| 5/19/2008 6:03:25 AM |
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seth__
Somerset, KY
age: 19
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I have never done it but I don't really see the problem.
Couldn't it be that they can still have a relationship and they both just really needed to get laid?
side note: I think TV has screwed it up for everybody though because girls think if they do they'll never see the guy again which is stupid because if she's willing to sleep with me she can see me again as long as I like her.
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| 5/19/2008 7:05:53 AM |
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kahne06
Festus, MO
age: 29
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Sex shouldn't be important on the first date period. That is like jumping into things and thats how people get hurt. That's just like someone telling you they love you within a few days or a few weeks of talking. You jump the gun so your ass gets overloaded and you end up looking like a fool in the end.
I'll never jump into anything fast I don't care how much I like the girl and if she wants to not see me because I wont give her some then I know there are alot of men who will give it to her and every other girl they talk to on a first date!
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| 5/19/2008 7:44:45 AM |
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butlergurl81
Butler, IN
age: 26
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been there, done that.
didnt work out for me. so now i will wait.....
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| 5/19/2008 9:08:22 AM |
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patchworkgrl
Fort Lee, VA
age: 20
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i had sex on the first date, and then there seemed to be less of a bond because its like theres no mystery anymore between u two.the ice is definatley broken but personally its all about the persuit..especially for the guys.. and it feels better sexuallly if u wait and really get to know them.
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| 5/19/2008 11:11:19 AM |
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lovensemble
Orlando, FL
age: 21
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Ummm...yeah, been there, done that before too! It won't happen again!
Sex on the first date is definitely not a good thing. Jumping into that much intimacy before you BARELY know the other person is pointless. All it will cause is confusion and jaded feelings about how you REALLY feel about each other. You become attached intimately and all of a sudden you can't rationally get to know the other person because you skipped a step per say...
It's like when you are a baby...would you walk before you crawl? No...
So why would you skip a level on dating? It's important to get to know the person BEFORE diving in! It prevents soooo many problems!
Also, this applies mostly to men...I think, but it also causes the "mystery" to vanish. The one thing you wanted...you already got...so what else is there? If you give the person intimacy BEFORE they know you... then they are less likely to get to know you because they already got what they want! Thus, the suspense is gone!
And finally...waiting and not trying to sleep with a woman on the first date is showing RESPECT! Even if she wanted you just as much, the fact that you didn't try anything...will only make her like you more...because you RESPECTED her!
So...just a word of advice...if you want to develop a meaningful relationship...FIGHT THE URGE! lol
P.S. if there are any men in Orlando, FL who would like to talk to me...feel free to email me...I promise, I don't bite! 
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| 5/19/2008 4:58:59 PM |
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liferator
Statesville, NC
age: 27
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sex on the first date ? what are you supposed to build a relationship around sex wears out and once it does if you don't have a foundation built then you have nothing at all
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| 5/21/2008 12:13:59 PM |
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rcanel59
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 26
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Look man....I love sex
but if you have sex on your first date the girl is a hoe. Ive tried it a couple time...pretty much b/c i cant say no...and every single time the girl didn't end up being a good girl.
take your time....a good woman will make you wait for it.
take that to the bank
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| 5/22/2008 2:01:33 AM |
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amberine
Plover, WI
age: 28
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 someone anyone if you have sex on the first date you might as well wear a sticker that says hello Im easy wanna ride!
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| 5/22/2008 5:18:04 PM |
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missing_out
Farmersville, TX
age: 27
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 Every situation is different. If both are 2 consenting adults and agree than what the hell is the problem? Now days tho, its a no win situation, lady sleeps with guy on the first night and is automatically a wh*re, lady holds out and doesnt put out for awhile, and she gets passed off because he found someone who would. Are you really going to date someone for a long time and not have sex, than finally have sex and see its not so great, than find yourself hauling ass out of the relationship? I admitt I've had causal sex with a friend, but it continues and we both have agreed not to mess around with anyone else. Does this make me a hoe, because both of us are unsure about wanting to be in a relationship? I think not, but if you think differently than hey you have your right to your opinion. The casual sex with a friend has been some of the best sex ive experienced in my life! If both people are mature and have agreed to things, than I dont see a problem. But that is just me!
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| 5/23/2008 4:59:29 PM |
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liferator
Statesville, NC
age: 27
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say what you want its all about whether you want a buddy or if you want to find a partner as to what someone does
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| 5/23/2008 10:00:14 PM |
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damoochie
Western Australia
Australia
age: 25
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the question itself is complex due to the fact that everything plays a role
on the outcome the body language the tone of how you talk to the other person
just to name a few dont get me wrong it totally up to the individual but if
you have chemistry with that person thats different like they say it takes
two 2 tango.
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| 5/24/2008 5:09:16 AM |
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friszy
Queensland
Australia
age: 23
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i dont know i love sex, as i am typical guy, i dont think sex on first date is an option, you should call it a one night stand as most of the time it leaves nothing to imagine and you normally not talk after that night. i think the 3rd date is the most relativly ok, as you both uld have made a bond by then, relising what you both want.
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| 5/24/2008 3:24:44 PM |
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sugarnspice05
Wichita, KS
age: 24
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I agree with most of the women on here, that sex ona first shouldn't happen...as somoneone said it takes the mystery or suspense out of getting to know them..but I'm also not the type of person to a FWB either so...
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| 5/24/2008 6:39:57 PM |
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bellinghamster
Bellingham, WA
age: 26
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shouldn't do it. guys also need to learn not to pressure people into it either. cuz that's a real problem, and no one in their right mind would really want to date you after that.
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| 5/24/2008 9:17:39 PM |
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boomboom1324
‘Afak
Iraq
age: 22
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i have had sex on the fitst date it was really really really really nice.        
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