| 4/20/2008 2:39:52 PM |
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aguy4agirl
Mentor, OH
age: 46
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relationships being 50 -50 ? don't both people have to give in a little ? No one is perfect.
After all we are different breeds with different ideas ,thoughts and perceptitons.
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| 5/19/2008 3:30:04 AM |
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aguy4agirl
Mentor, OH
age: 46
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i guess my question was answered by complete silence ..................
I wrote this almost a month ago.
So if it's not 50-50 then what is the percentage ?
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| 5/19/2008 12:07:30 PM |
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kle51
Cincinnati, OH
age: 57
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I'm new to this site....But I would like to respond to your post...
I believe that a GOOD relationship should be 100/100 - Each person giving 100%
Karen
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| 5/19/2008 12:49:24 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 43
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I agree 100% with Karen!!
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| 5/19/2008 10:13:18 PM |
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amiae
Cincinnati, OH
age: 21
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i agree with you aguy4agirl
i believe that when you are in a relatioonship with someone, that person and you should both participate in the decison making of certain life choices.
It shouldn't all be one person, but boht of you.
K
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| 5/20/2008 9:47:06 AM |
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aguy4agirl
Mentor, OH
age: 46
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Hmmmmph that figures SB that you wouldn't agree with me 
Thank you Amiae
100 % each ?
that's 200 % , there's only 100 total 
[Edited 5/20/2008 9:48:53 AM]
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| 5/20/2008 11:02:34 AM |
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kle51
Cincinnati, OH
age: 57
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Now, I know the math doesn't add up....
but when you look at it as each person needs to give 100%....
after all, that is all we each have to give!
Karen
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| 5/20/2008 12:55:43 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 43
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So guy4, what you're saying is 50% is better than 100%?!? 
kle still has it right. Both people should put 100% of themself into the relationship. If one has to "give in" a little, they're still giving it their all. To not "give in" (or compromise) is then lessening the percentage of themselves they should be giving.
Boy I sure hope that made sense. I know what I'm trying to say, just not sure if it reads that way.
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| 5/20/2008 4:21:27 PM |
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doll121
Middleport, OH
age: 51
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i agree with Karen, also.
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| 5/21/2008 4:57:25 AM |
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aguy4agirl
Mentor, OH
age: 46
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ok ok use what ever numbers you like but it' still the same idea.
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| 5/21/2008 5:15:06 AM |
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neohiobiker
Mantua, OH
age: 47
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ok ok use what ever numbers you like but it' still the same idea.
No you are wrong it is not the same idea, When u say 50% you are stating that u will meet the person 1/2 way and no more...If you say 100% you are stating that NO matter what u will back the other person..50/50 is a business relationship, 100/100 is a total committment u would give up your life for that person.......
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| 5/21/2008 5:21:35 AM |
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aguy4agirl
Mentor, OH
age: 46
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Well then wouldn't 200 % be better than 100 % ? you can play with the numbers anyway you want too.
OMG, see what i mean by "it's the same idea" are you in business for yourself? if you are then 50 % isn't going to cut it.
Hope your not just agreeing with the ladies to make yourself look good
and by the way when is the last time any of you put in 100% in ? All it takes is one thing to go wrong or feel you've been used to make the other person give up on the half / half idea.
That's what it is half / half. Wether you say 100 % or 200% or 1000 %
It's still means that each person puts A HALF into the relationship that makes it A WHOLE 
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| 5/22/2008 7:16:47 AM |
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wilmingtongirl
Wilmington, OH
age: 36
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Hey i agree. Especially in today's world, it takes two. Relations are give just as much as recieve. Each has to compromise and give a litte. that is what makes a relationship work. It is a 2-way street.
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| 5/24/2008 1:07:15 PM |
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markenter
Marietta, OH
age: 44
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I agree on 50 - 50 , you got to give to get
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| 5/24/2008 3:27:41 PM |
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aguy4agirl
Mentor, OH
age: 46
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Yes Wilmingtongirl, Mark and SB
Compromise , give n take is exactly what i meant
Thank you
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