Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?

7/11/2007 7:51:30 PM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
kmd281174 Saint Cloud, MN age: 33	damn china thats scary but even i wouldnt go that far
7/11/2007 8:01:49 PM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
chinatown_girl Oyster Bay, NY age: 19	i never heard of anyone else having that experience but guess im the unlucky one, lol. soon after that yahoo changed the chatrooms so u had to be 18 to get in. the google thing is new, and i wasn't sure if it was stalking or just someone excited by a new technical toy. he did show the block where he lived first. it shows like a helicopter view of the area u zoom into
7/11/2007 8:02:32 PM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
chinatown_girl Oyster Bay, NY age: 19	i'm sure al queda finds it useful, lol
7/11/2007 8:11:27 PM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
sweetangel83 Ashtabula, OH age: 24	hey chinatowngirl sorry that I didn't reply sooner... it's not my wish to look like a crazy girl talking with a chat box, lol.. I think that if somebody IM you they should have something to talk about,sex questions or too personal are out of discussion...that is a no no
7/11/2007 8:57:57 PM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
hollywoodhogan4 Mount Vernon, NY age: 43	Stalking (from Middle English stalk: from Old English bestealcian; akin to Old English stelan to steal) is a legal term for repeated harassment or other forms of invasion of a person's privacy in a manner that causes fear to its target. Statutes vary between jurisdiction but may include such acts as: repeated physical following; unwanted contact (by letter or other means of communication); observing a person's actions closely for an extended period of time; or contacting family members, friends, or associates of a target inappropriately cyberstalking According to the US's National Center for Victims of Crime, one out of every 12 women will be stalked during her lifetime. One out of every 45 men will be stalked during his lifetime. Over one million women and nearly 380,000 men are stalked annually. Psychology and behaviors Stalking exists on a continuum. The victim may or may not be aware that it is happening, and the perpetrator may or may not have malicious intent. They may even have a sincere but misguided belief that the victim would like them, or have a desire to help the victim. Contrary to crimes that consist of a single act, stalking consists of a series of actions, which in themselves can be legal, such as calling on the phone, sending gifts, or sending emails. Most cases of stalking never escalate to extreme levels of violence or harassment. The stalker will often derogate the victim which reduces them to an object. This allows the stalker to feel angry at them without experiencing empathy, or feel they are entitled to behave as they please toward the victim. Viewing the victim as "lesser," "weak" or otherwise seriously flawed can support delusions that the victim needs to be rescued, or punished, by the stalker. They may slander or defame the character of the victim which helps to isolate them and give the stalker more control, or a feeling of power. Stalkers may use manipulative behavior such as bringing legal action against the victim, or threatening to commit suicide in order to coerce the victim to intervene - all methods of forcing the victim to have contact with the stalker. Stalkers may use threats and violence to frighten the victim. They may engage in vandalism and property damage (usually to the victim's car or domicile). They may use physical attacks that leave abrasions and bruises which are mostly meant to frighten. Less common are physical attacks that leave serious physical injuries, or sexual assaults.
7/11/2007 8:59:05 PM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
hollywoodhogan4 Mount Vernon, NY age: 43	Gender Studies in Stalking Pathology Stalkers are generally male, but not exclusively. The demographic characteristics and psychiatric status of male and female stalkers do not differ, except that male stalkers are more likely to have a history of criminal offenses and substance abuse. The duration of the time invested in stalking and the frequency of associated violence were equivalent between male and female stalkers. Women are more likely to target someone they have known such as a professional contact and rarely target strangers. Both male and female stalkers are more likely to target females than males. Men very rarely target other men. In "A Study of Women Who Stalk", by Purcell, Pathé and Mullen, the authors concluded that the two major psychiatric variables that differentiate female from male stalkers is motivation for stalking and choice of victim. Female stalkers seek intimacy with the victim, who usually is someone already known. The victim is most often chosen from those who assume a professional role of helper. This could be a doctor or nurse, a therapist or counselor. Context was found to differ, but the conclusion was the intrusiveness and harmfulness did not. Female stalkers are potentially as dangerous as any male stalker. Types of stalkers (individual) Psychologists tend to group individuals who stalk into two categories: psychotic and nonpsychotic. Many stalkers have pre-existing psychotic disorders such as delusional disorder, schizoaffective disorder, or schizophrenia. Most stalkers are nonpsychotic and exhibit disorders or neuroses such as major depression, adjustment disorder, or substance dependence, as well as a variety of Axis II personality disorders, such as antisocial, avoidant, borderline, dependent, narcissistic, or paranoia. The nonpsychotic stalkers' pursuit of victims can be influenced by various psychological factors, including anger and hostility, projection of blame, obsession, dependency, minimization and denial, and jealousy. In "A Study of Stalkers," Mullen et al (2000) identify six types of stalkers: Rejected stalkers: pursue their victims in order to reverse, correct, or avenge a rejection (e.g. divorce, separation, termination). Resentful stalkers: pursue a vendetta because of a sense of grievance against the victims - motivated mainly by the desire to frighten and distress the victim. Intimacy seekers: The intimacy seeker seeks to establish an intimate, loving relationship with their victim. To them, the victim is a long sought-after soul mate, and they were 'meant' to be together. Eroto-manic stalker: This stalker believes that the victim is in love with them. The erotomaniac reinterprets what their victim says and does to support the delusion, and is convinced that the imagined romance will eventually become a permanent union. They often target a celebrity or a person of a higher social status (though it is important to note, not all celebrity stalkers are erotomaniacs). Incompetent suitor: despite poor social/courting skills, have a fixation, or in some cases a sense of entitlement to an intimate relationship with those who have attracted their amorous interest. Predatory stalker: spy on the victim in order to prepare and plan an attack - usually sexual – on the victim. Many stalkers fit categories with paranoia disorders. Intimacy-seeking stalkers often have delusional disorders that are secondary to preexisting psychotic disorders such as schizophrenia. With rejected stalkers, the continual clinging to a relationship of an inadequate or dependent person couples with the entitlement of the narcissistic personality, and the persistent jealousy of the paranoid personality. In contrast, resentful stalkers demonstrate an almost “pure culture of persecution,” with delusional disorders of the paranoid type, paranoid personalities, and paranoid schizophrenia.
7/11/2007 9:00:12 PM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
hollywoodhogan4 Mount Vernon, NY age: 43	Laws on stalking The first state to criminalise stalking in the United States is California enacted in 1990 due to several high profile stalking cases in California, including the 1982 attempted murder of actress Theresa Saldana, the 1988 massacre by Richard Farley, the 1989 murder of actress Rebecca Schaeffer, and five Orange County stalking murders also in 1989. The first anti-stalking law in the United States, California Penal Code Section 646.9, was developed and proposed by Municipal Court Judge John Watson of Orange County. Watson with U.S. Congressman Ed Royce introduced the law in 1990. Also in 1990, the Los Angeles Police Department(LAPD) began the United States' first Threat Management Unit, founded by LAPD Captain Robert Martin. Within three years thereafter, every state in the United States and some other common-law jurisdictions followed suit to create the crime of stalking, under different names such as criminal harassment or criminal menace. The Driver's Privacy Protection Act (DPPA) was enacted in 1994 in response to numerous cases of a driver's information being abused for criminal activity, examples such as the Saldana and Schaeffer stalking cases. The DPPA prohibits states from disclosing a driver's personal information without consent by State Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV). Laws against stalking in different jurisdictions vary, and so do the definitions. Some make the act illegal as it stands, while others do only if the stalking becomes threatening or endangers the receiving end. In England and Wales, liability may arise in the event that the victim suffers either mental or physical harm as a result of being stalked (see R. v. Constanza). Many states in the US also recognize stalking as grounds for issuance of a civil restraining order. Since this requires a lower burden of proof than a criminal charge, laws recognizing non-criminal allegations of stalking suffer the same risk of abuse seen with false allegations of domestic violence. Section 264 of the Criminal Code of Canada, titled "criminal harassment" addresses acts which are termed "stalking" in many other jurisdictions. The provisions of the section came into force in August of 1993 with the intent of further strengthening laws protecting women. It is a hybrid offence, which may be punishable upon summary conviction or as an indictable offence, the latter of which which may carry a prison term of up to ten years. Section 264 has withstood Charter challenges . In 2000, Japan enacted a national law to combat this behaviour. Acts of stalking can be viewed as "interfering [with] the tranquility of others' lives", and are prohibited under petty offence laws. In China, stalking has been expressly forbidden since 1987 (now replaced by a new law, with similar substance), as in the context of organised crimes suppression, under Macau's laws. Effects of stalking Stalking does not consist of single incidents, but is a continuous process. Stalking can be a terrifying experience for victims, placing them at risk of psychological trauma, and possible physical harm. As Rokkers writes, "Stalking is a form of mental assault, in which the perpetrator repeatedly, unwantedly, and disruptively breaks into the life-world of the victim, with whom they have no relationship (or no longer have)....Moreover, the separated acts that make up the intrusion cannot by themselves cause the mental abuse, but do taken together (cumulative effect)."
7/11/2007 10:14:57 PM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
rasgumby61 Moberly, MO age: 46	Damnit... they should stop hanging those pictures in the post offices ! LOL
7/11/2007 10:25:32 PM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
kmd281174 Saint Cloud, MN age: 33	have they been hanging your pic in the post office again Ras?
7/11/2007 11:16:06 PM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
sumbeach063 Columbia, SC age: 44	Hey KMD, you run in there real quick, grab those posters... before people see them...We have to look out for our peeps... Sound good....LOL Beach
7/11/2007 11:41:08 PM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
rasgumby61 Moberly, MO age: 46	Heck no, that priv is for the most wanted. I think Im closer to least wanted right now..lol
7/11/2007 11:53:25 PM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
sumbeach063 Columbia, SC age: 44	Ok KMD go put them back, the flood is about to over take the site...LOL
7/12/2007 12:09:15 AM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
kmd281174 Saint Cloud, MN age: 33	why was i nominated
7/12/2007 12:12:18 AM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
chinatown_girl Oyster Bay, NY age: 19	guess this doesnt let us delete a post [Edited 7/12/2007 12:18:17 AM]
7/12/2007 4:29:12 AM	Ask too many questions women think you are a stalker?
lookingfornow New Carlisle, OH age: 55	i know a guy who was stalked for many years. it would start when he woke up. he would be watched taking a shower, getting dressed, having his morning coffee, followed to work, followed back home, eating dinner and watching him sleep. then i found out it was me. hummm, can you stalk youself? now this was ment for just a little humor, how ever little it is, not trying to belittle the subject.

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