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We need a guy option!!! This is wat going on with my friend!! by shorty_55 at 9/6/2012 3:44:17 PM She's been in a reationship for 3 years, NEVER cheated or lyed too her boyfriend, never did anything wrong too him, try too be the prefect wifey as u would say!! She does anything with him sexually he'd want to do she never complains! Lately, he's been blowing her off for this chick his sister friends with, this chick isn't near as pretty is my friend is she's overweight big time, she isn't nothing special! But why is he doing this, she calls his phone & he hangs up on her 90 percent of the time, says O I was busy!! But we know he's been hanging out with this chick. The chick even wrote my friend telling her that he doesn't want nothing to do with her, & that he spend the night at her house he wanted too sleep with her baddly!! She claims she wants too get with him, he's even said at a time, O I don't like u anymore, I love someone else than goes just kidding! Only time, he comes too see his gf my friend, is when he wants something, the whole time he's texting this new chick!! So my question, is men what's so great about this new chick, remember my friend gave him everything money, place too live, love, everything so what's the deal with this new chick? Ur options!!

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bigtony1970	9/6/2012 3:52:40 PM He's a user , maybe he thinks the grass is greener else were , or he might think he can have them both . He's like my ex wife he thinks he can have everything he wants and he'll just keep strining your friend along until he needs something . Tell your girlfriend it's time to move on . Best of luck
persononwindow	9/6/2012 4:02:48 PM Mind you, This is pure speculation on my part,, There's a saying,, You only live once, But you can be immature forever, Mature meaning "fully grown", Meaning physically he may be grown, But mentally or socially, He is not,,,, Good Luck
deanko	9/6/2012 5:40:16 PM Id treat her good im good hearted
jadsc05	9/6/2012 6:11:17 PM Well, having known a lot of guys who dogged girls like this I can tell you exactly what's happening. She has herself a boy, not a man.. In that I mean if you let a child have whatever he wants, he's going to want more, and if you let a child get away with something, he's just going to push the envelope further. The big problem is her just letting him have whatever he wants and get away with whatever he wants, he knows she wont just kick his a** to the curb like she should so he will keep her on the back burner using her for as much as he can til he feels he can find a greener pasture to roam in then dump her as unfortunate as that may be. She needs to find herself a real man to treat her right, not some little boy who is going to use her... But that's just my opinion.
klash3d	9/6/2012 6:16:59 PM Basically, he is bored. Maybe desires new attention. I've met people like that. Your friend should move on. Obviously if he is pulling that shit, then he lost interest. If she does still want him, then moving on and finding someone else would drive him nuts or drive him away. Either way, there is not easy fix. Something drastic has to happen.
ontheloose69	9/6/2012 6:19:22 PM user and player he is. he's a little boy playing the field. kick him to the curb.
vizorg	9/7/2012 1:58:35 AM kick his a** to the curve and find someone who loves her for her and not all that sexual bullshit which is why hes bored.
vermont34	9/7/2012 11:34:15 AM Hes sleeping with the other girl.Thats why you have to watch peoples routines.When they change something is going on.nyb.