highagn
Littleton, NH
age: 39
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i dont know well lets see its beeen to long to remember... bein singlte not so much by choice except i aint gotta worry about aides. been uphere a couple years and wondering how to get to meet people when you live out of town have no car(totaled in car accident) and dont get out much. but from what i remember of sex its great!!!!just wish i could get some, hehehe
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fraggle22
Merrimack, NH
age: 22
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Hmmm, I have an interesting thought, The one sacred and special thing you can give someone else is yourself. Once you have given yourself to that person, there is no turning back. These days I think people are too quick to jump in the sack and think that everything will be ok if they just have sex. Don't get me wrong, sex is great, but it's even better when you find that one true special person who you connect with on all levels not just in the bedroom. 
Thank you!
I often feel like I'm old fashioned, or narrow minded because I'm not as sexually active as other people my age. I know that times have changed, and it's acceptable and somtimes encouraged for young people to experament with sex with any number of partners. And to be fare, I have no problem with people who do it this way. hell, if you can do it and be happy, by all means! but somtimes i worry that my generation is having all this No-strings-attached sex because getting to know people and forming connections is too complicated or painful. So I somtimes see people who may have had lots of partners, but are very lonly.
For me, sex seems to be an experience to share with someone you trust and care for. Sure there's raunchy, blow you mind sex for the sake of sex, but I still think those experiences would be even better if you did them with someone you really cared about.
I worry somtimes that part of the trouble I have on the dating scene is this view on sex. I don't expect any man to wait any longer then he's willing. but if he wants sex at a certain point in the relationship, and I"m not ready for it, I whole-hearted believe he should have what he wants.....with someone else. WE'll part ways, I'll keep my dignity and he'll feel better too.
Maybe what it comes down to it, I don't just want sex....i want the best sex I can get...and right from the start!
sorry, rambling. I don't like to sound preachy. sorry if that's how it came across. 
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metahominid
Peterborough, NH
age: 19
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Maybe we should be concerned about what God says about Love and Marriage in our lives. God wants sex to be restricted to a man and wife. Any sex outside of marriage is a sin. How can you trust someone who has had affairs with numerous partners? The most satisfied couples are the ones who are loyal to each other as an extension of their committement to God. They both go hand and hand. Alot of people have been decieved by thinking the grass is greener on the other side and they are missing something with their mate. If the grass seems greener on the other side be sure you are not looking at the leach field! All that glitters is not gold. If you are married be true to your wife/husband. If you young and single keep yourself pure for your future mate. If you are divorced and lonely don't try to fill that longing with an illicit relationship. 
Hmm, either you're a troll...or you're a modern day anachronism. Living your life by the tenets of a two millenia old doctrine written by twelve different authors and transcribed and translated by biased scribes over that period is robotic and inhuman. The Original Sin is not only the precursor to the many sins that evolved, but the reason for the sin. The temptation presented by the serpent in the Tree of Knowledge is face-value; knowledge removes us from the bland world of utopian ignorance. The sins to follow are merely rules that were logical or even reasonable for the time, for the most part. Sex before marriage as a sin assumes that marriage must be universal and a detriment is imposed if we are to consider it even reasonable.
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tigerlily88
Concord, NH
age: 20
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sex is great when you and your partner have the same amount interst in it. If your partner only wants to have sex one a month and you want to have sex several times a week, then things dont really work out. And that is one shitty relationship, because you cant get that pent up energy out.
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slamdog
Raymond, NH
age: 49
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no marraige, yes sex
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syruss83
Derry, NH
age: 25
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Well said tigerlily, I know what that was like it sucks bad
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torey8
Suncook, NH
age: 25
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hey people nice to meet u all. hows ur night going? i'm looking to date someone who is looking for a seriouse relationship. i need a girl with a great personality and takes care of herself. i don't just jum into relationships i like to go on a date and see for myself if ur the right person. anygirl from age 18-26 i would like to make some friends too. i work a lot and a lot of my friends moved out of state.
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