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You make the call 2,... by sparky0565 at 3/17/2013 6:48:52 PM Similar to the first you make the call, I set up a nice dinner date and movie event. She purposely excludes information from me about her until the date. During dinner, she relates to me that she is still recovering from a serious accident. She was in a coma for months, metal plate in her head, blind in on eye, doe snot hate a short term memory, is challenged to walk,...

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charli2858	3/17/2013 6:52:02 PM um, same answer basically, if you knew she was withholding info then why did you go out. Or did you not ask enough questions...
charli2858	3/17/2013 6:53:41 PM Seriously, are you saying she had an obligation to tell you everything before you met? Sometimes it is better that you get to put all the pieces together before you judge, no on required to tell all before a meet. Perhaps you should try a coffee date first.
sparky0565	3/17/2013 7:01:21 PM Yep, I think a coffee date is better. I have done that previously and probably a better idea.
txdee44	3/17/2013 7:11:47 PM Don't know you or what went on, but my question are you getting to know these women through some emails, then phone before you ask out? or are you like the majority of guys I've encounter on here that as to go out on their first email and/or send their number? My second "wonder": If you got to know her a bit and you liked her enough to ask her out, what difference does all that other stuff make? I'm like Charli, before you spend a lot of bucks, to a more casual date first, because to me that is something I would want to tell someone face to face any way, it's a get to know each other thing. After that if you like each other and all went well, then bring out the flowers.
isowholehalf	3/17/2013 7:40:53 PM Your picker is off...way off... One has to wonder if you are just going for looks that you are finding women of do little substance. Most women are honest up front i would never go on a date with a guy who didn't know my health situation.
earldirt	3/17/2013 8:35:04 PM Like I told a co worker once that felt duped..Think of it as just another exciting adventure in the life of sparky,don't let it consume you,you had a good time at the time didn't you?.
ezgoingru	3/17/2013 8:41:30 PM Live and learn... some might deal with it better than others!! I'm sure if she would have told you there might not have even been a date, so I see both sides of this...
sparky0565	3/18/2013 10:57:46 AM Live and learn. I am easy going. What I look for is intelligence and chemistry. For now on initial date is Starbucks or Panera