| 5/12/2008 11:23:44 AM |
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britg30
Burbank, CA
age: 26
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Okay... so here is a situation we have ALL been in. You meet somebody at a bar, club, restaurant, grocery store, Hallmark card shop, on the street, frat party, Thai massage parlor... WHEREVER! You hit it off and exchange numbers. How long do you wait to call?
Ladies - how long should the guy wait to call you? Now, the 3-day rule seems to be universal, but I like to call the very next day. I think it shows that I'm truly interested in getting to know the person. Is that a horrible approach? Does that scare people away? 
What does the world of DH think?
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| 5/12/2008 11:24:48 AM |
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blueyedbobbie
Poultney, VT
age: 36
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this question has been answered on another thread; but anyway do not wait. if someone waits to call me they may as well not call. jmo
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| 5/12/2008 11:26:21 AM |
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afrolicious
El Paso, TX
age: 28
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I like the day after. If it is a text that same day. But I have had a few guys call me right when we depart. It leaves me thinking well didn't we just finish hanging out and talking?
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| 5/12/2008 11:27:06 AM |
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iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 38
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THe next day....in three days I may no longer be interested
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| 5/12/2008 11:27:43 AM |
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britg30
Burbank, CA
age: 26
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yeah, i meant to post in the relationship thread. 
Sorry about that!
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| 5/12/2008 11:27:54 AM |
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skreb69
Charlestown, RI
age: 36
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I like the day after. If it is a text that same day. But I have had a few guys call me right when we depart. It leaves me thinking well didn't we just finish hanging out and talking?
Just makin sure you gave us your number that's why we call right away... 
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| 5/12/2008 11:29:29 AM |
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mmmbaby75
Aurora, CO
age: 32
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Just friggin' call already.
Even if I'm guilty of not calling. Ladies like to know there is a real interest there.
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| 5/12/2008 11:36:02 AM |
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honeyheart95
Elkins, WV
age: 35
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I'd love it if a guy I gave my number to called me the next day.. shows me he is truely interested instead of waiting a week and feeling he isn't into me..
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| 5/12/2008 11:41:38 AM |
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scottt39
Ocean View, HI
age: 45
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I alway call on the way home or give her a chance to get home because in 3 days she might say "scott who? Oh that ass who never called me back." click
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| 5/16/2008 2:03:30 PM |
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sweetiepie1977
Jacksonville, FL
age: 30
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You are correct....if you are truly interested in the person, call them. They gave you their number for a reason, to be CALLED BY YOU!
I personally, would love for a man to NOT wait 3 dammit days to call me...I will have the thinking of "he is a playa" and "he must go out getting numbers all the time"....
So CALL the chick if you really are interested...hell, why wait til the next day, do it THAT day!
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| 5/16/2008 2:07:57 PM |
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vegasstylist
Las Vegas, NV
age: 42
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The 3 day rule sucks you should call when you feel like it not when some dumb rule says you should
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| 5/16/2008 2:56:25 PM |
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jewelgal66
Oakdale, CA
age: 42
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Who made it a rule anyway(3 day) Life is way toooo short if your interested call them and let them know it. For myself if I meet a guy and he takes 4 ever to call screw him!!!!
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| 5/16/2008 3:26:08 PM |
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kissable123
Lufkin, TX
age: 32
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I think if you really want to know that person , call when you get ready, there is no time limit on meeting and talking on the phone, lol, so just do it!!!
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| 5/16/2008 3:48:58 PM |
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barbara1
Reston, VA
age: 51
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I like the guy to call the very next day, it shows he is interested.
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| 5/16/2008 3:51:32 PM |
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metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 46
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*snicker* Wait a really, really, really long time...then she'll know just how cool you are!
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