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He Dumped Me... by jasmi at 1/28/2009 8:54:07 PM Boy, nothing worse then rejection, huh? How can a man claim to love you for many months, then all of a sudden decide he is in love with someone else? My on-line love didn't even give me a chance to meet him in person, we were supposed to meet next month. Words cannot explain how foolish I feel to have trusted what he was telling me. At my age, you'd think I would have known better. But my heart is an organ I have no control over, now I got to figure out how to repair the damage. Duct tape, anyone?

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layla22	1/28/2009 10:35:33 PM jasmi, so sorry this happened. next time, don't let him drag out the first meeting for many, many months into the future....especially when it has gotten to his saying, "i love you" and apparently giving you all kinds of other signals that all was "go" on his end. some are just players or using online chat and opposite sex relationships to fill time in their isolated or emotionally barren lives. you deserve better, and will find that "true" and "better" man!
jasmi	1/29/2009 4:40:12 AM layla, thank you for your kind words, I appreciate it!
flirty_me_1	1/29/2009 6:52:00 AM Jasmi, Love on line is not really love, think about it..You don't really know the person..until you meet. I know there are emotions, but rule of the advice columns is that a meeting should be scheduled within three weeks or something is really wrong with the situation.. Him gone now is better than if you had actually met and then it happened..I have been where you are so I say this from painful experience. Little time will make you see that when they say they love you too soon, and on line only..something like real life is missing..
ladyvirtue123	1/29/2009 11:31:57 PM I'm so sorry you were deceived by this man..I dont like to see anyone hurting..I am thankfully over the tremendous hurt I went through with my ex..thank god..I never thought the day would come, but it did..it wasnt just time that helped heal me, but his hateful actions towards me helped it along..hang in there sweetie..
luvallnurses	1/30/2009 6:12:12 AM Now that just makes me angry jasmi...flirty and layla are correct though...it is hard to pick up on some of the nontruths they tell due to distance...I am praying you will not give up... I truly believe there are men here who have experienced the same ting that you have...and I am ever hopeful that I will meet one of them in person before my designated date of profile deletion...
susansheart839	1/30/2009 8:42:41 AM I am so sorry you got hurt by a liar on the internet! Perhaps this is a life lesson and you will guard your heart more carefully in the future. I was caught up with an online romance, moved 3,000 miles to be with him, married him, only to find out I was sloppy second to the computer girls and alcohol! So I speak from experience. I am sending angels your wear to help ease your pain.
jasmi	1/31/2009 12:52:00 PM Thanks all of you for your kind words. I still feel like such a fool!
susansheart839	2/1/2009 12:33:21 PM Jasmi, think of it this way: here you are beating yourself up over a man who did not honor your worth and he is on to another woman already, not caring about how he hurt you. STOP IT. I can see your worth, can you? (Beating you up in a nice way with love, g/f)
layla22	2/1/2009 8:23:43 PM a pig is a pig and a moron is a moron....plain and simple. lowering yourself to his level would not make you happy in the either the short or long run. next one you see coming with his behavior or issues, just call his bluff and watch him sputter as he realizes (slowly) that his game is no good w/you. i've dumped every one of those pigs or moronic types i've found----online or off. i hope you see yourself as the smart and healthy person here, jasmi, because you ARE.
layla22	2/1/2009 8:24:18 PM a pig is a pig and a moron is a moron....plain and simple. lowering yourself to his level would not make you happy in either the short or long run. next one you see coming with his behavior or issues, just call his bluff and watch him sputter as he realizes (slowly) that his game is no good w/you. i've dumped every one of those pigs or moronic types i've found----online or off. i hope you see yourself as the smart and healthy person here, jasmi, because you ARE.
sassyupnorth	2/2/2009 3:35:56 PM Jasmi.. keep your head high .. you deserve better
tinktoo	2/2/2009 6:09:57 PM you deserve better,,,,,,some men are i cannt explain
candas09	2/4/2009 9:25:16 AM Jasmi, He was not worth it, falling in love is a special gift, one that is usually shared emotional and physical. seems he was just playing with your mind, I feel for you, you will find much better, and you should meet in person before expressing your feelings to him,you seem like a kind person, you will meet your match, hell with him, you go!!