| 7/23/2007 12:38:28 PM |
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sundown
Endeavor, WI
age: 53
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Need tips on how to get on with my life
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| 7/23/2007 2:46:42 PM |
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jennierose
Houston, TX
age: 65
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Hi,
I am seeing the same problem. My husband passed away almost 2 yrs. ago now and I for the life of me don't see anything out there??
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| 7/23/2007 4:05:33 PM |
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eyeswdopen
Concord, NC
age: 39
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Hi sundown...I've been widowed for 3 1/2 yrs now. Life does go on...Dating and even just meeting men is completely different now than before. It took me close to a yr and a half before I would even make the attempt, but it does get easier.
Take your time with it and try just going out a few times with friends as a group, thats what worked for me.
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| 7/23/2007 5:14:49 PM |
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sundown
Endeavor, WI
age: 53
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thank u eyes and jennie , Thats a great idea to just go out with friends .bound to run into a man somewhere lol. I live in a small village not too much going on here. tc u2 gals
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| 7/23/2007 6:01:12 PM |
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61sunshine
North Augusta, SC
age: 61
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Hi. My husband passed away 2 1/2 years ago. I stay busy. Have joined a singles group and we do a lot of group things. Haven't found a guy that strikes my interest but I would like to find a male friend to do things with and see what developes. I look for things in the community that I can go to like the concerts in the park. The absolute worse thing you can do is drop out of life. We cannot change our plight but we can still go on living.
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| 7/23/2007 6:08:22 PM |
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sundown
Endeavor, WI
age: 53
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ty for the message ... Think I have been along way away from real life the last 18 months. Now I feeling like a caged animal . Time to jump into life again. Too bad we couldn`t take all the tears and put them to some good use, cause I know there`s been alot of them .......tc girls. sundown
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| 7/24/2007 10:06:06 AM |
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lunawoman
Whittier, CA
age: 46
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Im sorry to say this, but time heals all,is an understatement. It is hard to ever look at life the same again. A mistake that I made was never going to support groups that understood what I was going through. Depending on how long you have been a widow, you should really try and find some in your area.
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| 7/24/2007 12:17:28 PM |
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sundown
Endeavor, WI
age: 53
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Thanks luna ,thats good advice,i did tried looking some but most were for much older people but I guess grieving is grieving no matter how old u are .maybe i should try looking again 
[Edited 7/24/2007 12:18:08 PM]
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| 7/27/2007 8:03:51 PM |
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onenonlysis
Clarksville, IN
age: 61
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Seven months after my husband passed away, I quite by accident met someone and we were together for two years. When we broke it off, I was a basket case for over a year and feel that perhaps I had not even given myself time to grieve in the first place. Five years later I began to "find" myself and have become quite content with my life. I have been widowed 15 years now. Everyone has to grieve in there own way; some it is only for a short while and others it takes longer but you do what you must to stay in this game of life and enjoy every adventure. I am finding it more difficult, the older I get, to find someone who fits for me! But you know what they say...it happens when you aren't expecting it!
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| 7/30/2007 10:04:22 PM |
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parkside
Union City, CA
age: 45
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hi there ladies i have been a widow for 13 years I have had 3 kids ant they kept me busy I had found a wonderful man that was there not only for me but the kids at the time we met my youngest was only 3 however after ten years with him he still acts like a child himself and i really dont want another child it was a long road but we do get through it we never forget we just do get through it
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| 7/30/2007 10:22:58 PM |
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markzander
Troy, MI
age: 35 online now!
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anyone married that wants to be a widow??
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| 7/30/2007 10:58:06 PM |
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lunawoman
Whittier, CA
age: 46
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Mark, Thank you for not turning this into a big joke. NOT!!!
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| 7/30/2007 11:01:22 PM |
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eric5150
Ben Wheeler, TX
age: 23
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I wish I could Offer some scientific help for you...But all i can say is that we are all here for you.
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| 7/30/2007 11:44:55 PM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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The trick is to stop looking...he will find you Be happy with yourself and content with your life and it will happen in time..Good luck to you.
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| 7/31/2007 2:57:06 AM |
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9thstwonder
Chesapeake Beach, MD
age: 49
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The woman I am with now is a widow, and after much sadness in both of our lives, we couldn't be any happier, even the problems I had with her children accepting me are coming to an end. Life goes on, and there can be love and joy in your life again
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