| 7/28/2007 5:24:56 PM |
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gypsyrastarose
Midland, TX
age: 26
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Hey there guys, i am curious for some honest responses on this one, it just seems to me that alot of the guys ive been with in the past were able to cut off their feelings at a much quicker rate then me? like hot cold no offense, just curious to hear some responses
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| 7/28/2007 5:28:51 PM |
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captainpicard
New York, NY
age: 28
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We are no different
We have feelings too , some are better at hiding it then others i suppose
But i still struggle with the though my ex girlfriend is laying in bed with another man
And i am over her , trust me
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| 7/28/2007 5:29:33 PM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 55 online now!
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dunno about others.. but that picture is skeeeeeeery.. whew.
guys think with their minds, girls think with their hearts. Guys try to fix things thru analytical processes. It was the upbringing that made guys like we are today. I'm not say all guys dont fall head over heels, but if its a problem we cant fix, we move on to the next thing.
but as far as feelings go, its there, they just dont show it as much.
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| 7/28/2007 5:30:08 PM |
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allinthedo
Tracy, CA
age: 29
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yes, when we finaly realize we wont be f*ckin her anymore
then its like aawwww daaaaaaaaammmnnn!
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| 7/28/2007 5:32:13 PM |
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missmatch
Cleveland, TN
age: 51
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captain, i dont see how you can be over her and still thinking of her in bed with another man....you better think again...um..or not
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| 7/28/2007 5:34:38 PM |
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captainpicard
New York, NY
age: 28
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It has to do with possession , its something i understand and because i do , i am able to control it
Believe me , i have accepted the inevitability of a doomed relationship , what makes me think of her , on occasion are te good times we had
By far a lot less then the bad times
It's ancient hystory
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| 7/28/2007 5:37:37 PM |
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missmatch
Cleveland, TN
age: 51
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hotlicks? average? ha...no way
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| 7/28/2007 6:01:55 PM |
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gypsyrastarose
Midland, TX
age: 26
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Yeah thanx for some of the responses.., its just crazy hurt feeling like im the only one paining over a lost love like being thrown away in the trash Oh well, i figure everything happens for a reason .. I miss my X like hell but i realize i was dependant way too much upon him for strength and support rather then looking within myself.. Lessons in every bunch i suppose
Yeah i guess my pic is a bit intense or scary! hehe! i like it though reflects my inner self rather well!
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| 7/28/2007 6:03:38 PM |
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gypsyrastarose
Midland, TX
age: 26
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thatz a very honest response HEHE! Oh yeah and i meant my X not like im the only one who has ever hurt over love, i figure everyone goes through that
Its hard for me to let go sometimes of guys i have loved because i fall hard ! hehe i said " Hard"
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| 7/28/2007 6:05:56 PM |
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renis
Camino, CA
age: 18
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yeah it seemed like my ex got over me quick but i didnt' get over him for months it was crazy how much I missed him I didn't get how he could move on so quick but I guess its just easier for him to move on then it is for me. I think guys just can move on quicker cause maybe thier not as emotional as girls. I'm not sure..
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| 7/28/2007 6:06:21 PM |
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karebear87
Eau Claire, WI
age: 20
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I may be a tainted, bitter woman, but I say not all men. Some men do.
It's hard to believe for a second that all men can feel the same pain we do when they can easily dismiss us, blow us off and lose their feelings for us at the drop of a dime. Hell, when I've told guys "I hope you're happy with what you've done!" some have replied in a very snarky way "Yes, I'm VERY happy!". But then again, I'm sure if their dream girl did to them what they did to me and other girls, they'd cower in the corner crying for their mommy holding their teddy bear tight.
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| 7/28/2007 6:08:28 PM |
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captainpicard
New York, NY
age: 28
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There is a reason why they say Karma is a B*tch
Think about it
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| 7/28/2007 6:13:14 PM |
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chucky_t
Akron, IN
age: 59
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I think that men will sometimes feel hurt longer and harder then a woman will. They may hide it but it stays with them for a very long time. Even when they are with someone else and think they have moved on.
Of course I am talking about a real relationship, not one where one partner was using the other for fun, sex, or just companionship until a better one comes along. There the using partner will move on much faster and easier. Just like at the water park slide...SWOOSH...and they are gone.
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| 7/28/2007 6:15:34 PM |
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eric5150
Ben Wheeler, TX
age: 23
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Personally I am extreamly sensitive. I Reveal My feelings about everything. If I feel a change in behaviour, or an irrational statement or somthing that leads me to think they are going to end it. I will withdrawl my feelings. that does nto mean I do not bleed inside. But people Like me have to do such things to stay sane.
[Edited 7/28/2007 6:15:53 PM]
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| 7/28/2007 6:17:51 PM |
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renis
Camino, CA
age: 18
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yeah that seems to make since
especually if there just using you to mess around with but it sucks when someone puts thier heart into it and not the other person. To much drama comes from that I realized
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