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Who would miss you?
by italianlady05 at 5/26/2009 5:02:57 PM


For those who know me, i'm not some moody downer type person. But when crap happens around me, to those i love and care about, it sometimes gets hard to always stay "up".
Gosh, i just wish i had a hidie hole to crawl in and come out again on a better day, a better week or month...
Maybe it's not having a partner to share my thoughts with, my sorrow about people that have disappointed me or friends who have been hurt. Their pain is my pain.

This made me think, hmmm..would anyone really even care if i wasn't around anymore? Not just on DH, i'm talking about on this planet.

Right now i think that the only one who would miss me would be my dog.


Comments

ncmark
5/26/2009 6:21:54 PM

Oh italianlady, you are so repeating things that have gone through my head on so many occasions. I don't think I'm a moody downer person either, but certainly very few people would miss me!

italianlady05
5/26/2009 6:30:42 PM

Trust me, this isn't some pre-death thought, it's just me thinking outloud. Does anyone truely care if i was here?

kfab1023
5/26/2009 8:31:24 PM

I would miss you my friend I really would Love you

iamnumber5
5/26/2009 8:42:19 PM

Awww I would miss all of you up above me. But I totally understand the feeling here. Im sure it has to do with just being so buzy and not taking the time to stop and just chat. Its a rat race, and we live in it. Now isnt that a hoot.

redrivers
5/27/2009 6:10:51 AM

oh, Donna..you know how i feel about you...and i know your children and grandchildren love you....so don't even think noone would miss you....you will be allright in awhile....just give it a few more days...

cocopuffs375
5/27/2009 6:34:45 AM

I know I don't talk to ya much anymore...but I would miss you darlin...True story...

lotus3
5/27/2009 10:16:45 AM

I don't know you, nor have I interacted with you, but if your kindness, compassion has touched people, you would be missed by family, friends real and online, co-workers, neighbors, and even a store clerk, or waitress, who always enjoyed seeing you, on an otherwise rough day. If you live, you do leave your footprint on others.

futureunknown3
5/27/2009 3:19:26 PM

I have the same feelings!!
mag_eleven



5/27/2009 4:50:01 PM

Come on!!..I'm not even gonna answer this!!...teehee.. muah! muah!...mikey

ldt_mic
5/27/2009 5:05:10 PM

ARE U KIDDING ME!!!! u are a sweetheart and this place would not be the same with out you...and that is a FACT!!!...I Love You!!

sassi_nepa
5/27/2009 5:37:12 PM

I know I've been missing you....we don't seem to be online at the same times (I haven't been on as much either), so if you disappeared altogether I would definitely be upset. Don't know what's up, but I'm here if you need me - even if it's just to listen and commiserate

newlife4me2
5/27/2009 6:48:09 PM

I know exactly how you feel and what you are talking about....and honestly, I have felt that same exact way for quite a very long time now......and that is no reflection on anybody else - just a reflection on the sheer overwhelming amount of 'stuff' I've been dealing with over the past two years.........For what it is worth...I would miss you....

rusty_shorts
5/27/2009 6:58:30 PM

You would be missed more than you think...

italianlady05
5/27/2009 7:11:09 PM

aww you guys are the best. Guess that is as close as i get to a pity party...i'm better. Problems are still there but i'm better. I think every once in a while it just gets to me that i have no one..and i have always liked that movie with jimmy steward and i know i have touched lives but really, i just want to disappear sometimes and let others handle their own problems (my kids!!!!!). My shoulders can only hold up so much ya know??? I just get tired of being the strong one who always holds it all together! sigh...thanks..i love you all too!

63jb
5/27/2009 8:20:45 PM

I was just thinking today about if I left DH who would I wonder about. Many more of you than I could have imagined 6 months ago. There may be scammers online but I have noticed many real, good people and will always remember their kindness. thx to all.

happyface46
5/28/2009 10:46:01 AM

Probably as we were looking down from above; we would surprised at the amount of people who would actually miss us... Unfortunately most don't realize until we are gone... I am amazed at the amount of love I have found on a computer.. Even though i grow weary as a single mom with not a lot of help. I do believe I and all the single moms would be greatly missed. I would miss you also.. Love kats

romancer15
5/28/2009 1:05:54 PM

Hey doll, i have the same feeling but be lucky that you have friends outside the computer and inside the computer. Myself I got tired of people disappointing me and live my life like a hermit. I have my business and my regular job and thats all I do. I don't have friends and the only people in my life is my mom, my kids every other weekend and my dog Sassie and honestly feel maybe the world would be a better place if I was dead, but live on only to see my kids. I wish I had friends to invite me to outings so my life wasn't so lonely and depressing Hell I don't even have friends on the computer. Suicide is so welcoming me but cant do that to my kids.

stormriders
5/28/2009 4:37:22 PM

I use to think I was nothing! But a friend pointed out that, I did not need to talk or hold some one to leave an empression. fact is many things unnotised by me, have been remembered nicely by peaple I did not know. Many more peaple know of me then I do of them. Just a Smile, can make someones day. And a Smile from you...priceless!

ncmark
5/28/2009 6:44:37 PM

Now see, all these people would miss you!

babs218
5/28/2009 7:38:53 PM

i would miss my italian ladyand your grand baby would too

grace_ful_heart
5/28/2009 8:04:16 PM

i often think those same thoughts donna! that's when i know it's time to do something for me like go get a massage. go get a pedi or massage.. ((hugs))

italianlady05
5/28/2009 9:00:57 PM

Have I told you guys i love you? Cuz i do ya know!I'm ok..i really am. Burned out with loser dates, dissappointed in one of my kids, but i'm a survivor. I've been playing sand volleyball with the young kids here (hunks in their 20's) and having a ball. At least i'm not moping around by myself. You all have written such wonderful thoughts. I so appreciate it. Wish you were all here so i could hug ya to pieces!
bklynbabi



5/28/2009 9:47:06 PM

Oh my god! When I read ur blog I immediatly thought of the Jimmy Stewert movie "It's a Wonderful Life" & was gonna recomend u watch it, then as i scrolled down, seen u mention it 1st. It was brave of u 2 reach out & share like that & as u c so many of us can relate 2 such feelings. Glad ur feeling better though, I'm Italian 2 & recieve the unwavering love of 2 adorable cats (who can't stand eachother though, hehehehe)

babs218
5/29/2009 4:14:23 PM

i think ur one of the prettist women on here men are just losers and our kids? don't even get me started ..i often tell mine how am i still alive?..u tried to kill me a couple times...lol ur the greatest donna and don't ever forget it

wileyguy
online now!
5/29/2009 6:55:12 PM

it's another one of those things we take for granted.sometimes we get so involved in our lives we lose track of others and their perspective but we never really forget.chin up

627gf
5/30/2009 7:36:55 AM

Now matter how we feel we allways have a inpack on the lifes we touch. Were not offen awere of this it is nice of poeple that suround you too let you no how much you meen too them. My son is the most in portent person in my life and makes me feel needed and wanted. Look around you i am sure people find you a comfort too be around.

dunitall
online now!
5/30/2009 11:00:44 PM

Of course you'd be missed, your a sweet kind and loving person

jon1947
5/31/2009 1:12:16 AM

I know that no one but my little dog would miss me. I have a greatgrandson that I haven't been allowed to see. I have five grandkids and none of them try and contact me. Keep you chin up. I know it hard. It even harder when you can't sleep for nights on in.

proseparty
5/31/2009 5:20:00 AM

In Illinois there is a law that gives grandparents rights to grandchildren, etc. What has happened is that we now have to consider: How much am I willing to pay so I can receive my right! Jon, you are not the only one who can't see their grand kids because their kids have judge them and can't forgive. Thanks for the blog and putting yourself out there! italianlady05, I not sure if I wauld miss you, when I clicked on your profile - you are invisible!!!
jasie52



5/31/2009 10:40:15 AM

I feel many of us have at one time or another felt as you have in light of all the many responses received. Being a positive person I still feel the depths of despair at times. For myself I wonder what is my purpose on this old planet. I am not sure yet and then the question arises would anyone care if I was around. Of course my children, I am very lucky in that aspect of my life. But I want more. I ahve many friends, both male/female but it is not the same. I want someone in my life to love and be loved. It is the times when I feel the loneliness is when I ponder and question. Would anyone miss me, I am not sure!

patsy09
online now!
6/1/2009 2:29:09 PM

I would miss everyome on dh who either amkes me laugh, someimes, commierates an sometimes makes me realize we are all alike in one way or another...somedays everyone need a helping hand or just a smile..so here is hoping all of us enjoy each other and the people who would really miss us if we were gone!!as I am always saying...Keep Smilin...keep shinin....knowing you can always count on me..thru the bad times..the good times....that's what friends are for!! hang in there!! you would be missed!!