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| Location: |
San Marcos California |
| Zip Code: |
92069 |
| Age: |
46, Leo |
| Height: |
5 ft. 9 in. |
| Hair, Eyes: |
Dark Brown, Brown |
| Body: |
A few extra pounds |
| Ethnicity: |
White |
| Religion: |
Atheist |
| Politics: |
Liberal |
| Education: |
Associate's Degree |
| Income: |
Didn't Say |
| Job: |
Computers, Software |
| Smoke: |
Don't Smoke |
| Has Kids: |
No |
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| Personality |
I'm a semi-athletic, intelligent and reasonably sociable geek looking for a mad scientist in the Agatha Heterodyne mold, although Marie Curie also works. 
Semi-athletically, I like playing soccer, backpacking and hiking. I need to restart cycling, but my road bike is a basket case right now. In the past I've taken West Coast Swing classes, but that's been derailed by work. Also, I work out with a trainer twice a week, but he says less food - more cardio, which is a struggle of course.
Intelligencewise, I'm a polymath of sorts with a computer science emphasis. I'm also a genre fiction, history, physical sciences, mathematics, engineering, music, biology and medicine groupie too, but strictly a dabbler in those fields. Jobwise, I'm a UNIX software engineer with a MacOS fetish.
Geekishly, I read constantly, usually from the Science Fiction, Mystery or Fantasy genres and I enjoy watching DVDs of TV shows and movies in the same genres. While I like some dramatic, deep or arty films, I prefer action/adventure movies and witty comedies.
I love music, mostly in the Classic Rock, Hard Rock, Heavy Metal, Progressive, Progressive Metal, Jam Band, Trance and Art Rock genres, but Classical music is also cool, particularly Mussorgsky and Dvorak. Basically, I like loud, complex tunes with a bit of dissonance.
In psychological shorthand, I'm a Myers-Briggs INTP personality type and my N and P preferences are very strong.
Regarding that elusive lab partner, I'm looking for someone I can relate to for casual dating, which is not a euphemism for casual sex! Light and fun is the dating experience I'm seeking. If we click I won't push you away out of commitment phobia or a hard and fast short term dating rule, but I want to go slowly and friends first is a requirement.
Long term, I'm looking for a woman who is smart, geeky, athletic and fit, sociable, educated, easy going, well balanced and well adjusted. Obviously I'm a big geek and a bit awkward around people, but not socially maladjusted. Nonetheless, I appreciate iconoclasm and quirkiness and my dream woman feels the same way -- weird is a compliment, not a pejorative. However, I do grok reality and can work/live with the mundanes/muggles but I don't like it as much because it's so bland.
A playfully obnoxious woman is attractive and sarcasm, puns, black humor, wit and snarkiness are cool, as long as the meanness quotient is low. Feel free to channel Oscar Wilde or Dorothy Parker at any time.
Also, I really want to connect with someone emotionally, so warmth, empathy, consideration and friendliness are also requirements. Rounding out desired personality traits, ethics, authenticity, tolerance and low maintenance are key.
As stated earlier, I am a Myers-Briggs INTP. If you are a Myers-Briggs ESTJ, ESFJ, ISTJ, or ISFJ personality type or you have very strong S or J preferences we would be a horrible match, trust me on this. Unfortunately in terms of chemistry, I'm often attracted to those lively SP types who are often bored with us daydreamy NT types.
Finally, in terms of crass physicality, I am most attracted to tall, voluptuous mesomorphs or endomorphs with long hair and artistic, hippie or athletic tomboy fashion sensibilities and a melodious deep contralto voice catches at my soul.
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| Want To Find: |
A woman ages 35 to 55 to date |
Interests:
I Like: |
books, bookstores, computers, friends first, geek stuff, groovy threads, hiking, movies, music, reading, rpgs, science, science fiction, software engineering |
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