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Why?
by fb1966 at 11/25/2011 11:00:45 AM

I just got out of a bad relationship, so I don't know why I'm even on this site. I guess it's because I just don't want to be alone. I certainly don't want another woman who thinks she knows what's best for me more than I do. I have a brain and I like using it. I'll be damned if I ever let another woman control me. I made a commitment to be with this woman and I fought to keep her for over ten years. I didn't want to change her, but I weren't about to let her run my life. I wasn't doing anything wrong but I was being punished like I was. I enrolled in college so that I could make sure she had everything. I got sick of having a job I hated. Either I didn't get paid enough or the job really sucked. I'm not lazy, but I refuse to do a $20/hr job for minimum wage. I'm sorry, but I'm worth more than that. Women think a man needs to be totally handsome to be the man they want. Is that man going to treat them right? I doubt it. Is an average man going to treat her right? You betcha! Why?...because a "chip and dale" can get any woman he wants and therefore will move from one to another. I'm an average man and I know in my heart that I WILL treat a woman with respect, kindness, love and compassion. After all, isn't that what a woman says she wants?

Comments
sireena	11/25/2011 11:39:30 AM Like this blog is about respect, kindness and love? Get real dude and stop pissin in your pants. You were with this broad for 10 years and now you're crying about how bad it was? Sounds to me like you didn't want to work....gee....I'd have to pass on even a "Chippendale" who stayed unemployed for 10 years! Reality check time....
george1965	11/25/2011 12:03:05 PM Jobs are hard to come by.
gracflhrt	11/25/2011 12:11:04 PM It takes two to tango... Both play a part in it going right, OR it going wrong..I'm not into the blame game... I can only take ownership of the part I played..
sireena	11/25/2011 12:11:41 PM Ah George...don't feed into this BS.....jobs were not hard to come by 10 years ago! And he says he went to college? Going to college does more than just educate/prepare you for specific jobs. It "should" broaden your horizons across many spectrums! Sounds to me like this guy just thought he was "too" good for the jobs he was qualified for. Who cares where the cash comes from? As long as the bills are getting paid and both the man and woman are doing their best...they are gonna be happy...end of story. Oh...and I take issue with people who bash their ex's when he/she is not around to tell their side of the story......we need to READ BETWEEN THE LINES!!!
oxonhill online now!	11/25/2011 12:17:56 PM ROXY HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD...GO GF !!...KITKAT