| 5/8/2008 1:24:45 AM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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scorpy75
Osceola, IA
age: 32
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I feel as if people look at the picture and assume from just looking at the picture. I have recently just had a baby and am starting to loose the weight. The picture I have posted is all I had with me at the time. I am a caring, loveble, trustworthy, loyal and all kinds of other things. Can someone maybe help to understand why so many people are judgemental. I do have a biracial son. I feel as if people have looked down on me and critized me for it they don't know me just by seeing me or for that a picture.  :devil:
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| 5/8/2008 1:37:15 AM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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cortneyjoy
Chickasha, OK
age: 23 online now!
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screw them girl if they are like that u dont want them anyway there is nothin wrong with love from a black man or a biracial baby! so trust that u will only atract the kind of guys that will accept u anyway.
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| 5/8/2008 3:53:53 AM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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mclintock1963
Duncan, OK
age: 34 online now!
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cuz if u r not attracted to them physically it is human nature to find someone u r attracted to! and u will just end up gettin cheated on!
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| 5/8/2008 5:29:09 AM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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barbara1
Reston, VA
age: 51
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I think it is a package deal, they need to like the way you look AND accept you for who you are.
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| 5/8/2008 5:30:47 AM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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blueyedbobbie
Poultney, VT
age: 36
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If they can't accept you for who you are; they are not worth having anyway.
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| 5/8/2008 5:42:56 AM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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nibblediver
Monticello, MN
age: 45
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Oh I don't know.... There's some people on here that get all hard or damp at the sight of some people's pictures. Kinda freaky - but kinky for others.
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| 5/8/2008 5:45:00 AM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 45 online now!
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Just remember that you are on a dating site............if you want people to know you then you really should go to classes or something and meet someone in a more face to face setting. JMO
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| 5/8/2008 5:47:12 AM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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lust4love
Atco, NJ
age: 37 online now!
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i judge them by smell to. too much cheap perfume and they are gone.
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| 5/8/2008 5:48:57 AM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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teddybearforu
Oshkosh, WI
age: 36
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if they don't send nude pics to me upon request... they're not worth my time
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| 5/8/2008 5:51:36 AM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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blueyedbobbie
Poultney, VT
age: 36
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if they don't send nude pics to me upon request... they're not worth my time
wow teddybear you should get lots of woman
flower i agree this is a dating site; but part of dating is getting to know someone.
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| 5/8/2008 11:55:18 AM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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rnbean04
Suisun City, CA
age: 31
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do you really want to even talk to someone who would judge you for having a biracial child? and weight comes off in time. I wouldn't want to be with someone that would change their feelings for me if I gained a bit of weight. I have biracial children and one guy I spoke to on this site told me he doesn't date women that have been with a black guy, which is just stupid since everybody is human. That right there told me he was racist to an extent. I don't really need to hear from him " oh I have black friends".
anyway, it's probably good these ppl show their judgemental-ness(yeah that's right I just made that word up) up front before you wasted any of your precious time on them.
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| 5/8/2008 1:20:06 PM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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kitkat333
Mastic, NY
age: 49
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why is that? i was diagnoised with b/c 6/14/07 had to go through chemo and rads and a bi-lateal mast. it has been th roughest year of my life, and i have learned just how shallow men can be, appearance is huge, i was and i still am an attractive woman, just different now, my experience is that people base an awful lot on appearance, not who you are. life lessons can be difficult at times, but shallow people are not worth my time, i am a winner and a survivor!! 
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| 5/8/2008 1:23:37 PM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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lexingtonbob65
Lexington, SC
age: 43
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I never judge anyone by there looks, it is whats inside that i look for. A caring, loving, understanding, honest and respectful. Judgeing ppl by their looks is like judgeing a book by its cover.
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| 5/8/2008 5:39:33 PM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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xpureluckx
Cerritos, CA
age: 35
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I don't judge a person by how they look. I do how ever have certain types I am attracted too. On a dating site why would I go for somebody that I know I will not be attracted too? Too find out if they are a nice caring person? No I wouldn't. I will find somebody attractive and hope they are a nice caring person. If they are not you look for another, rinse and repeat. For me to get to know you first before attraction, we would have to work together, or know each other out of the dating scene.
I also looked at the profile. One reason you might catch flack is you put athletic yet have that pic up. I do not mind interracial babies but everybody is not the same as me.
Just try to realize that when you throw yourself on the market some people will not buy the product. Yet some will, be what you claim to be and they won't return you 
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| 5/8/2008 5:55:12 PM |
Why can't a person be accepted for who they are and not just looks...? |
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judy21458
Conyers, GA
age: 50
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unfortunately its all about the looks these days it seems even moreso than ever before..i am a BBW and i am happy with who i am and if others aren't or find me unattractive for whatever reason,whether its looks or personality doesn't matter because i'm not changing who i am for anyone..you like me for me as a whole or you don't its that simple..i don't look a certain way to please others and i surely don't act like something i'm not..if your happy with who you are then others don't matter..someone,somewhere will love you as you are,but if your not happy and wanna change then do it because you wanna do it not because you wanna do it so others will like you..we all have our ideas of who we wanna lay beside at night or date and theres nothing wrong with that if its what you want but don't look down on someone because of their weight or whatever cause to me thats being way too judgemental and noone has that right..JMO...
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