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| Location: |
New York New York |
| Zip Code: |
10116 |
| Age: |
46, Libra |
| Height: |
5 ft. 6 in. |
| Hair, Eyes: |
Black, Other |
| Body Type: |
Slender |
| Ethnicity: |
Didn't Say |
| Religion: |
Christian |
| Politics: |
Liberal |
| Education: |
Bachelor's Degree |
| Income: |
Didn't Say |
| Job: |
Administrative |
| Drink: |
Drink Socially |
| Smoke: |
Smoke Occasionally |
| Status: |
Single |
| Have Kids: |
Yes, not living with me |
| Want More: |
Didn't Say |
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| Personality |
PLEASE NOTE: The first thing is. I am seriously open-minded, which means that I have no particular preference to race; White, Black or mixed race, etc. Races have never fazed me. I am a very practical thinker, and I have come to know that whatever shade you are is profoundly important, so if you are stuck in this narrow mind-set, then you probably will not find happiness here because your priority is set all wrong, and this shallowness will persist -- (think about it?) to this end. This is what open-mindedness really means.
I have always been youthful, young at heart & playful. My nature is optimistic no matter what age or birthday I celebrate, or whatever the circumstance of that day. Like a normal person I get upset and is disappointed sometimes (there are lessons however to be learned in every disappointment, but, in the end I am self-motivated and realistic; I see the cup as half full instead of half empty; this pragmatic disposition serves me well, and helps a lot in my relationships).
Love travel, opera, reading, writing, animals, and plants. Love to fall in love, and to like the person I fall in love with. I am curious, passionate, and love simple humor. Can cook and is creative. Love board games, hiking, camping, sports, and spontaneous happenings. I appreciate arts, odd shops, and most songs genre's. I can be serious; can be flexible, but not reckless. I am mindful, sensitive, but love to participate in the maintenance of my relationships, and I expect the same in my partner -- In other words, words are easy, and deceptive, but practice in actions is volume. Varied communication are always desired, but not argumentative ones where we disagree, and then grudges and spite with obvious petulance are kept with a very stubborn ability not to say, "I am sorry and move on with recognition, and respect for each other's opinions." If positive actions are not practice easily between partners, then these are warning signs, and will not nurture love, and honesty in a successful relationship.
I exercise, and would want my mate to practice the same. I have a very efficient metabolism that allows me to eat anything, and stay slim - I do not like finicky eaters because it stays complicated in the relationship because all fun in sharing and preparing meals together are quickly lost - So, do not deceive.
Compatibility is important. I like calmness in a partner, though I am somewhat in the middle personality; the opposite contrast tend to work better since we both can't be hyper when there is a crisis - One half of that partnership-whole should be the calmer by ways of the expressions of love, loyalty, humor, listening, and laughter, and time-outs.
Friendship for me is really also key. If you are looking for a quick sack- thing, then you are viewing the wrong choice. I so prefer a partner who is not necessarily an exercise fanatic, but who actually exercise two to three or so times weekly. Have no interest in players, chronic laziness or someone who is all about their physique and their vehicle, and their bling or piercings all over body.
I appreciate wisdom... To breathe is a gift.
Once people realize this magic, I do not think the rest of it matter at all.
I enjoy open affections, cuddling, and playfulness.
I look for someone who realizes that love is not just words that are so loosely used, but people are under the wrong impression, believing, and conveying to each other that they love each other -- this is a band aid very often for deception. By saying this to the other, there is a false assumption that you have earned the reciprocal response, or that the receiving person should excuse any bad behavior or disloyalty, or a betrayal that may befall the ongoing relationship. What I am saying is that conveying to each other of your love does not cure all. In other words, love without a conscience; will easily reveal itself at every turn.
Interactive participation, maintenance, affection, humor, open-mindedness, passions, and respect are some of the virtues that are required, and reciprocated -- To elaborate: Think of a "pie" it takes all pieces to make it whole. e.g., if your life/relationships are without these pieces, then real love does not exist. From this breathes patience, trust, sensitivity, responsibility, and hard work, which creates enduring relationships, and makes your desired relationships succeed, hence.
I am not perfect. Nevertheless, I have an acute awareness that these things are necessary for a realistic relationship. That said my desire for a relationship is one of hope, and longevity... just like you. If there is another out there that share this vision and wants to put them into practice, you are welcome.
(PLS. NOTE: Hygiene is very important)
So there!
If you are passionate about life and not a player then I guess we could have a great friendship and relationship with a common purpose, and goals. Good luck.  
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| Personality Type: |
Outgoing |
| Want To Find: |
A man ages 38 to 45 to date |
| I Party: |
Not very often |
Interests:
I Like: |
animals, arts, being silly, board games, Camping, conversation, creative, cuddle, dare, exercise, flexible, friendship, fun, hicking, honesty, humor, intimacy, laughter, life, love, opera, partnership, passionate, plants, reading, relationships, respectful, Sensitive, spontaneous, travel, writing |
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