Im Mike 30 years old and im from south eastern connecticut (norwich and griswold) im half irish and half french plus im a gemini..Im looking for someone who has the same interests as me and someone i can enjoy doing things with together n who will make me smile and make me feel good about myself and not put me down and make me feel bad..im looking for a woman that is very sweet and very unique and that is affectionate plus faithful and caring...if you think you are that women and you are interested in me or if you have any questions please feel free to contact me Heres a few things im looking for in a women She has a life of her own She never makes the first move She is sexy without being trampy She waits to have sex A independent woman A woman who can take a joke What do men look for in a women??? •Men look for health (physical, psychological, emotional, fiscal). •Men look for the outward appearance of physical health, e.g. clear, bright eyes, a body not too overweight and not too underweight, clean lustrous hair, clean nails, clean body, few if any blemishes. •Men want someone beautiful but "beauty is in the eye of the beholder." •Men want someone beautiful and we objectively know what this is. A Discovery health program stated that men overwhelmingly, cross culturally, cross generational are visually attracted to women who have a 70% ratio from waist to hips. Meaning waist is 70% size of hips. Beauty contestants across the decades have been this way even though they are much slimmer now than 10-20 years ago. Marilyn and Twiggy were both 70% ratio. It is also interesting to know that this is also an immediate indicator of health. •Men want a woman who is honest, who he can trust completely, who is not likely to sneak around and sleep around with other guys. •Someone with similar interests so they have something in common. •A woman who will make an effort to please him. •A woman who makes an effort to look her best. •An appreciation of the man's job. •Passion •A woman whose ego isn't bigger than her hairstyle. •A partner for his life. •A partner for his soul. •Someone who is caring. All men want to be looked after. •Someone who has faith in him. •A woman who is strong yet sometimes submissive. •A woman who is strong but does not have an attitude. •Someone who is not too loud. •Someone who won't nag him beyond reason. •A woman who challenges him and is full of the unexpected. •An interesting woman. •An intelligent woman. •A woman who is not dumb (mediocre intelligence is fine). •A woman who is smart enough to grasp new concepts. •Someone artistic or creative. •A woman can take care of herself without feeling that she has to compromise herself in a relationship. •Someone who suits their individual personality. •Some guys like an aggressive woman. •Some guys like silent and reserved type. •Someone in-shapeathletic. •Interdependence, so that you trust and need each other. •A sense of humor. •A woman with a nice laugh. •A positive personality. •Men want a woman who is comfortable with her own sexuality. •Someone up for action, or willing to get a little kinky in the bedroom. •A talent and passion in something worthwhile. •Men respect and want a woman who knows her own mind; women who are true to themselves. •Someone relaxed and confident. •A woman with a good soul. •A woman who has a great smile and loves to laugh and be herself but can also be intelligent and serious.