| 7/12/2007 9:29:47 PM |
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dawn29
El Dorado, KS
age: 30
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Does anyone recomend this kinda internet dating for someone who is going through a divorce? Is this the right way to meet people?,
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| 7/12/2007 9:33:32 PM |
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happyrunnr1
Mechanicsburg, PA
age: 26
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depends on what you want??
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| 7/12/2007 9:35:31 PM |
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sweetangel83
Ashtabula, OH
age: 24
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It is indeed  I think I finally "click" with someone on here.
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| 7/12/2007 9:35:44 PM |
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oldfashionedgrl
Sumner, WA
age: 45
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Honestly? Having been there, having done that...I wouldn't recommend anyone start dating who is going through a divorce or who is recently divorced. You need time to grieve and heal.
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| 7/12/2007 9:43:06 PM |
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sadhotelroom
Hollidaysburg, PA
age: 22
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i think once you know you are actually 'over' the person, and you have let the past be the past, then go for it.. but if you still have some sort of attachment that you might carry into something else... then you should really get all that fixed before you try dating.
but this sites cool, never really met anywhere near me to chat with, but i've made some friends to keep me company when i can't sleep.
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| 7/12/2007 9:48:37 PM |
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sebz
Anchorage, AK
age: 79
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For me, it has been a great place to meet some great people. I have made some very good friends here and that has been wonderful. Is it a place to meet "that one"? Some do. Guess it kind of depends on why you are here.
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| 7/12/2007 9:55:18 PM |
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metu
West Harrison, NY
age: 46
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Oldfashioned hit it right on the nose! But you may be able to find a little support & friendship while you're healing.
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| 7/13/2007 9:42:41 PM |
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imreddy
Attica, OH
age: 50
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i think internet dating is like a menu.you can look over the entire list of entrees,and chat as long as you need to make a committment.i won't go as far as saying it is the best thing since sliced bread,but it is safe if utilized the right way.
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| 7/13/2007 10:00:07 PM |
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chucky_t
Akron, IN
age: 59
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The internet is a comfortable easy way of meeting people, interacting with people and learning. Can you meet your "ONE" online? Maybe, Maybe not. Don't count on it as the only way. Just use it for what it is, a way to interact and meet with people.
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| 7/13/2007 10:29:35 PM |
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catyia25
Bronx, NY
age: 38
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Dawn,
I have never been married or divorced so I cannot really comment in that area. However, you don't have to go on these sites with the intention of dating. You can meet friends, exchange thoughts with others that have shared some similar experience, interact with people from all places. This will also give you the opportunity to research how some sites work. The pro's and con's. Get some feedback from members that have had success and some that may have not. That way you are aware and prepared when interacting in a dating site. Internet dating is not your only option, but perhaps it can ease your way back into the dating scene when you feel comfortable. I wish you the best, and you're not alone when starting over. Big hug...........
Catyia
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| 7/13/2007 10:37:42 PM |
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mpg
Clio, AL
age: 41
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It is a ggod way to get your self esttem back if you lost it.
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| 7/13/2007 11:29:53 PM |
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libra75
Lowell, AR
age: 32
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I was married for 10 years....my marriage ended Oct. 06...I'm barely gettin' back into the dating scene. I've met alot of good people here, some not so good.....but you'll always be able to find someone you can talk to....And eventually.............
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| 7/14/2007 3:55:10 AM |
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lashae
Platteville, WI
age: 59
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Yes, in looking for a mate, I've actually formed a couple good friends here. I just ended a bad relationship and not ready to start all over just yet. So, maybe you could use a good friend right now honey.
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| 7/14/2007 10:37:45 AM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 55
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oh my dear dawn. The dangers of both online and physical dating at this point are tremendous. If you aren't careful, you'll be right back into a relationship just because of loneliness. Misery loves company. Be cautious, and have some interesting fun. Might be that you can learn some of the 'do nots' on sites like these. A dear friend gave me some advice years ago. Create yourself a little wrapped 'love' box. Wrap it in your favorite colors, even put a little bow on the lid. Keep it in an area you will see often. Before you go out, before you get onto a site like this, open the lid and stick your 'love' into that box. Then, go have fun. That little box keeps you on track and reminds you that it's fun, not serious. It takes time to get over any relationship. For some, its the next nice person they meet 5 minutes later. For others, it takes a bit longer. Normally, after a breakup, divorce, you go through the hurt stage, then the loneliness stage, then you get in the angry stage. Regardless of which is first, it's a cycle. Take your time.
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| 7/14/2007 3:07:03 PM |
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eroticartist
West Harrison, NY
age: 48
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Join the club Dawn. I'm in the same boat
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