs are your needs. As with any other need that perhaps isn't being met, you have the obligation to discuss it with your partner. I say obligation because if you don't tell them, then you're not even giving them the chance to fix/ alter the behavior. After all, as we get older, we all get set in our "ways". How would any couple ever have the chance to make it without communicating needs/issues?? have you ever heard the term "Equally yoked"? It is usually applied to religion. However, being equally yoked sexually can be an important factor also.
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| 4/8/2008 2:52:32 PM |
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jlf294u
Peoria, IL
age: 29
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I say stay with the person who makes you happy and have sex with the person who gets you off.
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